{"id":24030,"date":"2020-03-21T11:19:07","date_gmt":"2020-03-21T11:19:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24030"},"modified":"2022-02-27T14:24:24","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T14:24:24","slug":"a-la-chica-que-se-canso-de-ser-fuerte-todo-el-tiempo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/a-la-chica-que-se-canso-de-ser-fuerte-todo-el-tiempo\/","title":{"rendered":"A la chica que se cans\u00f3 de ser fuerte todo el tiempo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Desde que tienes uso de raz\u00f3n, t\u00fa eras el duro. La fuerte y la valiente. La que siempre pod\u00eda con todo lo que la vida le pon\u00eda por delante.<\/b><\/p>\n

El que sab\u00eda cu\u00e1l era la mejor manera de enfrentarse a todos los retos y problemas posibles.<\/p>\n

La persona a la que todos acud\u00edan cuando necesitaban orientaci\u00f3n o seguridad.<\/p>\n

You were known as a girl who always comes out stronger from every situation which should have destroyed her. As the girl who can\u2019t be hurt.<\/p>\n

Como la chica que siempre resurge como el Ave F\u00e9nix de sus cenizas. Como la chica que puede soportarlo literalmente todo.<\/p>\n

Como alguien que sabe lidiar con cualquier dolor emocional. Como una chica a la que nunca le han roto el coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

But these days, you feel like you can\u2019t take it anymore. You feel like you\u2019ve had too much of everything and like you just need a break from the world.<\/b><\/p>\n

A break from all the pain you\u2019ve been dealing with in silence. A break from all the people who expect too much from you.<\/p>\n

A break from all the burdens you\u2019ve been carrying for too long. You feel like you need a break from being strong.<\/p>\n

Because you got too tired. Actually, you are exhausted. And I\u2019m not talking about physical exhaustion here.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1s mentalmente agotado y sientes que tu coraz\u00f3n, tu alma y tu mente est\u00e1n a punto de romperse por todo el peso que el mundo ha puesto sobre ellos.<\/b><\/p>\n

S\u00ed, ser independiente Hembra alfa<\/a> es genial. La gente suele admirar todo lo que eres capaz de hacer.<\/p>\n

Admiran tu fuerza y tu valent\u00eda. Admiran que nunca dejes que nadie te frene o te menosprecie.<\/p>\n

They admire the fact that you never give up and that you don\u2019t need anyone to complete you.<\/p>\n

Que nunca necesitas que nadie est\u00e9 a tu lado y que eres m\u00e1s que capaz de ir por la vida por ti mismo.<\/p>\n

But, you feel like putting up with this image of a badass gal has become too hard for you. You feel like you can\u2019t take it anymore and that you\u2019ll break into million pieces anytime soon.<\/p>\n

You are tired of meeting people\u2019s expectations. Cansado de estar ah\u00ed para todos los dem\u00e1s. Cansado de ser vigilado y <\/b>duro<\/b><\/a>. <\/b><\/p>\n

Cansado de sonre\u00edr a pesar de todo el dolor y cansado de llevar una m\u00e1scara delante del mundo entero. Est\u00e1s cansado de luchar.<\/b><\/p>\n

Est\u00e1s cansado de decirle a todo el mundo que est\u00e1s bien, incluso cuando sientes que te mueres por dentro.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Dos<\/p>\n

Tired of being everybody\u2019s shoulder to cry on, even on the days when you can\u2019t make yourself feel better. Tired of looking after others when there is no one to take care of you.<\/b><\/p>\n

And this is exactly what you need\u2014someone to take care of you. Someone to hold your hand when things get rough. Someone to listen to you and to tell you that everything will be just right.<\/p>\n

Alguien que te quiera en lo mejor y en lo peor. You need someone who will catch you whenever you feel like you\u2019ll fall and someone who will pick you up whenever you feel like you\u2019ll break.<\/b><\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you one thing\u2014there is nothing wrong with craving for something and someone like this. There is nothing wrong in feeling like you\u2019ve had too much and like you can\u2019t take it anymore.<\/b><\/p>\n

Because being vulnerable doesn\u2019t make you helpless. Not being tough all the time doesn\u2019t make you weak. <\/b> Necesitar a alguien que te quiera y te cuide no es algo de lo que debas avergonzarte.<\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019ve become someone you swore you\u2019d never become. It doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019ve betrayed the girl you\u2019ve always been.<\/p>\n

Lo que tienes que recordar es que tambi\u00e9n eres un ser humano. Que est\u00e1s hecho de carne y hueso y que tambi\u00e9n tienes emociones y un coraz\u00f3n que hay que cuidar.<\/b><\/p>\n

Remember\u2014you are allowed to feel all the things you\u2019ve been feeling lately. Puedes estar agotado y cansado. Y lo m\u00e1s importante, puedes pedir ayuda. <\/b><\/p>\n

Because that doesn\u2019t make you any less of a <\/b>mujer fuerte<\/b><\/a> que t\u00fa.<\/b> <\/p>\n

\"A<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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