{"id":23024,"date":"2020-07-10T11:35:02","date_gmt":"2020-07-10T11:35:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=23024"},"modified":"2022-04-22T01:18:12","modified_gmt":"2022-04-22T01:18:12","slug":"6-cosas-para-hacerle-entender-que-en-realidad-no-quieres-que-vuelva","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-cosas-para-hacerle-entender-que-en-realidad-no-quieres-que-vuelva\/","title":{"rendered":"6 Cosas para hacerle entender que en realidad no quiere que vuelva"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Cuando se te pasa por la cabeza tu ex novio, cosa que \u00faltimamente ocurre con demasiada frecuencia, sientes nostalgia. Le echas de menos y est\u00e1s segura de que es con \u00e9l con quien quieres estar, a pesar de todo lo que ha pasado entre vosotros dos.<\/p>\r\n<p>Well, it\u2019s time to start doubting your own feelings when it comes to this guy. Because there is a huge possibility that you only think you miss him and that you\u2019ve only convinced yourself you still have feelings for him.<\/p>\r\n<p>There is a huge possibility that you actually don\u2019t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/quiero-recuperar-a-mi-ex-tanto-que-duele\/\">quiere recuperar a su ex<\/a> en tu vida, y aqu\u00ed tienes 6 cosas que te ayudar\u00e1n a entenderlo por ti mismo.<\/p>\r\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">1. You don\u2019t love him\u2014you just got used to him<\/span><\/h1>\r\n<p>La verdad es que este chico es tu zona de confort de la que te da miedo salir aunque eso es exactamente lo que deber\u00edas hacer. Te has acostumbrado a \u00e9l y esta relaci\u00f3n representa algo familiar para ti, a pesar de toda su negatividad.<\/p>\r\n<p>Piensas que quieres a ese chico, pero en realidad no es m\u00e1s que un viejo h\u00e1bito que te cuesta cambiar. Mientras que usted piensa que usted est\u00e1 anhelando para su ex, en realidad est\u00e1 anhelando para esta sensaci\u00f3n de familiaridad que \u00e9l le ha estado dando.<\/p>\r\n<p>Deep down, you don\u2019t want to get back on the dating market, and you don\u2019t feel like letting someone new into your life. So the best possibility for you would be to come back to this guy. After all, you know that to expect from him, and you know how things would turn out this time.<\/p>\r\n<p>Trust me on\u2014going back to someone just because you got used to them and the sense of belonging they gave you is one of the worst things you can ever do to yourself.<\/p>\r\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">2. Es el mismo hombre que era<\/span><\/h1>\r\n<p>Cuando piensas en volver con tu novio, en el fondo esperas que esta vez las cosas sean diferentes. Esperas que \u00e9l cambie.<\/p>\r\n<p>But the truth is that he won\u2019t. You need to understand that this guy is the same man he was and that the of you will have all the same differences and problems if you get back together.<\/p>\r\n<p>Nothing has miraculously changed in your personalities and between the two of you just because you\u2019ve taken some time apart.<\/p>\r\n<p>Yes, it is likely that you will have a honeymoon phase when you get back together, but things will soon go back as they were. After all, you broke up for a reason, didn\u2019t you?<\/p>\r\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">3. You don\u2019t miss him\u2014you only miss having a boyfriend<\/span><\/h1>\r\n<p>If you\u2019ve been in a long term relationship, you\u2019ve gotten used to having a romantic partner. And this is what you actually miss. You miss this sense of belonging and partnership which you had while you were in a relationship.<\/p>\r\n<p>This means that you are actually scared of your single life. What you don\u2019t know is that this can be the time of your life if you just learn to embrace it and focus on taking the best of it.<\/p>\r\n<p>This can be a time in which you focus on yourself instead of on your partner. A time in which you understand that you actually don\u2019t need a man to be happy and that you are a complete person on your own.<\/p>\r\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">4. S\u00f3lo te centras en los buenos recuerdos<\/span><\/h1>\r\n<p>Cuando miramos algo en retrospectiva, tendemos a centrarnos en los buenos momentos y a dejar de lado los malos recuerdos, porque son los que queremos olvidar.<\/p>\r\n<p>Y esto es exactamente lo que haces cuando se trata de tu ex. Te olvidas de todas las l\u00e1grimas que lloraste por \u00e9l, y s\u00f3lo recuerdas c\u00f3mo era capaz de hacerte sonre\u00edr. Olvidaste todas las veces que discutisteis, y s\u00f3lo recuerdas los momentos felices.<\/p>\r\n<p>You focus on the beautiful memories that the two of you had together and on this guy\u2019s qualities while you completely disregard his flaws.<\/p>\r\n<p>Ver tu \u00faltima relaci\u00f3n a trav\u00e9s de unas gafas de sol de color de rosa hace que parezca tentadora. La ves mejor de lo que fue en realidad y es natural que quieras recuperar esa versi\u00f3n idealizada.<\/p>\r\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">5. Tienes miedo de sentirte solo<\/span><\/h1>\r\n<p>It is natural to feel a little bit lonely and empty after you end a relationship. But that doesn\u2019t mean that you miss or love your ex.<\/p>\r\n<p>It just means that this feeling is unfamiliar to you, and it scares you. But what you don\u2019t know is that being single and alone isn\u2019t as same as being lonely.<\/p>\r\n<p>Remember\u2014you are more than enough for yourself. Besides, I\u2019m sure there are other people in your life who you deeply care about besides your ex and these are exactly the people you should focus on to help you fill this void.<\/p>\r\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">6. Su ego est\u00e1 herido<\/span><\/h1>\r\n<p>There are times when you don\u2019t want to have someone back in your life because you really think they deserve to be there. Sometimes, you feel heartbroken but actually the only thing which is hurt is your ego.<\/p>\r\n<p>Y no hay nada malo en sentirse as\u00ed.<\/p>\r\n<p>It\u2019s quite simple\u2014you want to prove to yourself that you can always have this person, who was once yours, back. You want to prove to yourself that you still have an impact on this guy and that you are still important in his life. <!--codes_iframe--><!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>\r\n\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-41121\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/herway.net-13.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/herway.net-13.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/herway.net-13-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/herway.net-13-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When your ex boyfriend crosses your mind, which has been happening a little too often lately, you feel nostalgic. You miss him, and you are sure that he is the one you want to be with, despite everything that has happened between the two of you. 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