{"id":23549,"date":"2020-09-18T08:25:47","date_gmt":"2020-09-18T08:25:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=23549"},"modified":"2022-06-10T12:19:10","modified_gmt":"2022-06-10T12:19:10","slug":"10-maneras-de-lidiar-con-un-marido-infiel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-maneras-de-lidiar-con-un-marido-infiel\/","title":{"rendered":"10 maneras de lidiar con un marido infiel"},"content":{"rendered":"

The feeling of rejection, of being replaced by someone else because you are no longer enough, is devastating. It can kill your marriage, tear the two of you apart, erasing every feeling and memory that you\u2019ve ever had together.<\/p>\n

When a man cheats, there are two options you\u2019re left with. One is to cierra el trato y vete<\/a> y la otra es encontrar una raz\u00f3n para perdonarle.<\/p>\n

Si crees que puedes encontrar la manera de superarlo, qui\u00e9n sabe, quiz\u00e1 tu matrimonio acabe siendo mejor que nunca, sobre todo si no hay otros painful signs your husband doesn’t love you anymore.<\/a> Or if you think you could never forget what he has done to you, it\u2019s better to leave, no matter how hurtful it is, and move on with your life.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo lidiar con un marido infiel?<\/strong><\/p>\n

1. Don\u2019t make any sudden decisions<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

What you\u2019re feeling right now is rage, depression, anger\u2026 all kinds of feelings mixed together at the same time. You\u2019re not able to think straight because you\u2019ve been hurt.<\/p>\n

Tal vez la raz\u00f3n de su enga\u00f1o<\/a> va m\u00e1s profundo, tal vez tenga algo que ver con tu matrimonio. Pero el caso es que quiz\u00e1 lo sienta sinceramente y se arrepienta de lo que ha hecho. Tal vez haya una manera de resolver la situaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you have to sleep on it. Let some time pass before you decide what to do by judging from the way he acts and whether he is sorry or not.<\/p>\n

2. Piensa en ti<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Use this time, until you reach a decision, to take care of yourself. Don\u2019t let the pain destroy you. You have to keep it together because there is an important decision before you.<\/p>\n

Infidelity can cause you to overeat or stop eating, to have insomnia or all kinds of other disorders. Don\u2019t let it affect your well-being.<\/p>\n

3. Intenta averiguar la raz\u00f3n por la que lo hizo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Intenta llegar al fondo del asunto. Tal vez lo hizo porque simplemente quer\u00eda. Tal vez es as\u00ed de desconsiderado<\/a> y la infidelidad es algo que le excita. En ese caso, no hay nada que puedas hacer al respecto.<\/p>\n

But on the other hand, maybe there is something he is lacking from you. Maybe something happened to him when he was a child and he\u2019s been traumatized and now he\u2019s seeking approval from a random woman.<\/p>\n

Whatever the reason is, you have to find it out to be able to decide what\u2019s next, whether you\u2019ll leave or give him another chance<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Relacionado: Marido dominante: 10 maneras de ser el alfa en tu matrimonio<\/a><\/p>\n

4. 4. Pedir ayuda<\/h2>\n

\"Joven<\/p>\n

There is nothing wrong with asking for help when you need it. Talk to your friends, the people who won\u2019t judge you, and ask them what they think of the situation you\u2019re in.<\/p>\n

Or if he agrees to it (and he probably will), try couples counseling. Try talking to a professional who knows what they\u2019re doing. Maybe they will help you find the solution which is best for the both of you.<\/p>\n

5. Sea sincero con sus hijos<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Children see everything. Even if they don\u2019t know what is going on, they know that something is wrong. Don\u2019t be the bad guy and shut them out. They are also a part of the family and they have a right to know what\u2019s going on.<\/p>\n

This way, if you tell them, you\u2019re going to be able to talk to them and assure them that they are going to be loved the same as before and that everything will be okay, one way or another.<\/p>\n

Cambia el enfoque en funci\u00f3n de su edad y lo m\u00e1s importante es que nunca les mientas.<\/p>\n

6. Don\u2019t communicate with the other woman<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

You have nothing to say to her. It\u2019s not your responsibility. This goes especially if he wants you to do his dirty work for him. Don\u2019t go down that road.<\/p>\n

He made the mess and he has to clean it up. If you do it for him, it won\u2019t teach him responsibility and he\u2019ll know that every time he screws things up, he\u2019ll have you to clean up after him.<\/p>\n

7. Se necesita tiempo para sanar y volver a confiar<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you stay with him, don\u2019t expect everything to be normal right away. You won\u2019t trust him for a long time. Even if he is the best husband ever, you still won\u2019t trust him.<\/p>\n

El tiempo tiene que pasar y tienes que hacer las paces con el hecho de que te enga\u00f1\u00f3<\/a>. You\u2019ll be stressed for a long time and a lot of things you see or do will remind you of the fact that he cheated on you.<\/p>\n

Ese es el proceso de duelo por el que tienes que pasar. Tienes que enfadarte, tienes que llorar y, al final, har\u00e1s las paces con ello. Pero solo si ves que lo siente de verdad y que se arrepiente de haber hecho la estupidez m\u00e1s grande que pod\u00eda hacer.<\/p>\n

Relacionado: \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 los maridos infieles siguen casados? Las 12 razones m\u00e1s comunes<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

8. Pros y contras<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 pr\u00e1ctico. Comprueba las finanzas y la situaci\u00f3n de la vivienda. Mira a ver si tienes alguna posibilidad de dejarle, porque antes de hacerlo, aseg\u00farate de que tienes un lugar donde vivir y dinero suficiente para ocuparte de las cosas esenciales.<\/p>\n

9. Either learn to forgive…<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

You have to decide what you want. You can\u2019t live in-between because that gets you nowhere. If you\u2019re going to forgive him, do it.<\/p>\n

Pero cuando lo haces, no hay vuelta atr\u00e1s. No hay que quejarse ni sacar a relucir el pasado.<\/p>\n

10. \u2026 or just leave<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you see and feel in your heart that the fact he cheated on you will always bother you, that whenever he goes out you\u2019ll wonder if he is with another woman, then do yourself a favor and leave.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s better to be single and happy than casado y miserable<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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