{"id":23427,"date":"2019-09-17T09:03:12","date_gmt":"2019-09-17T09:03:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=23427"},"modified":"2022-05-09T00:20:43","modified_gmt":"2022-05-09T00:20:43","slug":"esfuerzo-es-un-reflejo-de-su-amor-por","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/esfuerzo-es-un-reflejo-de-su-amor-por\/","title":{"rendered":"Su esfuerzo es un reflejo de su amor por ti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>\u00bfHas estado alguna vez en una situaci\u00f3n en la que diste todo tu coraz\u00f3n a alguien que no pod\u00eda corresponderte? <\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>In a situation where you invested all of your energy into a relationship with someone who wasn\u2019t giving you anything back?<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>\u00bfAlguna vez ha estado esperando a que alguien pusiera el <a href=\"\/es\/10-senales-de-que-no-se-esfuerza-lo-suficiente-en-vuestra-relacion\/\">esfuerzo<\/a> con usted y demostrarle que le importaba? <\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>\u00bfAlguna vez te has aferrado a alguien, sabiendo que deber\u00edas dejarle marchar y sabiendo que nunca te dar\u00eda el amor que necesitabas?<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>Well, I have and I can tell you it is one of the worst feelings in the world. You keep trying with a guy who tells you he loves you but who acts like he couldn\u2019t care less about you.<\/p>\r\n<p>You keep prioritizing someone who doesn\u2019t give you a place in his life.<\/p>\r\n<p>Y en lugar de recibir su amor, sigues recibiendo excusas y justificaciones poco convincentes. Sigues recibiendo llamadas nocturnas y disculpas.<\/p>\r\n<p>Sigues recibiendo falsas promesas de que las cosas mejorar\u00e1n y de que te quiere.<\/p>\r\n<p>En lugar de acciones, sigues recibiendo palabras vac\u00edas.<\/p>\r\n<p>If you\u2019ve ever found yourself going through something like this, let me give you a piece of advice\u2014<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/trata-como-si-no-le-importara-creer\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">if he acts like he doesn\u2019t care about you<\/a>Empieza a creerle.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Olv\u00eddate de las cosas que te est\u00e1 diciendo, olv\u00eddate de las falsas esperanzas que te est\u00e1 dando. Conc\u00e9ntrate en el esfuerzo que est\u00e1 haciendo contigo. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Porque su esfuerzo es el \u00fanico reflejo de su amor por ti.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>La energ\u00eda que pone en esta relaci\u00f3n es un reflejo de su inter\u00e9s por ti. El tiempo y la paciencia que te dedica son un reflejo de lo que siente por ti. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Siento dec\u00edrtelo, pero todo lo dem\u00e1s son tonter\u00edas.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>And this is the last thing you deserve from anyone. You don\u2019t need to waste your time chasing some guy who doesn\u2019t know what he wants.<\/p>\r\n<p>You don\u2019t need to be waiting for anyone to choose you and to come to his senses. You don\u2019t need to be caring for someone who is leading you on and who can\u2019t give you his entire self.<\/p>\r\n<p>You don\u2019t need to be giving your entire heart to someone who can give you only half of his.<\/p>\r\n<p>As\u00ed que, por favor, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/she-left-you-because-she-finally-saw-her-worth\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">entiende tu valor<\/a> and walk away from this man who clearly doesn\u2019t deserve you. Stop putting first someone who doesn\u2019t have the decency to put you at the top of his priority list.<\/p>\r\n<p>Deja de hacer tiempo para alguien que siempre est\u00e1 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/que-responder-cuando-alguien-dice-que-ha-estado-ocupado\/\">demasiado ocupado<\/a> para ti. Deja de preocuparte por un tipo que no quiere a nadie m\u00e1s que a s\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>En lugar de elegirle a \u00e9l, el\u00edgete a ti misma. En lugar de amarle a \u00e9l, empieza a amarte a ti misma como deber\u00edas.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><strong> Y en lugar de intentar encontrar sus lados buenos y sus cualidades, c\u00e9ntrate en tu propia val\u00eda.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>It\u2019s time for you to start appreciating your own time, energy and efforts. And it\u2019s time for you to stop wasting it on the wrong people who will never reciprocate and who will never respect everything you\u2019ve done for them.<\/p>\r\n<p>Porque no eres la segunda mejor y tienes que entenderlo. Necesitas un hombre que s\u00f3lo tenga ojos para ti.<\/p>\r\n<p>A man who won\u2019t be giving you just crumbs of his love.<\/p>\r\n<p>Un hombre que te preste toda su atenci\u00f3n en todo momento.<\/p>\r\n<p>Un hombre que nunca te har\u00e1 dudar de sus intenciones. Un hombre que sabr\u00e1 apreciarte y que estar\u00e1 m\u00e1s que feliz de tenerte en su vida.<\/p>\r\n<p>Te mereces un hombre que te d\u00e9 todo su coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\r\n<p>Y puede que ahora no lo sepas, pero ese hombre est\u00e1 ah\u00ed fuera y llegar\u00e1 a tu vida. Y \u00e9l te har\u00e1 entender que todo lo dem\u00e1s era s\u00f3lo<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/prefiero-quedarme-soltera-a-conformarme-con-menos\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> conformarse con menos<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>So, stop settling for less and stop holding on to someone who isn\u2019t enough. See yourself for who you really are and see your true value. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Deja de darle importancia a ese tipo y sigue con tu vida, como si nunca hubiera existido.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>Porque eso es exactamente lo que se merece y eso es lo que te debes a ti mismo.<!--\/codes_iframe--><!--codes_iframe--><!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>\r\n\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-41254\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/herway.net-26.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/herway.net-26.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/herway.net-26-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/herway.net-26-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever been in a situation where you gave all of your heart to someone who couldn\u2019t reciprocate? In a situation where you invested all of your energy into a relationship with someone who wasn\u2019t giving you anything back? Have you ever been waiting for someone to put the effort in with you and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":34330,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23427","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/anthony-mapp-254864-unsplash-1024x744.jpg",1024,744,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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