Women are terrified to compete with each other, according to a recent study. For real, and in an unhealthy way. When women are pitted against each other in the workplace, they freeze. They\u2019re unsure how to respond, and experience heightened levels of stress and anxiety which leads to a sloppy, incomplete and haphazard output. The same response is not evident when women are pitted against men or when men are up against other men.<\/p>\n
Bien, \u00bfa qu\u00e9 se debe esto? \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 las mujeres tienen miedo de competir? O, \u00bfes la verdadera pregunta aqu\u00ed \u00bfc\u00f3mo compiten las mujeres?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n Las mujeres manejan las situaciones de forma diferente a los hombres. Pueden encontrarse con las mismas circunstancias y reaccionar de manera completamente distinta a las del sexo opuesto. A veces, sus respuestas son mucho m\u00e1s complicadas.<\/p>\n Men have no fear. They will go aggressively and territorially after each other, no-holds barred. Women who are vying for the same professional positions or social seats compete in a more underhanded way\u2014through manipulative and passive-aggressive tactics. They want to appear friendly while knocking each other out\u2026 figuratively.<\/p>\n Since women are also more emotionally in-tune with themselves, it\u2019s important to be able to trust one\u2019s instincts. This means, if you believe that \u2018friend\u2019 of yours is out to get something you have, you\u2019re probably right. La intuici\u00f3n debe triunfar sobre<\/strong> outward perceptions of any particular situation you\u2019re contemplating.<\/p>\n Many times, we talk about \u2018going with our gut\u2019 or \u2018trusting our instincts\u2019. This is important. It\u2019s our internal self\u2019s way of screaming, \u2018Something\u2019s not right here!\u2019 If someone\u2019s body language doesn\u2019t match what\u2019s coming out of their mouth, f\u00edjate m\u00e1s en sus movimientos que en sus labios.<\/strong><\/p>\n Las mujeres son m\u00e1s propensas que los hombres a hacerse amigas de sus enemigos. Y har\u00e1n todo lo posible para asegurarse de que son confidentes de confianza antes de exponer sus verdaderos motivos.<\/p>\n The moral of the story is this\u2014if you have something you\u2019re eager to keep to yourself, make sure you don\u2019t let your guard down too easily. It\u2019s best to wade in the waters for a bit while this alliance is still new to ensure you stay protected.<\/p>\n Of course, we can\u2019t live in fear of having our deepest secrets revealed or being unable to confide in someone else. Las mujeres son criaturas sociales.<\/strong> It\u2019s important to develop lasting, trusted friendships with those of the same sex, and be able to rest, knowing your secrets are safe.<\/p>\n It\u2019s simply important to listen to your own inner voice first. And, realize when you may be on to something before it\u2019s too late. Everyone gives off energy\u2014positive or negative. Some are harder to read than others, but this just means we have to listen more closely, be more open.<\/p>\n Most women would prefer to work in environments with men rather than with other females. Why? Because the stress of having to compete in a complex way is eliminated. Not only that, but if a woman is surrounded by colleagues of the opposite sex, she suddenly becomes the center of attention. Everything she says or does is great, and if not, it\u2019s okay. She\u2019s allowed to make mistakes without permanently wearing a sign on her forehead.<\/p>\n The pressure is off when you\u2019re let off the hook. But, the silent competition that exists in a room full of women is exhausting and distracting. Even in situations in which the focus needs to be entirely on the task at hand, the whole room fills with catty chit-chat and sly tactics to plow each other over on the way to the top.<\/p>\n The real question is\u2014what\u2019s the big deal, anyway? Why do women do this to each other?<\/strong><\/p>\n Si todo el mundo fuera tan aut\u00e9ntico y amable como la imagen que intenta proyectar a los dem\u00e1s, el mundo ser\u00eda un lugar mejor. Las mujeres dejar\u00edan de sentirse presionadas para competir o para ser mejores que la persona sentada a su lado.<\/p>\n T\u00f3mese un momento para reflexionar sobre la realidad de esto. \u00bfTe suena a verdad? \u00bfCompite silenciosamente con los dem\u00e1s?<\/strong> O, \u00bftienes confianza en ti mismo para valerte por ti mismo y luchar por lo que crees sin importarte las consecuencias?<\/p>\n You see, the funny thing is\u2014women do<\/em> compete. We\u2019re all trapped by our own insecurities and we\u2019re all looking for that one person who isn\u2019t to guide us out of this cage, so we can finally be comfortable in our own skin.<\/p>\n \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 seguimos compitiendo y buscando esa seguridad exterior cuando deber\u00edamos mirar hacia dentro? Llega a un punto en el que puedas confiar en tu propia intuici\u00f3n sobre ti mismo, los dem\u00e1s y las circunstancias que te rodean porque conf\u00edas en ti mismo.<\/strong> Y, nada m\u00e1s importa.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Women are terrified to compete with each other, according to a recent study. For real, and in an unhealthy way. When women are pitted against each other in the workplace, they freeze. They\u2019re unsure how to respond, and experience heightened levels of stress and anxiety which leads to a sloppy, incomplete and haphazard output. 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