{"id":23290,"date":"2020-05-14T06:33:40","date_gmt":"2020-05-14T06:33:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=23290"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:38:06","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:38:06","slug":"se-arrepentira-de-haber-perdido-a-la-mujer-que-espero-a-que-se-arreglara","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/se-arrepentira-de-haber-perdido-a-la-mujer-que-espero-a-que-se-arreglara\/","title":{"rendered":"Lamentar\u00e1 perder a la mujer que esper\u00f3 a que se recuperara"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00a1S\u00e9 lo que est\u00e1 pensando! Est\u00e1 pensando: \"Es una buena mujer; me perdonar\u00e1, trabajar\u00e1 para superar esto. Otra vez\".<\/p>\n

Well, I wouldn\u2019t agree with that. Women are not quite like that.<\/p>\n

He thinks that she\u2019ll give him chance after a chance and keep putting up with his shit until he gets it together.<\/p>\n

She won\u2019t sacrifice her life waiting for him to \u2018find himself\u2019, to figure out what he wants. She\u2019s not an idiot.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t hate herself, and she doesn\u2019t want to punish herself by waiting on a man who doesn\u2019t know what he wants.<\/p>\n

She needs someone who is sure about her. Someone who won\u2019t think twice when it comes to her. She needs it, and she deserves it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u00bfSabes una cosa? La vida no es una pel\u00edcula y nunca pasa nada como en las pel\u00edculas.<\/p>\n

Ella se enamora de \u00e9l; \u00e9l la deja porque es demasiado para \u00e9l en ese momento; \u00e9l est\u00e1 intentando encontrarse a s\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\n

Entonces, ella se aflige y le sigue queriendo, y luego, cuando \u00e9l decide volver, cuando tiene una epifan\u00eda, ella salta a sus brazos, y viven felices para siempre.<\/p>\n

Hate to say it like this, but women today don\u2019t buy that crap. They can give you a chance or two, but if you blow it, they are gone.<\/p>\n

Obviamente, \u00e9l pensaba de otra manera, y la consecuencia de ello es que est\u00e1 dolido y arrepentido de haberla dejado marchar. Por desgracia para \u00e9l, nada de lo que haga la traer\u00e1 de vuelta.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Women can really take a lot and put up with almost everything when they are in love. I know because I\u2019ve been there, and I\u2019ve done that.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

When a woman falls in love, she doesn\u2019t expect a man to be a done project, and, let\u2019s say, a wrapped package ready to be unfolded.<\/p>\n

Sabe que dar\u00e1 mucho trabajo, pero se enamor\u00f3 de \u00e9l porque le vio potencial.<\/p>\n

Vio la clase de hombre que pod\u00eda ser y se ofreci\u00f3 a ayudarle a crecer y a ser mejor persona. Porque sabe que puede hacerlo si se esfuerza un poco m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Ella le ofreci\u00f3 su amor incondicional. Ella le ofreci\u00f3 estar ah\u00ed para \u00e9l, pero \u00e9l se aprovech\u00f3 de eso como hacen la mayor\u00eda de los hombres.<\/p>\n

Why can\u2019t there be someone who\u2019ll take this chance and become better? Why aren\u2019t <\/em>all\u00ed men who\u2019ll see that the woman they are dating is the best thing that ever happened to them?<\/em><\/p>\n

Why does it always have to end up with her broken heart and him regretting he acted like a piece of shit? Only then, it\u2019s too late to bring her back because she doesn\u2019t care anymore.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

She\u2019s learned her lesson.<\/p>\n

Las mujeres aguantan mucho cuando se trata de hombres.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 crees que la mayor\u00eda de ellas permanecen en relaciones abusivas? \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 alguien en su sano juicio aguantar\u00eda manipulaciones y juegos mentales<\/a>?<\/p>\n

Bueno, algunas mujeres lo hacen. Algunas tienen tanta paciencia y creen tanto que \u00e9l va a cambiar.<\/p>\n

Invierten sus emociones y su cordura en intentar ayudarle y llevarle por el buen camino.<\/p>\n

Usually this doesn\u2019t end well, and it leaves her broken, on the verge of completely falling apart.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And for what? For trying to help someone be a better person. And that\u2019s her reward?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

The truth is, when a man screws up chance after a chance, she will leave without looking back. Because, when a woman is done, she\u2019s done. There is no way back.<\/p>\n

She will miss him, but she won\u2019t come back to him. She is way smarter than that. And when this happens, when he realizes that his life was so much better with her in it, he\u2019ll want her back.<\/em><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll want her back, and he\u2019ll try to do anything to succeed. He\u2019ll change. He\u2019ll become more responsible.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll basically do everything she\u2019s been asking for so long. But that isn\u2019t going to cut it. Nothing he does will make her change her mind.<\/p>\n

No one in their right mind would come back to something they\u2019ve fought to run away from.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo una persona completamente loca volver\u00eda corriendo a mentir, manipular y falsificar promesas.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Usually, when men face this kind of emotional obstacle, they begin blaming their failures of getting back the women they\u2019ve lost on something else completely.<\/p>\n

Se consuelan diciendo que nunca fue la mujer adecuada para ellos. Si hubiera estado destinada a serlo, se habr\u00eda quedado.<\/p>\n

But deep down, they know it\u2019s not true.<\/p>\n

Ahora que est\u00e1 solo, ve lo mucho que ella val\u00eda. Se ha dado cuenta de que ella estuvo a su lado cuando toc\u00f3 fondo.<\/p>\n

Ella estuvo a su lado cuando necesit\u00f3 apoyo y un hombro sobre el que llorar.<\/p>\n

\u00c9l nunca respet\u00f3 eso, y nunca vio lo mucho que ella se esforzaba.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Every other woman he meets will never live up to her. Those future women will never be remotely close to the one he didn\u2019t appreciate.<\/p>\n

Any other will only love him at his best, but when the problems come rushing in and when things aren\u2019t that great, she\u2019ll leave him because she doesn\u2019t love him enough to stay.<\/p>\n

In those moments, he\u2019ll be so sorry that he let her go. In those moments, he\u2019ll realize what he had and what he lost.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you like Maria\u2019s work, check out her new book, \u201cOn Getting Over A Narcissist\u201d<\/a> <\/em><\/p>\n

\"Lamentar\u00e1<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I know what he\u2019s thinking! He\u2019s thinking, \u201cShe\u2019s a good woman; she\u2019ll forgive me, she\u2019ll work to get through this. Again.\u201d Well, I wouldn\u2019t agree with that. Women are not quite like that. He thinks that she\u2019ll give him chance after a chance and keep putting up with his shit until he gets it together….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":89147,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23290","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/He-Will-Regret-Losing-The-Woman-Who-Waited-For-Him-To-Get-His-Shit-Together.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23290","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=23290"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23290\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/89147"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=23290"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=23290"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=23290"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}