{"id":23189,"date":"2020-06-12T10:34:42","date_gmt":"2020-06-12T10:34:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=23189"},"modified":"2022-06-21T00:01:13","modified_gmt":"2022-06-21T00:01:13","slug":"una-carta-a-la-chica-que-ya-no-cree-en-el-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/una-carta-a-la-chica-que-ya-no-cree-en-el-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"Carta a la chica que ya no cree en el amor"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hola, chica,<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I know why you clicked on this article. You want to see that there is someone else who doesn\u2019t believe in love anymore, just like you.<\/p>\n

Quieres ver que no est\u00e1s solo, que no eres raro y que otros han tenido mala suerte igual que t\u00fa.<\/p>\n

Porque aunque sea tan triste cuando el amor muere y cuando dejas de creer en \u00e9l, de alguna manera mejora cuando ves a otra persona pasar por todo lo que t\u00fa pasaste.<\/p>\n

Aunque lo sientas por toda esa gente who don\u2019t believe<\/a> enamorado, te sientes mejor por no estar solo en todo esto.<\/p>\n

Supongo que te pas\u00f3 algo muy malo y por eso dejaste de creer en el amor.<\/p>\n

Quiz\u00e1 fue tu primer amor y eligi\u00f3 a otra mujer. Tal vez era la ni\u00f1a de tus ojos, pero nunca te puso en primer lugar. Tal vez ustedes dos nunca estuvieron destinados a estar juntos. Sea cual sea la raz\u00f3n, ahora te sientes como te sientes.<\/p>\n

Sientes que eres completamente roto<\/a> y como si nadie pudiera hacer nada para arreglarte.<\/p>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

You think that love won\u2019t come into your life anymore and that you are just so unlovable.<\/p>\n

You simply can\u2019t shake off all those negative thoughts in your head, and they consume you in the way you never believed they could.<\/p>\n

You feel that the way you think rules the life you run, and you can\u2019t do anything about that. And it gets worse and worse from day to day.<\/p>\n

Pero espera.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Just because you had one bad love experience doesn\u2019t mean that all men are the same. Just because you ran into a jerk who broke your heart doesn\u2019t mean that every other man who comes along will do the same thing.<\/p>\n

Please bear in mind that good things don\u2019t happen overnight. And be prepared that you will have to esperar al adecuado<\/a> que entre en tu vida y te muestre c\u00f3mo el amor puede ser hermoso.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give up on love so easily.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t make walls around your heart, so nobody can win you over. Don\u2019t close your eyes in front of the blessings that heaven sends you. Maybe happiness is in front of your nose, but you don\u2019t see it.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you need to change your perspective. You need to change your outlook on life because nothing is what it looks like.<\/p>\n

I know that you have been hurt and that there are deep scars on your heart, but what is the point of having a heart if you won\u2019t use it?<\/p>\n

\u00bfVas a vivir tu vida sin amor s\u00f3lo por una mala experiencia?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\u00bfVas a echar de menos todas las ma\u00f1anas acurrucada con el hombre de tu vida? \u00bfVas a echar de menos sus besos, sus abrazos y sus palabras de amor?<\/p>\n

Are you going to miss every \u2018I love you\u2019 from his mouth when you are going through a rough period of your life? And the happy ones too?<\/p>\n

\u00bfS\u00f3lo vas a <\/i><\/b>renunciar <\/i><\/b>\u00bftan f\u00e1cilmente chica?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u00bfRenunciar al amor, a los momentos de felicidad y alegr\u00eda, a todas esas veces que pierdes el aliento por sus palabras llenas de amor y cari\u00f1o?<\/p>\n

Dime, \u00bfmerece la pena no arriesgarse con el hombre adecuado?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\u00bfQuieres dar placer al equivocado para que te vea caer? \u00bfMerece ver que cerraste tu coraz\u00f3n al amor verdadero por su culpa?<\/p>\n

Let me answer this question for you: He doesn\u2019t!<\/p>\n

Just because he broke you doesn\u2019t mean that you can\u2019t be glued together. Just because hiri\u00f3 tus sentimientos<\/a> doesn\u2019t mean you can\u2019t find happiness again.<\/p>\n

Y s\u00f3lo porque es un gilipollas<\/a> doesn\u2019t mean others will be like that, too.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I want to show you how much you will lose if you continue behaving like that.<\/p>\n

Cr\u00e9eme, nadie quiere quedarse solo toda su vida sin amor, sin alguien que le alegre los d\u00edas y sin alguien que le quiera incondicionalmente.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I want to tell you that you should wake up. Wake up from that depression you got stuck into.<\/p>\n

Wake up and live\u2014that is your purpose after all.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Just because others didn\u2019t give you love doesn\u2019t mean that you shouldn\u2019t give it to someone else. Just because your heart has been broken doesn\u2019t mean you shouldn\u2019t use it anymore.<\/p>\n

And just because you failed the first time doesn\u2019t mean you should give up on the next one.<\/p>\n

Creo en ti, y s\u00e9 que detr\u00e1s de esa ni\u00f1a peque\u00f1a y asustada, hay una mujer<\/a> con el coraz\u00f3n de una leona dispuesta a tomar las riendas de su vida.<\/p>\n

I know that you can do so much more than you think. And every time you stop believing in yourself, I will be here to give you that wind to your back. I will always be there to tell you that you should try and that you don\u2019t have anything to lose.<\/p>\n

Yo ser\u00e9 el fuerte cuando t\u00fa seas d\u00e9bil, y nunca dejar\u00e9 que te rindas. Porque el amor es algo demasiado hermoso como para renunciar a \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

\"Emotivo<\/p>\n

You will realize that if you just open your heart a bit, You will see how blessed you can be with the right one. If you give a love a shot, you won\u2019t feel like the last time.<\/p>\n

Esta vez ver\u00e1s c\u00f3mo es el amor de verdad. Cuando llegue el hombre adecuado, te devolver\u00e1 la fe en el amor. Te har\u00e1 sentir como nunca antes.<\/p>\n

Y ser\u00e1 la mejor sensaci\u00f3n para ti.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Y cuando eso ocurra, espero que recuerdes mis palabras mientras se abrazan<\/a> en sus brazos por la ma\u00f1ana temprano, sonriendo de placer. Espero que por fin seas feliz y que sientas la paz interior porque te diste otra oportunidad.<\/p>\n

Chica, espero que te sientas orgullosa de ti misma por ser lo suficientemente fuerte como para darle una segunda oportunidad al amor.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que lo soy.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Con amor,<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

El que una vez perdi\u00f3 la fe en el amor<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"Carta<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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