{"id":2373,"date":"2020-09-10T09:51:32","date_gmt":"2020-09-10T09:51:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2373"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:28:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:28:01","slug":"chica-fuerte-largo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/chica-fuerte-largo\/","title":{"rendered":"A la chica que ha sido demasiado fuerte durante demasiado tiempo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Eres \u00fanico. Y este mundo deber\u00eda sentirse orgulloso de tener a alguien como t\u00fa.<\/p>\n<p>Eres la roca en la que cualquiera puede confiar o apoyarse, pero lo m\u00e1s importante es que siempre puedes contar contigo mismo.<\/p>\n<p>Porque eres un guerrero. \u00danico en su especie.<\/p>\n<p>The little secret is you\u2019ve been through the worst and you\u2019re still there. You\u2019re still standing.<\/p>\n<p><strong> You\u2019ve been brave so many times. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Because that was your only option in life. You stood up to everything that scared you and you\u2019ve confronted it.<\/p>\n<p><b> Pero ahora tienes miedo. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Because you don\u2019t want to stay alone. Because you don\u2019t want to be your own rock forever. You need another person to be to you what you are to others.<\/p>\n<p>No porque sean algo esencial para tu vida, sino porque ser\u00eda mucho m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil y agradable caminar por la vida con alguien que te entienda.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-119484 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-desperate-young-woman.jpg\" alt=\"el retrato de una joven desesperada\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-desperate-young-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-desperate-young-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-desperate-young-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-desperate-young-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-desperate-young-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-desperate-young-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-desperate-young-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-desperate-young-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Probably nobody ever told you this, but you are allowed to cry. It doesn\u2019t mean you are weak and it\u2019s not a sign of your weakness, it\u2019s proof you\u2019ve been strong for too long.<\/p>\n<p><b> You had everyone\u2019s back. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>No matter who came knocking at your door, he\u2019d find comfort in you. No matter how many people needed you, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/10-signs-people-pleaser-not-benefiting\/\">you\u2019ve always found a way to meet their needs<\/a> y estar a su lado.<\/p>\n<p>Eres el mejor amigo de todos los mejores amigos y ellos sab\u00edan que pod\u00edan contar contigo.<\/p>\n<p>Eres la m\u00e1s fuerte de tu familia, y no eres la que consuela sino a la que la gente acude cuando necesita a alguien fuerte.<\/p>\n<p><b>But when you needed people they weren\u2019t there.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Because they don\u2019t know when you need them. Unlike you, they can\u2019t notice little signs and the thing with strong people is they\u2019re never asked if they are OK.<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019re never offered any kind of help because they\u2019ve proven one too many times to people that they are strong enough to do it on their own.<\/p>\n<p><b>No est\u00e1s buscando un caballero.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-119485 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/an-attractive-African-American-woman-standing-in-a-wheat-field.jpg\" alt=\"una atractiva mujer afroamericana de pie en un campo de trigo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/an-attractive-African-American-woman-standing-in-a-wheat-field.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/an-attractive-African-American-woman-standing-in-a-wheat-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/an-attractive-African-American-woman-standing-in-a-wheat-field-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/an-attractive-African-American-woman-standing-in-a-wheat-field-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/an-attractive-African-American-woman-standing-in-a-wheat-field-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/an-attractive-African-American-woman-standing-in-a-wheat-field-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/an-attractive-African-American-woman-standing-in-a-wheat-field-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/an-attractive-African-American-woman-standing-in-a-wheat-field-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You aren\u2019t looking for anyone to save you. You are not looking for anyone to solve your problems and you\u2019re not expecting anything from others because you know better.<\/p>\n<p><b> Est\u00e1s buscando tu propia espada. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re looking for the tools to fight your own battles. You are always trying to grow to be able to take care of yourself and you don\u2019t even have the slightest idea how people admire you.<\/p>\n<p>La cuesti\u00f3n es que <b> la vida nunca te fue f\u00e1cil.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>No eras de los que consegu\u00edan nada f\u00e1cilmente. Nunca consegu\u00edas nada sin luchar.<\/p>\n<p>Siempre ten\u00edas que demostrar tu val\u00eda y ten\u00edas que luchar por todo lo que quer\u00edas tener en la vida porque era la \u00fanica manera de conseguir lo que quer\u00edas.<\/p>\n<p>Por eso, a menudo se te percib\u00eda como una persona de coraz\u00f3n fr\u00edo y cosas por el estilo.<\/p>\n<p><b> Pero siempre sigues adelante. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Whenever life threw a curveball at you, you\u2019ve always managed to hit it hard and score a homerun.<\/p>\n<p><b>T\u00fa tambi\u00e9n te cansas.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-119486 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-depressed-blonde-sits-on-the-sofa.jpg\" alt=\"una rubia deprimida se sienta en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-depressed-blonde-sits-on-the-sofa.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-depressed-blonde-sits-on-the-sofa-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-depressed-blonde-sits-on-the-sofa-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-depressed-blonde-sits-on-the-sofa-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-depressed-blonde-sits-on-the-sofa-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-depressed-blonde-sits-on-the-sofa-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-depressed-blonde-sits-on-the-sofa-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-depressed-blonde-sits-on-the-sofa-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Usted <a href=\"http:\/\/www.walkingtheshoreline.com\/youre-tired-always-strong-one\/\" rel=\"noopener\">se cansa de ser fuerte todo el tiempo<\/a>. You get tired of people always expecting something of you and you get tired of people constantly just taking and taking things from you\u2014your love, time, and whatever else they need.<\/p>\n<p><b> Y sin embargo te levantas cada ma\u00f1ana. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Te levantas con una sonrisa. Te levantas m\u00e1s valiente cada ma\u00f1ana, dispuesto a darle una paliza a ese d\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s your way to say to life: \u201cI am ready. Whatever you have for me, bring it on!\u201d<\/p>\n<p><b>Miras al desaf\u00edo muerto a los ojos y le haces un gui\u00f1o.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Te cuesta encontrar hombres dignos de ti.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Because you don\u2019t play with boys. You don\u2019t need <i> s\u00f3lo <\/i> anybody because that\u2019s not how things work for you.<\/p>\n<p>Necesitas un hombre fuerte que te maneje.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-119487 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-smiling-African-American-woman.jpg\" alt=\"el retrato de una mujer afroamericana sonriente\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-smiling-African-American-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-smiling-African-American-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-smiling-African-American-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-smiling-African-American-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-smiling-African-American-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-smiling-African-American-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-smiling-African-American-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-smiling-African-American-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b> As\u00ed, encuentras el valor que buscas en ti mismo. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Aunque ser\u00eda genial tener un hombre que pudiera satisfacer tus necesidades, t\u00fa sola eres suficiente. Eres m\u00e1s que suficiente y vales por ti misma.<\/p>\n<p>You are one of those girls who were not born half but whole so when you\u2019re seen alone, nobody dares to ask, \u201cWhere is your other half?\u201d.<\/p>\n<p><b>Incluso cuando la vida te golpea duro<\/b> , when life throws sticks and stones at you, when you fall down to the point that you can\u2019t go lower, when every other person would give up on life and everything else&#8230; <b>you stand firm and you make others wonder how come you\u2019re still smiling. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>You do the thing called \u2018what <\/b><b><i>I<\/i><\/b><b> want\u2019 and you build a firm foundation with the bricks thrown at you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i> It&#8217;s OK if you fall down and lose your spark. Just make sure that when you get back up, you rise as the whole damn fire.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-119488 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/To-The-Girl-Who-Has-Been-Too-Strong-For-Too-Long-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"A la chica que ha sido demasiado fuerte durante demasiado tiempo\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/To-The-Girl-Who-Has-Been-Too-Strong-For-Too-Long-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/To-The-Girl-Who-Has-Been-Too-Strong-For-Too-Long-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/To-The-Girl-Who-Has-Been-Too-Strong-For-Too-Long-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/To-The-Girl-Who-Has-Been-Too-Strong-For-Too-Long-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/To-The-Girl-Who-Has-Been-Too-Strong-For-Too-Long-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You are one of a kind. And this world should feel proud to have someone like you. You are the rock who anybody can rely or lean on but more importantly, you can always count on yourself. Because you are a warrior. One of a kind. The little secret is you\u2019ve been through the worst&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":119483,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2373","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/To-The-Girl-Who-Has-Been-Too-Strong-For-Too-Long-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. 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