{"id":23172,"date":"2020-06-12T09:10:15","date_gmt":"2020-06-12T09:10:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=23172"},"modified":"2022-01-20T15:41:11","modified_gmt":"2022-01-20T15:41:11","slug":"todo-lo-que-necesito-es-un-hombre-al-que-realmente-le-importe-una-mierda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/todo-lo-que-necesito-es-un-hombre-al-que-realmente-le-importe-una-mierda\/","title":{"rendered":"Todo lo que necesito es un hombre al que le importe una mierda."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>No puedo creer que siga creyendo en el amor despu\u00e9s de todo lo que he pasado, pero lo creo. Creo que est\u00e1 en alg\u00fan lugar ah\u00ed fuera para m\u00ed. S\u00f3lo que a\u00fan no me ha encontrado.<\/p>\n<p>And just because I believe in love, it doesn\u2019t mean I am not scared of it at the same time. Every time I gave my heart to someone, they would only return it more scattered than before.<\/p>\n<p>Para ser sincera, estoy cansada. Parece que estoy chocando contra un muro de ladrillo, y mi vida amorosa esencialmente no va a ninguna parte. Estoy corriendo en c\u00edrculos sin fin con los hombres que s\u00f3lo me hacen perder el tiempo.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>The universe isn\u2019t paying attention. I said I want a man who actually gives a shit about me, not a man who treats me like shit. There is a huge difference.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>By now, all I experienced was lousy treatment, men who didn\u2019t know what they wanted from life\u2014let alone me\u2014the ones that give their all at first and suddenly pull away, the ones that aren\u2019t ready.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96215\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato de mujer joven y hombre al aire libre en la calle teniendo problemas de relaci\u00f3n\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>To be honest, I am sick of it. That\u2019s why I decided to be clearer about what I want from a man. I decided it\u2019s time to change my bad taste in men and wait for someone who cares about me.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>I need a man who can\u2019t imagine the whole day passing without hearing from me.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/mientras-tu-estabas-demasiado-ocupado-sin-importarle-una-mierda-ella-se-rindio-contigo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Nadie est\u00e1 demasiado ocupado<\/a> enviar un mensaje de texto o llamar al menos una vez al d\u00eda. S\u00f3lo te llevar\u00e1 unos minutos, pero significa mucho. Significa que est\u00e1 pensando en ti. Significa que est\u00e1 dispuesto a invertir en vuestra relaci\u00f3n. Significa que le importas.<\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t make excuses anymore for men who forget all about me as soon as I leave their sight. I refuse to allow anyone who doesn\u2019t make even a tiny bit of effort to waste my time.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Necesito un hombre que arda en deseos de verme.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I hate that feeling when somebody is \u201cmeh\u201d about you. I want someone who will miss me when he doesn\u2019t see me for a while. I want to feel my bones almost breaking from his hug.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96214\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-catching-woman-in-hug.jpg\" alt=\"hombre cogiendo a mujer en un abrazo\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-catching-woman-in-hug.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-catching-woman-in-hug-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-catching-woman-in-hug-768x509.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I want a passionate kiss \u2018hello\u2019 and at least a smooch \u2018goodbye\u2019. I need a man who is sure about his feelings. I can\u2019t handle half commitments and flakiness. I need a real man who is all in.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Necesito un hombre que me d\u00e9 m\u00e1s que palabras.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve had my fair share of empty words, false promises and \u201cI love you\u2019s\u201d which were never backed up with actions. Hearing things doesn\u2019t mean anything when you can feel it.<\/p>\n<p>I will value a man who shows me that he loves me more than the one who only talks about love. I want to feel like I am living in a dream because he treats me so well I can\u2019t believe it\u2019s real.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Necesito un hombre que se d\u00e9 cuenta de que me siento mal y haga todo lo posible por levantarme.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>No, I don\u2019t need a hero. I have been my own hero for a long time now. I just need a man who will be observant. Who won\u2019t leave when he sees how upset I am.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96213\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-comforting-to-crying-woman.jpg\" alt=\"hombre consolando a mujer que llora\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-comforting-to-crying-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-comforting-to-crying-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-comforting-to-crying-woman-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Who will stand right by my side even when he doesn\u2019t know what to say? I need a man who will listen and understand.<\/p>\n<p>Que suelta un chiste para hacerme sonre\u00edr un momento. Yo har\u00eda lo mismo por \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Necesito un hombre que est\u00e9 dispuesto a resolver los problemas y no a esconderlos debajo de la alfombra.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I want somebody who is ready to talk things out after every argument. Someone who doesn\u2019t turn his back on me and gives me the cold shoulder.<\/p>\n<p>I need somebody who doesn\u2019t blame me for everything and understands that our problems shouldn\u2019t be bigger than our love for each other. We can get through anything if we are both ready to work on it.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Necesito un hombre al que le guste por m\u00ed.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96212\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/a-smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer sonriente mirando a un hombre\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/a-smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/a-smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/a-smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Necesito <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/nunca-cambiara-para-un-hombre-a-menos-que-estas-5-cosas-empiecen-a-suceder\/\">a man who won\u2019t try to change me<\/a>. Necesito a alguien que me quiera tal y como soy. \u00c9l es el \u00fanico que podr\u00e1 soportar mis defectos y disfrutar de mis virtudes.<\/p>\n<p>He will proudly hold my hand and won\u2019t hesitate to tell the world that I am someone special to him. He will never put me down. He will be the one who gives me the push I need to be even better.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Necesito un hombre al que realmente le importe una mierda.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Only then all the things I listed above will go smoothly. It will all flow naturally. He will make an effort, I will make an effort, and we\u2019ll find each other halfway.<\/p>\n<p>En lugar de ser la \u00fanica que entrega su coraz\u00f3n, cuerpo y alma a la relaci\u00f3n, todo ser\u00e1 rec\u00edproco. Le esperar\u00e9, y <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/por-favor-no-te-conformes-con-alguien-con-quien-no-debias-estar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">I won&#8217;t settle for anything less<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96210\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/All-I-Need-Is-A-Man-Who-Actually-Gives-A-Shit-About-Me-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Todo lo que necesito es un hombre al que le importe una mierda.\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/All-I-Need-Is-A-Man-Who-Actually-Gives-A-Shit-About-Me-Pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/All-I-Need-Is-A-Man-Who-Actually-Gives-A-Shit-About-Me-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/All-I-Need-Is-A-Man-Who-Actually-Gives-A-Shit-About-Me-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I can\u2019t believe I still believe in love after all that I have been through, but I do. I believe it\u2019s somewhere out there for me. It just hasn\u2019t found me yet. And just because I believe in love, it doesn\u2019t mean I am not scared of it at the same time. Every time I&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":96211,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23172","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/All-I-Need-Is-A-Man-Who-Actually-Gives-A-Shit-About-Me.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23172","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=23172"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23172\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/96211"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=23172"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=23172"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=23172"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}