{"id":2315,"date":"2021-09-07T11:00:27","date_gmt":"2021-09-07T11:00:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2315"},"modified":"2022-01-09T15:49:56","modified_gmt":"2022-01-09T15:49:56","slug":"la-verdad-es-que-ya-no-lo-intento","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-verdad-es-que-ya-no-lo-intento\/","title":{"rendered":"La verdad honesta es que he terminado de intentarlo contigo"},"content":{"rendered":"

This is it… mi \u00faltimo adi\u00f3s<\/a>. A partir de este momento, he terminado. Odio ser quien lo diga, pero... I’m done trying <\/a>contigo.<\/p>\n

I never was a quitter, and you know that giving up is something I hate the most, but this time, I\u2019m left with no other option. Actually, you left me no other option.<\/p>\n

Odio cortar todos los lazos de cuando era feliz (me <\/b>FUE FELIZ<\/i><\/b> siendo el <\/b>palabras clave<\/b> aqu\u00ed). <\/b>But, it\u2019s been a while since I last felt verdadera felicidad<\/a>o desde que sent\u00ed que mi amor era correspondido.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve come to the point where I\u2019ve realized that I’ve caught myself holding onto something that maybe was never even there.<\/i><\/p>\n

Odio tener esta sensaci\u00f3n y esta necesidad de darle otra oportunidad. <\/b>Something (it’s probably my naive and weak heart) keeps telling me that just maybe if I gave it one more chance, we could make it work.<\/p>\n

Que tal vez si me esfuerzo m\u00e1s esta vez, las cosas ser\u00e1n diferentes.<\/p>\n

El \u00fanico problema es que nunca fui yo quien necesitaba darnos otra oportunidad. Nunca fui yo quien tuvo que esforzarse m\u00e1s y poner m\u00e1s empe\u00f1o en todo esto.<\/i><\/p>\n

I keep repeating to myself that I am not the one that\u2019s leaving this relationship in debt. And, I\u2019ll make sure I keep reminding myself about this. It truly does help me ease the pain.<\/p>\n

I’m Officially Done Trying To Stay In Your Life<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

You were always telling me that I’m the toughest, bravest, and strongest woman you have ever met in your life. I don’t know if this is true or not, but the truth is that I feel tired to the bone right now.<\/p>\n

I’m tired of constant overthinking. I’m tired of my heart aching for so long. My soul is beyond tired of <\/i>segundas oportunidades<\/i><\/a>. <\/i>I’m tired of trying.<\/i><\/a><\/p>\n

I\u2019m done putting all of my efforts<\/b><\/a> en alguien que lleva mucho tiempo viviendo en la gloria de la vieja fama.<\/b><\/p>\n

I am done questioning whether I am worth enough just because someone I\u2019m with doesn\u2019t care to make an effort.<\/b><\/p>\n

I hate being the one to reach out on social media and call you first all the time. I hate being the one that always needs to insist on spending time with you\u2014don\u2019t I deserve to get some attention as well?<\/p>\n

You were polite towards me, but that\u2019s not what I needed. The truth is all I needed was love, honest efforts, and for you to make me feel like you are my home.<\/i><\/p>\n

You said I made you feel like I am your safe haven. I was your calm in your own chaos while you, on the other hand, were my… Well, you were the chaos in my calm.<\/b><\/p>\n

Necesitaba saber que puedo contar contigo tanto como t\u00fa mismo.<\/p>\n

The ugly truth is you were never insecure about me; you were insecure about yourself. The only problem is\u2014you\u2019ve projected it onto our relationship.<\/i><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve done everything to prove to you that you have me and you\u2019ve done nothing but fail me over and over again.<\/p>\n

I accepted and fell in love with you the way you were and I would have lasted like that for a thousand years more, but the feeling wasn\u2019t mutual.<\/b><\/p>\n

Me has hecho cuestionarme todo lo que soy, y siempre me he preguntado qu\u00e9 es lo que tengo que cambiar para que te fijes en m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

La verdad es que mis propias expectativas me perjudican<\/h3>\n

I\u2019ve tried to meet your expectations; I tried to be likable by you the way I\u2019ve never tried with anybody else in my life.<\/p>\n

I have no idea what more there is to be done. So I\u2019m finished. I\u2019m out of ideas to make you love me again or make you love me at all.<\/p>\n

Now, I am left insecure about everything we had before. You\u2019ve made me question everything we lived together and everything I felt.<\/i><\/p>\n

I\u2019m wondering what the hell made you want to be with me in the first place. You were aware from the very beginning that I’m not la persona adecuada para usted<\/a>Entonces, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 te quedaste y continuaste enga\u00f1\u00e1ndome?<\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda que esto valiera la pena. De verdad que s\u00ed. Pero odiaba <\/b>ser el \u00fanico que lo intenta <\/b><\/a>y dese\u00e1ndolo.<\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019d hate to look back on a few previous months and see them as a complete waste, but that feeling is getting under my skin slowly.<\/p>\n

I\u2019d hate to see I\u2019ve wasted my time and all my love on someone who took it for granted.<\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019m done trying to make you bigger in the eyes of my friends. I hated them for saying I was wasting my time with you.<\/p>\n

Intent\u00e9 demostrar que estaban equivocados, pero fuiste t\u00fa quien demostr\u00f3 que en realidad ten\u00edan raz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Siento que no hay futuro para nosotros. As\u00ed que.., Yo soy <\/a><\/b>he terminado de intentarlo contigo<\/b>. Me cans\u00e9 de tratar de encontrar nuevas maneras de hacerte feliz y salvar nuestra relaci\u00f3n (obviamente equivocada).<\/b><\/p>\n

Me cans\u00e9 de esperar<\/b><\/a> for you to wake up. You\u2019ve been asleep for too long. And I\u2019ve moved far away while you were sleeping.<\/b><\/p>\n

He terminado de hacerte mi prioridad cuando en realidad, Yo s\u00f3lo era una opci\u00f3n para ti<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Lo triste es que la <\/i>lo \u00faltimo<\/i> Siempre quise dejar de creer en ti. En nosotros.<\/i> I never gave anybody\u2019s negative talk about you the benefit of the doubt because I was sure you were born to do extraordinary things. Perhaps you were, but only without me by your side.<\/p>\n

I am done cheering for you. I don’t want to continue disregarding my life for someone I\u2019m completely sure doesn’t even give a damn about me.<\/p>\n

Sincerely, I don\u2019t blame only you<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t ask for any of this. It\u2019s just when I love, I love with my entire heart. I give everything.<\/p>\n

Me entrego por completo porque espero todo a cambio. I <\/b>don\u2019t do half-assed love<\/b><\/a>. I either do it right or don\u2019t do it at all.<\/b><\/p>\n

I guess that\u2019s how it goes in relationships\u2014you never know if somebody is worthy or not. You have to let them show it to you until you\u2019re already in it too deep.<\/p>\n

Me cans\u00e9 de intentar ser el brillo de tu vida. He terminado de tratar de hacerte feliz y orgulloso de m\u00ed.<\/i><\/p>\n

Because I just can\u2019t meet the expectations you have of me. I just can\u2019t be that girl you want me to be.<\/p>\n

Obviamente, nada de lo que hac\u00eda era suficiente para ti, y nunca estabas plenamente satisfecha. As\u00ed que I\u2019m done.<\/a><\/p>\n

To fill the void you have left, I would have needed to be somebody else and that would kill me. I\u2019d hate to see myself change for you just so you could set a new milestone again.<\/p>\n

\u00bfTerminar\u00eda alguna vez? \u00bfEstar\u00eda alguna vez completamente satisfecho de c\u00f3mo soy o de c\u00f3mo ser\u00eda? Lo dudo.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve given my best, and the saddest thing of them all is the fact that my best wasn\u2019t enough.<\/b><\/p>\n

I never noticed my flaws until I met you. Then, upon looking at myself in the mirror, I kept wondering if I\u2019d changed some things, would you have wanted me more?<\/p>\n

But there would always be something you\u2019d like to change about me, so what\u2019s the point? It\u2019s easier to let you find someone else than it is to completely change myself.<\/p>\n

I\u2019d just like you to know that I am not the first one to give up on us. You are the one that walked away a long time ago; you just stayed physically present.<\/i><\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo estoy haciendo lo que t\u00fa me hiciste hace mucho tiempo, pero tengo las pelotas de hacerlo bien.<\/p>\n

I’m walking away<\/h3>\n

Dejar ir<\/a> y alejarse<\/a> from something that\u2019s hurting me now is less painful than staying. Because for me, to stay would mean to die. Die inside.<\/p>\n

By walking away, even if that walk is painful, I\u2019m giving us the chance to meet the <\/b>persona adecuada<\/b> who\u2019ll love us the way we deserve. I am sorry I couldn\u2019t be that person for you.<\/b><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que los primeros d\u00edas oficialmente sin ti me matar\u00e1n. Porque pasara lo que pasara, t\u00fa eras mi parte favorita del d\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Eras mi santuario y me encantaba acurrucarme a tu lado. Me encantaba la ilusi\u00f3n de tenerte, aunque fuera un poco.<\/i><\/p>\n

In the first few days, you won\u2019t even notice I am not there. Even if you notice my absence, you\u2019ll thank God for the space you\u2019ve got.<\/p>\n

Pero, al final, todo te golpear\u00e1. Y I promise you\u2019ll miss me<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll miss the person who took care of you. You\u2019ll miss the person that loved you unconditionally.<\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll miss the person that did everything to make you happy. And you\u2019ll think of me as the person who doesn\u2019t care about you anymore.<\/p>\n

I know our roads are going to cross again and you\u2019ll meet me holding another man\u2019s hand and greeting you with a smile.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll see I\u2019m steady and I might secretly want that guy to be you. I might find in that guy everything I was waiting for from you.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t ever be steady upon meeting you. <\/i>You\u2019ll always be my \u2018<\/i>\u00bfY si<\/i>\u2019 <\/i><\/a>porque odio vernos fracasar.<\/i><\/p>\n

I will find somebody who\u2019ll care for me as I cared for you. I will find somebody who\u2019s gonna respect me as I respected you.<\/p>\n

I will find somebody who knows I\u2019m worthy just as I once saw you like that. I will find somebody I\u2019ll mean the whole world to, just like you did once to me.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s when it will hit you. That\u2019s when you\u2019ll realize what I\u2019ve known from the beginning.<\/p>\n

We could\u2019ve had it all, if only you had cared enough.<\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll see me with the person who had no need to see me with somebody else to know my value.<\/p>\n

I’m Done Trying Quotes <\/b><\/b><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u200b\u200b\u200b\u200bDo you know what helped me come to the final decision about walking away from you? These quotes below. I empathize with each and every one of these \u2018I’m done trying\u2019 quotes below.<\/p>\n

Los dej\u00e9 aqu\u00ed para que entiendan todo lo que pas\u00e9 y sigo pasando y para todas las personas que est\u00e1n en el mismo lugar que yo hace un tiempo.<\/i><\/p>\n

Espero que estas citas hagan magia contigo como lo hicieron conmigo. Tambi\u00e9n espero que te ayuden a ordenar tus pensamientos y sentimientos para que puedas tomar la mejor decisi\u00f3n posible. La mejor para ti, por supuesto.<\/p>\n

1. “I get a little tired of people telling me what might have been. I think I\u2019ve done OK. I don\u2019t dwell on what might have been.” \u2013 Ken Griffey Jr.<\/p>\n

2. “Every time I say I\u2019m done, I find myself trying again.” \u2013 Kaye Gurrea<\/p>\n

3. “Sometimes it\u2019s just done\u2026 Just <\/b>marcharse<\/b> and move on\u2026 No ugly words\u2026 No formal goodbyes\u2026 Just no more.” \u2013 Unknown<\/b><\/p>\n

4. “Perfection to me is, I walk away from a situation and say, \u2018I did everything I could do right there. There was nothing more that I could do.\u2019 I was a hundred percent, like the meter was at the top. There was nothing else I could have done. You know? Like, I worked as hard as I possibly could have. That\u2019s perfection.” \u2013 Drake<\/p>\n

5. “When a thing is done, it\u2019s done. Don\u2019t look back. Look forward to your next objective.” \u2013 George C. Marshall<\/i><\/p>\n

6. “I\u2019m done with those; regrets are an excuse for people who have failed.” \u2013 Ned Vizzini<\/p>\n

7. “I\u2019m done with trying to keep people in my life.” \u2013 Jeetu Pal<\/b><\/p>\n

8. “Sometimes you have to give up on people. Not because you don\u2019t care, but because they don\u2019t.” \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n

9. “It always seems impossible until it\u2019s done.” \u2013 Nelson Mandela<\/p>\n

10. “I\u2019m done trying with you. If you really want me to stay in your life, do something to make me stay.” \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/b><\/p>\n

11. “I\u2019m officially done trying. If you want me in your life, you can come find me. Until then, continue treating me like I don\u2019t exist.” \u2013 <\/b>Quinton Riley<\/b><\/p>\n

12. “I\u2019m guilty of giving people more chances than they deserve, but when I\u2019m done, I\u2019m done.” \u2013 Turcois Ominek<\/p>\n

13. “I\u2019m done with trying to seek other people\u2019s approval. From here on out, it\u2019s just me approving of myself. I\u2019m done.” \u2013 Unknown<\/b><\/p>\n

14. “Emotionally, I\u2019m done; mentally, I\u2019m drained; spiritually, I\u2019m dead; physically, I smile.” \u2013 Unknown<\/b><\/p>\n

15. “Have a <\/i>buena vida<\/i>. I\u2019m done trying to be in it.” \u2013 Unknown<\/i><\/p>\n

16. “I look back on my life like a good day\u2019s work, it was done, and I am satisfied with it.” \u2013 Grandma Moses<\/p>\n

17. “Once you give up, you know you\u2019re done.” \u2013 Gerald Green<\/b><\/p>\n

18. “It\u2019s sad to know I\u2019m done. But looking back, I\u2019ve got a lot of great memories.” \u2013 Bonnie Blair<\/p>\n

19. “I\u2019m done chasing people. If they want to be in my life, they will be \u2013 if not, then that\u2019s their loss.” \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n

20. “I won’t cry anymore, I\u2019m done with the heartbreak and all the tears that come with it.” \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n

Just so you don’t lose faith in true love, remind yourself of the true power of love with these conmovedoras frases de amor<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, si necesitas \u00e1nimos para seguir caminando hacia adelante en la vida, sobre todo una vez que decidas seguir adelante, sigue a estos inspiradores frases de la vida<\/a> y ll\u00e9nate de un \u00e1nimo extra para seguir adelante.<\/p>\n

All In All, I’m Letting You Go…<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Dejar ir<\/a> is heartbreaking, but sometimes, it’s our only option. Mi \u00fanica opci\u00f3n en este momento es <\/i>marcharse<\/i> de ti sin siquiera mirar atr\u00e1s.<\/i><\/p>\n

Todas esas peleas y <\/b>maquillajes<\/b> me dren\u00f3 emocionalmente. Me siento como<\/b> Me perd\u00ed<\/b><\/a> because I don’t recognize myself at all anymore.<\/b><\/p>\n

I’m done trying to stay in your life when it’s obvious I’m not welcome there anymore. Or maybe, I never was. Maybe all this time, I was living a delusion that the only person I love loves me back.<\/p>\n

It all doesn’t matter right now because, for the first time, I’m choosing myself over you<\/a>y, extra\u00f1amente, se siente bastante bien. This time, I’ll be the one who is <\/b>alej\u00e1ndome de ti<\/b><\/a>, from us… forever.<\/b><\/p>\n

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