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<\/p>\nPuede ser realmente dif\u00edcil reconocer si t\u00fa u otra persona est\u00e1is siendo ego\u00edstas y cu\u00e1ndo lo est\u00e1is siendo. Normalmente, cuando una persona empieza a cuestionarse y a preguntarse, <\/b>\u00bfSoy ego\u00edsta? <\/i><\/b>significa que son ego\u00edstas desde hace tiempo (y no se dan cuenta en absoluto).<\/b><\/p>\n
Also, we often see our significant others in better lights than they actually are. We are vulnerable to selfish partners because we love them so much, and sometimes we can\u2019t think clearly.<\/p>\n
If you think that you (or someone close to you) might be selfish, below, you’ll find the <\/b>signos de ego\u00edsmo<\/b> que todos <\/b>gente ego\u00edsta<\/b> tienen en com\u00fan.<\/b> But before that, let’s first define what selfish behavior really is.<\/p>\n\u00bfQu\u00e9 son los comportamientos ego\u00edstas?<\/h2>\n
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Basically, selfish behavior means being concerned exclusively for oneself, one’s own needs, pleasure, advantage, etc. Como indica la palabra, el ego\u00edsmo es lo contrario del desinter\u00e9s (<\/b>altruismo<\/b>).<\/b><\/p>\n
Ser ego\u00edsta significa no preocuparse por c\u00f3mo se sentir\u00e1n los dem\u00e1s con nuestras decisiones, palabras y acciones. Por eso las personas ego\u00edstas suelen tomar decisiones impulsivas y evitan afrontar las consecuencias posteriores.<\/p>\n
N\u00f3tese que ego\u00edsmo no es lo mismo que <\/b>autocuidado<\/b>. <\/b>Practicar el autocuidado<\/a> significa anteponerse a uno mismo en aras del propio bienestar, pero tambi\u00e9n ser considerado, emp\u00e1tico y estar dispuesto a transigir con los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n El comportamiento ego\u00edsta puede estar relacionado y\/o causado por adicciones, comportamiento controlador<\/a>, narcisismo<\/a>e inseguridades en una relaci\u00f3n. En pocas palabras, todas las versiones del ego\u00edsmo se basan en desatender los deseos y necesidades de los dem\u00e1s, lo que puede verse en los siguientes signos de individuos ego\u00edstas.<\/p>\n La incapacidad o falta de voluntad para comprometerse, el comportamiento manipulador y la falta de esfuerzo son los principales rasgos de los individuos ego\u00edstas. A veces, estos rasgos son claramente visibles, mientras que otras veces, las cosas no son tan sencillas.<\/p>\n Detecting selfish inclinations is the first step to dealing with them and improving your relationships with other people. With that said, below, you’ll find selfish traits explained in detail:<\/p>\n Being slightly selfish isn’t always a bad thing (especially when we’re talking about the need to have some “me time”). However, it can become a problem when someone becomes demanding and thinks only about their own interests.<\/p>\n Gente ego\u00edsta<\/b> always give the impression that it\u2019s their way or the highway. <\/b>By doing that, they’re taking advantage of others. Friendship or any type of relationship without compromise can never work.<\/p>\n Here’s an example of a <\/b>acto ego\u00edsta<\/b> en una relaci\u00f3n:<\/b><\/p>\n One partner always makes decisions for both of them regarding the places they go and things they do. They ignore their partner’s ideas or don\u2019t even want to listen to what they have to say.<\/p>\n Ser ignorado<\/a> en una relaci\u00f3n es una enorme se\u00f1al de alarma, independientemente de su trasfondo. En otras palabras, estar con una persona ego\u00edsta que constantemente impone sus formas ego\u00edstas a su pareja es una receta para una relaci\u00f3n infeliz y poco saludable.<\/p>\n Los individuos ego\u00edstas tienen esa necesidad de controlarlo todo (especialmente cuando se trata de relaciones rom\u00e1nticas). They don’t allow others to express their opinions, make decisions, and so on.<\/b> \u00bfPor qu\u00e9?<\/p>\n Because they love being in control of their own life, their partner’s life, and basically everyone else’s life. By doing that, selfish people damage their loved one’s mental health.<\/p>\n If we’re going to look at it from a psychological <\/b>punto de vista<\/b>siendo un <\/b>mani\u00e1tico del control<\/b> suele estar estrechamente relacionada con <\/b>problemas de confianza<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n Por ejemplo, si alguien ha sido enga\u00f1ado antes (o herido por otros de cualquier otra forma), se volver\u00e1 cauteloso sobre en qui\u00e9n conf\u00eda en el futuro.<\/p>\n This overly precautious behavior can turn into legit control-freak behavior. So, that’s when they become selfish, not because they want to hurt the other person, but because they want to protect themselves.<\/p>\n Este tipo de personas (l\u00e9ase: ego\u00edstas) son capaces de manipular no s\u00f3lo a personas al azar, sino tambi\u00e9n a sus mejores amigos, allegados e incluso familiares. Son egoc\u00e9ntricos, mentirosos compulsivos<\/a>y despreocupado por los dem\u00e1s, tanto en las redes sociales como en la vida real.<\/p>\n Su necesidad de manipulaci\u00f3n se basa en su comportamiento orientado a conseguir lo que quieren a cualquier precio.<\/b><\/p>\n La Dra. Nina Brown, en Psychology Today, lo explica de la siguiente manera:<\/p>\n \u201cVery self-absorbed people are clear in their minds as to what they want or need whether this occurs in the moment or longer term. It is not necessary for them to articulate their wants or needs so that others understand their goal or objective, and indeed, if asked, they may not be able to do so or want to verbalize this. However, <\/i>su comportamiento est\u00e1 orientado a la consecuci\u00f3n de objetivos, y su objetivo y sus acciones se centran en conseguir lo que quieren sin importar el coste o la incomodidad de los dem\u00e1s.<\/i><\/b>“<\/i><\/p>\n As\u00ed que.., sea sincero consigo mismo<\/a> when trying to answer the question, \u201cAm I selfish?\u201d Do you see any similarities (manipulative tendencies) in your behavior? Do you prioritize your goals over other people’s happiness and well-being?<\/p>\n Como la palabra indica, ego\u00edsmo significa centrarse \u00fanicamente en uno mismo y conseguir cosas con un esfuerzo m\u00ednimo o nulo. Individuos ego\u00edstas<\/b> lo quieren TODO, y lo quieren AHORA. <\/b>They don’t care about the possible consequences or how their actions affect other people.<\/p>\n I know this very well because I’ve been in a relationship with a selfish person, resulting in me experiencing severe ansiedad en las relaciones<\/a> y desarrollar una estilo de apego ambivalente<\/a>.<\/p>\n As\u00ed que tengo algunas cosas que compartir contigo para ayudarte a entenderlo mejor:<\/b><\/p>\n \u2022 When someone doesn\u2019t put in the effort to make things work, that\u2019s an obvious sign they’re not interested or engaged in a relationship.<\/p>\n \u2022 That kind of attitude tells you they probably don\u2019t have serious plans for the future.<\/p>\n \u2022 If only one side is investing time, energy, and even money, you know there is something wrong.<\/p>\n \u2022 Behavior like this is a clear sign that the person you\u2019re dating is immature, irresponsible, and selfish.<\/p>\n If you’re with a <\/b>persona ego\u00edsta,<\/b> and they don’t bother giving you their best, why should you?<\/b> This is something I should’ve asked myself a long time ago, but I guess it’s never too late.<\/p>\n Selfish people don’t understand the need to compromise and be a part of a team. Teamwork means listening and validating other people’s desires and ideas, which is something selfish individuals aren’t ready to do.<\/p>\n En cambio, desean centrarse \u00fanicamente en s\u00ed mismos y en alcanzar sus objetivos.<\/b> Given that teamwork is an essential part of every relationship, people who aren’t team players will have difficulty establishing a healthy relationship with their partners.<\/p>\n Siempre que te preguntes, \u00bfSoy ego\u00edsta? <\/i>think about whether you’re a team player or more of an independent player ignorant of other people’s needs, goals, and wishes.<\/p>\n If you hate teamwork, there must be a reason you’re not fond of it.<\/b> \u00bfCrees que el \u00fanico camino correcto es el tuyo, y que formar parte del equipo no te permitir\u00eda ponerlo en pr\u00e1ctica? Pues pi\u00e9nsalo.<\/p>\n Selfish individuals never apologize because they lack self-awareness. They are not even aware of their selfish actions because, in their minds, they’re doing the right thing. Here’s what I’ve learned about dealing with <\/b>gente ego\u00edsta<\/b> que nunca se disculpan:<\/b><\/p>\n \u2022 If you try talking to them about it, they’ll grab the focus and leave you wondering why you even bothered approaching them in the first place.<\/p>\n \u2022 They will also call you out on ser sensible<\/a>.<\/p>\n \u2022 If someone is not able to admit their mistakes or doesn\u2019t even see them, you might be dealing with a very egoistic or persona narcisista<\/a>. Este tipo de comportamiento ego\u00edsta es siempre una se\u00f1al de alarma.<\/p>\n Does this sound familiar to you? Do you find it difficult to apologize when you hurt someone or make a mistake? Do you always think that you’re right and others should apologize to you instead?<\/i><\/p>\n Si la respuesta es afirmativa a todas las preguntas anteriores, entonces ya conoce la respuesta a la pregunta principal \u00bfSoy ego\u00edsta?<\/i> es un s\u00ed directo<\/b>.<\/p>\n Keep in mind that we all make mistakes, but apologizing after we\u2019ve said or done something hurtful or offensive should be a rule.<\/p>\n A selfish kind of person protects their own self-interests, which means generosity and selflessness aren’t in their vocabulary. C\u00e9ntrate en ti mismo sin sentirte culpable<\/i><\/a> is their motto. Don’t get me wrong.<\/p>\n There’s nothing wrong with focusing on yourself, but if that’s the only thing you’re focused on, you might have a problem with self-centered <\/b>rasgos de personalidad<\/b> (<\/b>ego\u00edsmo malo<\/b>).<\/b><\/p>\n Esto incluye tambi\u00e9n ego\u00edsta en la cama<\/a>En la que esperas que tu pareja haga todo el trabajo y se centra en satisfacer tus necesidades. El principio de dar y recibir no es algo que debamos dar por sentado.<\/p>\n Si te das cuenta de que tienes problemas para dar, piensa en la psicolog\u00eda que hay detr\u00e1s:<\/b><\/p>\n Do you have difficulty putting yourself in someone else’s shoes, empathizing with them, and focusing on their happiness?<\/i><\/p>\n \u00bfEst\u00e1s orientado hacia ti mismo, es decir, centrado \u00fanicamente en tomar todo lo que puedas sin dar nada a cambio?<\/i><\/p>\n Si recibir es lo \u00fanico que puede hacerte feliz y dar te hace sentir miserable, entonces sabes que tienes tendencias ego\u00edstas.<\/p>\n Selfish people use sweet words just in case they need something from you. Most of their communication is negative or neutral because they don\u2019t feel like they need to make you feel better.<\/p>\n Si est\u00e1s tratando con alguien que casi siempre s\u00f3lo te dice cosas negativas y te echa la culpa de todo, eso puede ser un signo de violencia verbal y psicol\u00f3gica. <\/b>abuso emocional<\/b><\/a>.<\/b> En una relaci\u00f3n sana no debe haber lugar para los juicios y las cr\u00edticas constantes.<\/p>\n La gente ego\u00edsta nunca reh\u00faye hablando a tus espaldas<\/a>, either. They don’t really care about how this will make other people feel as long as they’re “having fun” while gossiping.<\/p>\n They don’t understand the consequences of negative communication because they seldom think about it.<\/b> They’re primarily concerned with how they feel at the moment and not about how their choice of words impacts others.<\/p>\n Si te sientes identificado con algo de esto, entonces deber\u00edas reevaluar tu comportamiento.<\/p>\n Am I selfish? Well, selfishness can manifest in many different forms, and one of them is disrespecting other people’s time. A selfish person doesn’t bother showing up on time or valuing other people’s time in other circumstances.<\/p>\n Adem\u00e1s, creen que los dem\u00e1s est\u00e1n obligados a estar a su lado siempre que los necesiten. <\/b>The problem here is that they aren’t ready to give the same treatment in return.<\/p>\n En mi opini\u00f3n, el tiempo es la moneda m\u00e1s valiosa, porque nunca se recupera. Ojal\u00e1 lo hubiera sabido antes de dejar que una persona ego\u00edsta jugara con mis sentimientos, me hiciera esperar y me enviara se\u00f1ales contradictorias.<\/p>\n If you’re doing the same thing to others, then I’ll repeat: It’s time to re-evaluate your behavior and start practicing selflessness.<\/p>\n Selfish people don\u2019t recognize the hard work someone is putting into a relationship. Even though you\u2019re exhausted from giving so much of yourself, they never appreciate it because it\u2019s never enough for them.<\/p>\n Socios ego\u00edstas (a <\/b>esposa ego\u00edsta<\/b><\/a> o un <\/b>marido ego\u00edsta<\/b><\/a>) will always require more than their partners can give, even though they don\u2019t try at all.<\/b><\/p>\n If someone never expresses gratitude for nice things you do all the time, then you\u2019re dealing with a very selfish individual who is always only about satisfying their needs. So, one of the biggest decisiones que cambian la vida<\/a> ser\u00eda protegerse de ellos.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, si perteneces a la cuadrilla de los ego\u00edstas y exiges constantemente m\u00e1s a tus allegados, p\u00e1rate un momento a pensar en la validez de tus actos ego\u00edstas.<\/p>\n\u00bfSoy ego\u00edsta? 10 rasgos de las personas ego\u00edstas<\/h2>\n
1. Todo tiene que estar bajo sus condiciones<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n2. Son fan\u00e1ticos del control<\/h3>\n
3. La manipulaci\u00f3n es su pasatiempo favorito<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n4. Rara vez (o nunca) se esfuerzan<\/h3>\n
5. Odian el trabajo en equipo<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n6. Las personas ego\u00edstas nunca se disculpan<\/h3>\n
7. No son generosos ni dadivosos en absoluto<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n8. La mayor\u00eda de sus comunicaciones son negativas o neutras<\/h3>\n
9. They never value other people’s time<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n10. Nada de lo que hagas es suficiente para ellos<\/h3>\n
Reflexiones finales<\/h2>\n