{"id":23167,"date":"2018-09-12T08:58:52","date_gmt":"2018-09-12T08:58:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=23167"},"modified":"2022-06-29T11:38:11","modified_gmt":"2022-06-29T11:38:11","slug":"10-cosas-que-las-parejas-deberian-probar-al-menos-una-vez-para-aumentar-su-intimidad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-cosas-que-las-parejas-deberian-probar-al-menos-una-vez-para-aumentar-su-intimidad\/","title":{"rendered":"10 cosas que las parejas deber\u00edan probar al menos una vez para aumentar su intimidad"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>After some time, marriage kind of becomes boring because you\u2019re stuck in a routine. You\u2019re stuck doing the same things all over again. And this is the biggest killer of the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/15-powerful-signs-of-chemistry-between-two-people\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">qu\u00edmica entre dos personas<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n<p>Lentamente <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuando-se-acaba-la-intimidad-en-una-relacion\/\">mata la intimidad<\/a> which is the foundation of every successful relationship. Okay, it\u2019s not completely gone. There are moments when you can\u2019t get your hands off of each other, but those moments become less frequent as the years go by.<\/p>\r\n<p>You don\u2019t have to be scared if this happens because it\u2019s normal! When you\u2019re living with the same person for some time and when you know how they act and what is their routine, it\u2019s normal that after some time the excitement is gone.<\/p>\r\n<p>Aunque esto ocurra, hay una forma de evitarlo. Tienes que tomarte tu tiempo y tratar de construir la pasi\u00f3n con tu pareja, y as\u00ed elevar el nivel de intimidad en vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\r\n<p>If you don\u2019t, it\u2019s probable that your relationship will fail. Both of you can put up with non-excitement and boredom in a relationship for some time, but after a while it becomes frustrating.<\/p>\r\n<p>This is how you\u2019ll increase the level of your intimacy, and keep your relationship alive and more radiant than ever. The most important thing is investment from the both of you.<\/p>\r\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong>1. Reconoce el m\u00e9rito de tu compa\u00f1ero<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\r\n<p>Acknowledge your partner and the things they do. Maybe you\u2019re not on the same page with them right now, maybe you don\u2019t like what they are doing, but if they are trying and giving their best, then you have to give them credit for that.<\/p>\r\n<p>Hazles saber que respetas el hecho de que se est\u00e9n esforzando. Esto les dar\u00e1 una palmadita en la espalda, y ser\u00e1n capaces de hacer cosas a\u00fan mayores.<\/p>\r\n<p>Una persona tiene que tener un comienzo y, si se anima, conseguir\u00e1 incluso m\u00e1s de lo que cre\u00eda que era capaz.<\/p>\r\n<p>And by making them feel acknowledged, you\u2019re going to increase your intimacy level. Your partner will be thankful for your support, and they will pay you back by opening up and showing more emotions.<\/p>\r\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong>2. Dormir desnudo despu\u00e9s del sexo<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\r\n<p>Sex isn\u2019t the only form of intimacy you can experience. It\u2019s perfect, it\u2019s nice, but it doesn\u2019t always involve emotion sharing and love making. Sometimes all that sex is used for is to get things out of your system and blow some steam off.<\/p>\r\n<p>Si esto le ocurre a menudo, la \u00fanica forma de aumentar su nivel de intimidad es intentar compartir emociones. Y hay una forma de hacerlo. Despu\u00e9s de practicar sexo, tumbaos desnudos el uno junto al otro.<\/p>\r\n<p>Stay quiet and cuddle if you want. But don\u2019t let that feeling pass. Keep it and enjoy it. This will increase your intimacy and put a new twist in your relationship.<\/p>\r\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong>3. Recuerde los buenos momentos y mire hacia el futuro<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\r\n<p>Get that wedding album off of the dusty shelf. Wipe it, and relive your happy memories. Photographs of your biggest day will bring you back to the time when you were crazy for each other and when you couldn\u2019t keep your hands off of each other.<\/p>\r\n<p>Or if you\u2019re not married, try to remember the good times\u2014your first date or some funny or unusual things that happened to you when you just started dating.<\/p>\r\n<p>This will bring that old happy feeling, that honeymoon phase back, and it will bring you closer together. Even when you talk about what you did and where you\u2019ve been, maybe something crazy and exciting comes to your mind and you decide to do it or you decide to recreate something romantic or fun you did once before.<\/p>\r\n<p>De cualquier forma, la intimidad aumentar\u00e1 y mantendr\u00e1 viva vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\r\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong>4. 4. Mantener el contacto visual<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\r\n<p>Never avoid your partner\u2019s eye contact. The eyes are mirrors to the soul, and you can get to know everything about someone by just one look into their eyes because<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/que-significa-el-contacto-visual-prolongado-de-un-hombre-a-una-mujer\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> eyes can\u2019t lie<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n<p>By gazing into each others eyes, you\u2019ll create a bond that cannot be easily broken. Eyes reflect our vulnerability, and they give away so much more than we want to admit.<\/p>\r\n<p>So, sometimes when you don\u2019t feel like telling your partner everything that\u2019s on your mind, or you simply just can\u2019t, one look into your eyes is enough to make him understand what you\u2019re going through.<\/p>\r\n<p>Make this a regular thing. Try to keep eye contact in complete silence for a few minutes every day, and you\u2019ll see how much you\u2019ll find out about each other without even saying a word.<\/p>\r\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong>5. Re\u00edr juntos<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\r\n<p>Comparte risas. Abre tu alma y tu coraz\u00f3n y \u00e9chate a re\u00edr. Nada puede acercaros m\u00e1s el uno al otro que esto.<\/p>\r\n<p>It\u2019s an experience that you\u2019re sharing. It only lasts that one particular moment, and it\u2019s never going to happen again, at least not in the same way.<\/p>\r\n<p>You\u2019re going to remember the time when you laughed your heads off, and it will always stay a happy memory which can still bring a smile to your face even months after it has happened.<\/p>\r\n<p>This way you\u2019re bonding with that person and increasing the intimacy level because the two of you shared something that was only between you and no one else.<\/p>\r\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong>6. Dejar notas<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\r\n<p>Sexy, romantic, any kind of notes. Surprise your partner before you leave for work, and write down a note for him. It doesn\u2019t have to be anything important, just something written down on a piece of paper.<\/p>\r\n<p>Un recordatorio de que est\u00e1s aqu\u00ed en su vida y de que les quieres m\u00e1s que a nada.<\/p>\r\n<p>Estamos hartos de pantallas y mensajes de texto. Haz algo a la antigua usanza, como escribir un poema o dejar una nota en el espejo.<\/p>\r\n<p>Or if you\u2019re feeling kinkier than usual, write down on a piece of paper your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/lista-de-cosas-que-hacer-antes-de-morir-2\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">lista de deseos sexuales<\/a> and how you\u2019re feeling that moment, and leave him craving for more. Believe me, when you come back, that will sweep him off his feet.<\/p>\r\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong>7. Seguir saliendo<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\r\n<p>Always keep that spark alive, and find time for just the two of you. Whether you\u2019re in a marriage or a committed relationship, you have to have time to spend with your partner.<\/p>\r\n<p>You have to find time to talk, laugh or cry. The important thing is that you\u2019re alone with each other and that you feel free to open up and talk about everything without being disturbed.<\/p>\r\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong>8. Sexo p\u00fablico<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\r\n<p>Just the thought of this is exciting. Doing it in a public place will definitely bring excitement into your relationship. If you haven\u2019t tried it and your relationship is starting to become boring, then go out there and do it.<\/p>\r\n<p>Y en el lado positivo, tienes ese miedo a que te pillen que ambos compart\u00eds en ese momento que tambi\u00e9n os unir\u00e1 m\u00e1s.<\/p>\r\n<p>And if you do get caught, you\u2019ll always have something to laugh about later on.<\/p>\r\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong>9. Romper la rutina<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\r\n<p>La rutina es el mayor enemigo de toda relaci\u00f3n exitosa. Te quedas atrapado en ella, poco a poco tus d\u00edas se vuelven iguales, te cansas de ella y quieres salir.<\/p>\r\n<p>This is the most frequent killer of every relationship. So, to keep things on the bright side, try to do something different every now and then. Bring some change to break the routine, and you won\u2019t get sick of your relationship.<\/p>\r\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong>10. Qui\u00e9rete y resp\u00e9tate<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\r\n<p>You\u2019ll be happy with your relationship once you\u2019re happy with yourself. If you\u2019re not satisfied with yourself and if you don\u2019t respect yourself, your partner will look at you the same way. The negative energy you\u2019re radiating will transfer to your partner.<\/p>\r\n<p>This will screw up your intimacy, too. If things aren\u2019t good and clear between you, you can\u2019t keep your communication running. And if there is no communication, the intimacy can\u2019t grow.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-40632\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/herway.net-6.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/herway.net-6.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/herway.net-6-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/herway.net-6-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>After some time, marriage kind of becomes boring because you\u2019re stuck in a routine. You\u2019re stuck doing the same things all over again. And this is the biggest killer of the chemistry between two people. It slowly kills intimacy which is the foundation of every successful relationship. Okay, it\u2019s not completely gone. There are moments&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":23168,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23167","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/miranda-wipperfurth-376840-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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