{"id":23398,"date":"2020-05-17T07:43:17","date_gmt":"2020-05-17T07:43:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=23398"},"modified":"2022-01-14T10:52:49","modified_gmt":"2022-01-14T10:52:49","slug":"7-razones-por-las-que-no-quiere-vincularse-emocionalmente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-razones-por-las-que-no-quiere-vincularse-emocionalmente\/","title":{"rendered":"7 razones por las que no quiere vincularse emocionalmente"},"content":{"rendered":"

The first thing you have to know is that you\u2019re not alone. You’re not the first and you won\u2019t be the last woman to encounter an emocionalmente no disponible<\/a> hombre y salir herido.<\/p>\n

Today, this is more and more frequent. Maybe it\u2019s because the dating world has become too fast and too available. You can have literally anything you want in a short period of time.<\/p>\n

Basta con echar un vistazo a Tinder y otras aplicaciones de citas. Las citas se han convertido en algo sin sentido y algo con lo que hay que acabar.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why men and women don\u2019t appreciate dating anymore. We don\u2019t even bother getting to know someone better.<\/p>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

If he or she doesn\u2019t work for us in the first hour or two, we move on because we know another one is just around the corner.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why women and men are more and more emotionally unavailable.<\/p>\n

Abrir tu coraz\u00f3n y dejar escapar tu vulnerabilidad no merece la pena.<\/p>\n

Aunque todos somos emocionalmente inaccesibles, algunas investigaciones demuestran que los hombres son m\u00e1s propensos a ser emocionalmente inseguros que las mujeres.<\/p>\n

Why is that? Why is it that every guy you\u2019re interested in doesn\u2019t want to get emotionally attached?<\/strong><\/p>\n

He\u2019s self-centered<\/h2>\n

\"Un
\nHe\u2019s a bit selfish and the reason he can\u2019t emotionally attach to you, or pretty much anyone, is because he loves himself too much and there is no love left for anyone else.<\/p>\n

He is not evil, he doesn\u2019t do it on purpose. He doesn\u2019t want to hurt you intentionally.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s just who he is. He has prioritized things in his life and he has put himself first, then a few spots are blank and then other things and people can be considered.<\/p>\n

This is both good and bad. It\u2019s good because rarely anyone can hurt him. If you don\u2019t care for anyone, you can\u2019t get hurt.<\/p>\n

But it\u2019s bad because he\u2019ll end up alone. He\u2019ll get old and when he does, he\u2019ll be sorry that he pushed everyone out of his life.
\nEs un jugador<\/p>\n

Es un jugador<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Se mantiene alejado emocionalmente de ti porque es un jugador<\/a>. He isn\u2019t serious about you and that\u2019s why he avoids committing.<\/p>\n

Si le pides que defina lo que ocurre entre los dos, evitar\u00e1 darte la respuesta.<\/p>\n

Los hombres como \u00e9l env\u00edan constantemente mensajes contradictorios. Un d\u00eda est\u00e1n encima de ti, te traen flores y te compran caramelos, y al d\u00eda siguiente no se les ve ni se les oye por ninguna parte.<\/p>\n

Si act\u00faa as\u00ed, lo m\u00e1s probable es que sea un jugador que nunca se apegar\u00e1 emocionalmente a ti ni a nadie.<\/p>\n

He can\u2019t admit he\u2019s wrong<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Maduro<\/a> men know to say when they are sorry. They know that if they\u2019ve made a mistake they have to answer for it and deal with the consequences.<\/p>\n

Pero este tipo act\u00faa completamente al rev\u00e9s. Act\u00faa como un ni\u00f1o porque es un hombre-ni\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t want to admit he is wrong because it\u2019ll hurt his ego. A man like that can never get emotionally attached.<\/p>\n

Because when you\u2019re in a relationship, you have to make compromises and you have to admit when you\u2019re wrong.<\/p>\n

That way you\u2019re showing respect to your partner and you\u2019re taking their feelings into consideration.<\/p>\n

Es un perfeccionista<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

He can\u2019t get emotionally attached because there will always be something about you that won\u2019t suit him.<\/p>\n

Quiere que act\u00faes seg\u00fan sus reglas, seg\u00fan algo que \u00e9l considera correcto.<\/p>\n

Anything other than that bothers him because he thinks it\u2019s not perfect.<\/p>\n

Nothing can ever be perfect but the thing is, he doesn\u2019t understand that.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t get that his behavior is not perfect either and that everyone makes mistakes, including him.<\/p>\n

He can\u2019t see that maybe he has done something that bothers you but you got past that because you\u2019re a mature person.<\/p>\n

El pasado ya le mordi\u00f3 una vez<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Le han hecho da\u00f1o antes, en el pasado. Tuvo una relaci\u00f3n que fracas\u00f3 y eso le afect\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Probablemente amaba a esa chica, pero no estaban destinados a estar juntos. Probablemente se abri\u00f3 a ella y ella le hizo da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

Once you get hurt, it\u2019s hard to start believing in love again. This is especially true when it comes to men.<\/p>\n

Que les dejen es lo peor que le puede pasar a su ego. Si eso ocurre, se prometen a s\u00ed mismos no volver a pasar por algo as\u00ed nunca m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

El resultado es que se encierran en s\u00ed mismos y nunca se vinculan emocionalmente, aunque lo deseen.<\/p>\n

Tuvo una infancia dif\u00edcil<\/h2>\n

\"ni\u00f1o<\/p>\n

Nuestra infancia determina nuestro futuro. Somos producto de cosas que ocurrieron en nuestro pasado.<\/p>\n

If your childhood was a happy one, you won\u2019t be traumatized, you won\u2019t have miedos subconscientes irracionales<\/a>.<\/p>\n

But if you\u2019ve been traumatized like he probably was, then you\u2019ll struggle with that for the rest of your life.<\/p>\n

Le hirieron emocionalmente, o le faltaron emociones cuando era ni\u00f1o y el resultado de esto es que se niega a vincularse emocionalmente o a dar a alguien la m\u00e1s m\u00ednima oportunidad de herirle.<\/p>\n

Es inseguro<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

\u00c9l tratar\u00e1 de salirse de la relaci\u00f3n en las primeras etapas s\u00f3lo para ver si te importa lo suficiente como para perseguirlo y tratar de recuperarlo. Esto es lo que le hace su inseguridad.<\/p>\n

His insecurity will make him test you how much you really like him and then he\u2019ll start emotionally pulling back, leaving you to wonder if there was something you did wrong and if you chased him away.<\/p>\n

But it was never you\u2014from the beginning, it was always him and the fact that he doesn\u2019t want to get emotionally attached.<\/p>\n

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