{"id":23410,"date":"2020-03-17T08:17:00","date_gmt":"2020-03-17T08:17:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=23410"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:53:44","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:53:44","slug":"6-formas-infalibles-de-responder-a-sus-senales-contradictorias","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-formas-infalibles-de-responder-a-sus-senales-contradictorias\/","title":{"rendered":"6 maneras infalibles de responder a sus se\u00f1ales contradictorias"},"content":{"rendered":"

Si est\u00e1s con alguien indeciso, alguien que aparece y desaparece de tu vida seg\u00fan sople el viento, debes de estar harto de todo.<\/p>\n

En lugar de perder el tiempo descifrando sus se\u00f1ales contradictorias, hay algo mejor que puedes hacer.<\/p>\n

Ya puedes tener preparada una respuesta para algunas de las situaciones m\u00e1s probables. Estas son 6 formas infalibles de responder a sus se\u00f1ales contradictorias:<\/p>\n

1. Don\u2019t get ahead of yourself<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Tuvisteis algunas citas, os mandabais mensajes todos los d\u00edas. Fue agradable y te acostumbraste.<\/p>\n

El lado malo de esto es que est\u00e1 empezando a alejarse<\/a> y tienes miedo de que todo entre vosotros termine antes incluso de haber tenido la oportunidad de empezar.<\/p>\n

Quieres enviarle un mensaje de texto y exigirle una explicaci\u00f3n por este comportamiento.<\/p>\n

However, that\u2019s the last thing you should do. It will only make you seem desperate and it will make him pull even further away.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que devu\u00e9lvele el silencio con silencio. Ign\u00f3ralo para llamar su atenci\u00f3n. Si le gustas de verdad y se ha asustado de c\u00f3mo van las cosas, se acercar\u00e1 a ti cuando recupere el sentido com\u00fan.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t, that\u2019s his loss and you will have your dignity intact. There is no point in chasing after anybody who isn\u2019t chasing after you.<\/p>\n

2. Deja de pensar demasiado y empieza a hacer<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

En lugar de pasarte el d\u00eda y la noche pensando en todas las situaciones posibles, deber\u00edas centrarte en ti mismo.<\/p>\n

Mantente ocupado. Encuentra algo que te interese. Inscr\u00edbete en alg\u00fan curso, ap\u00fantate a clases de baile, lee un libro, sal a correr. Vive tu propia vida.<\/p>\n

Isn\u2019t that better than staring at an empty screen trying to find hidden meaning behind his behavior? Learn to be your own priority and treat yourself with respect.<\/p>\n

3. Don\u2019t act like you are in a relationship until you officially are<\/h2>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Probablemente te gusta tanto que s\u00f3lo piensas en \u00e9l. Te sientes conectado.<\/p>\n

Hay algunas qu\u00edmica<\/a> between the two of you but you don\u2019t know where you stand.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t stop texting other men, don\u2019t cancel dates, don\u2019t close your other options until he is ready to close his. Don\u2019t treat him like your boyfriend until he is ready to be one.<\/p>\n

4. Investigar su pasado<\/h2>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Thanks to social media, finding out things about the guy you like isn\u2019t so difficult.<\/p>\n

Echa un vistazo a su cuenta de Facebook o Instagram. Hay algo por ah\u00ed que pueda contarte un poco m\u00e1s sobre \u00e9l?<\/p>\n

Si tienes ocasi\u00f3n de hablar con sus amigos, puedes preguntarles por \u00e9l, pero de forma sutil.<\/p>\n

Preg\u00fantale por su pasado y averigua si es de los que se comprometen o si le gustan los juegos.<\/p>\n

\u00bfTiene la costumbre de desaparecer cuando las cosas se ponen un poco m\u00e1s serias? \u00bfHabla mucho de ti? Son preguntas generales, pero con ellas puedes averiguar muchas cosas.<\/p>\n

5. Don\u2019t tolerate his behavior<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t tolerate someone who is flakey. He will text you all the time, then disappear for days.<\/p>\n

He will promise you the world one day and act like he doesn\u2019t know you the next.<\/p>\n

The more time and effort you give him, the more opportunities you give him to trample all over your feelings. You don\u2019t need a man who will only think of new ways to hurt you.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t have su mierda juntos<\/a>, if he is still not making your relationship official after you have been seeing each other for some time, don\u2019t waste time on him. You will be so much better off without him.<\/p>\n

6. Have \u2018the talk\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"primer<\/p>\n

Sooner or later his mixed signals will drive you nuts. When you reach that breaking point, you won\u2019t hesitate to ask where you stand and if this is going anywhere.<\/p>\n

Ask direct questions so he can\u2019t talk his way out of giving you concrete answers. Ask, \u201cWhat are we?\u201d, \u201c Are we exclusive?\u201d, \u201cCan we see other people?\u201d or something along those lines.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t get a concrete answer, you will at least know you are not in a relationship and that you should let him go.<\/p>\n

Por otro lado, si te dice que va en serio contigo y que ten\u00e9is una relaci\u00f3n, por fin podr\u00e1s respirar tranquila.<\/p>\n

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If you are with some who is indecisive, someone who appears in and disappears from your life as the wind blows, you must be sick of it all. Instead of wasting your time deciphering his mixed signals, there is something better you can do. You can already have an answer ready for some of the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":90273,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23410","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/6-Bulletproof-Ways-To-Respond-To-His-Mixed-Signals.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23410","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=23410"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23410\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/90273"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=23410"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=23410"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=23410"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}