{"id":24115,"date":"2020-04-24T09:35:35","date_gmt":"2020-04-24T09:35:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24115"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:10:37","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:10:37","slug":"verdaderas-diferencias-entre-estar-enamorado-y-amar-a-alguien","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/verdaderas-diferencias-entre-estar-enamorado-y-amar-a-alguien\/","title":{"rendered":"Verdaderas diferencias entre estar enamorado y amar a alguien"},"content":{"rendered":"

Yo sol\u00eda confundir estos dos t\u00e9rminos, como imagino que la mayor\u00eda de ustedes tambi\u00e9n. Es muy f\u00e1cil confundirlos. No s\u00f3lo como t\u00e9rminos, sino tambi\u00e9n como sentimientos.<\/p>\n

Perd\u00ed tanto tiempo llorando por unos hombres que, para empezar, nunca fueron adecuados para m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

I truly believed that by losing them, I lost love. I couldn’t have been more wrong.<\/p>\n

It wasn\u2019t until I met my persona para siempre<\/a> que realmente entend\u00ed la diferencia entre estar enamorado y amar a alguien. <\/b><\/em><\/p>\n

Nada de lo que he sentido antes puede siquiera acercarse a lo que siento ahora.<\/b><\/em><\/p>\n

You see, \u2018being in love\u2019 is a form of an addiction we feel towards someone. We are so carried away by them that they are all we can think about.<\/p>\n

Queremos estar cerca de ellos siempre que podamos.<\/p>\n

\u2018Loving somebody\u2019 is what we have when reality kicks in when our hormones stop going wild. It\u2019s not an addiction; it\u2019s reality.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s about mutual happiness and growth. It\u2019s about complimenting each other\u2019s lives. It\u2019s the best thing in the world.<\/p>\n

To make everything clearer, let\u2019s look at the 6 differences between being in love and loving someone:<\/p>\n

Enamorarse ocurre sin querer, pero amar a alguien es una elecci\u00f3n.<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Falling in love is beyond our control. It\u2019s about chemistry, lust and infatuation. It\u2019s about idealizing the other person and putting them on a pedestal.<\/p>\n

Loving somebody is what comes after all the infatuation, chemistry and lust. It\u2019s an emotional connection we form.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not about looking at your partner as a form of perfection. It\u2019s knowing that they are flawed and loving them anyway.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s about choosing to stay even when the sunshiny days pass.<\/p>\n

Estar enamorado es cuesti\u00f3n de conveniencia mientras que amar a alguien es darle prioridad<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Being in love is needing somebody to fulfill your needs. It\u2019s being there when it\u2019s convenient.<\/p>\n

Loving, on the other hand, is selfless. It\u2019s not just about taking; it\u2019s about giving, too.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s about making time for someone. It\u2019s about enjoying the sole fact that your better half is present. It\u2019s about making them feel important.<\/p>\n

Estar enamorado puede ser necesitado mientras que amar a alguien nunca lo es<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

It\u2019s in our human nature to have all kind of expectations from people. It\u2019s the same when we are in love. We expect a person to behave in a certain manner.<\/p>\n

Por ejemplo, queremos que nos llamen o env\u00eden mensajes de texto las 24 horas del d\u00eda. Puede que esperemos grandes gestos rom\u00e1nticos y constantes muestras de afecto.<\/p>\n

However, the reality might be different. That\u2019s why our expectativas incumplidas<\/a> son los motivos m\u00e1s comunes de ruptura.<\/p>\n

Loving someone is about compatibility. It\u2019s about mutual understanding. It\u2019s about not having to hear from each other 24\/7 but still knowing that you are loved.<\/p>\n

Loving somebody is all about trust while being in love doesn\u2019t have to be<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Being in love can also be full of uncertainties. We don\u2019t have to feel safe or completely trust the other person to fall in love with them. We just fall and hope that they will catch us.<\/p>\n

Pero el verdadero amor se basa en la confianza. No hay lugar para la incertidumbre o los celos. Nos sentimos sanos y salvos en su abrazo, y queremos que ellos sientan lo mismo por nosotros.<\/p>\n

Estar enamorado es poseer, mientras que amar a alguien es liberarlo.<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Estar enamorado a menudo nos da la idea equivocada de que le debemos algo a otra persona. Que nos pertenece.<\/p>\n

Nos aferramos a ellos con demasiada fuerza porque son los principales art\u00edfices de nuestra felicidad.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why sometimes we sabotage our own chances for finding true love. We force the feelings. We suffocate our partners by wanting them too close.<\/p>\n

Loving someone is about giving them the freedom to love you back. It\u2019s not about trying too hard to keep them in your life.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s about loving them no matter whether they are by your side or not.<\/p>\n

True love should flow, and you should never have to beg for anyone’s attention, affection or presence in your life. It\u2019s about working as a team and growing together.<\/p>\n

Being in love doesn\u2019t have to last while love can be eternal<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Being in love can last for a shorter or a longer period of time, but it has its end. It\u2019s based on infatuation, lust, brain chemicals that give us that addicting feeling of desire.<\/p>\n

Love doesn\u2019t wear off. It doesn\u2019t decrease. It doesn\u2019t fade. El amor permanece<\/a> no matter what. It\u2019s constant even though the honeymoon phase of the relationship is ancient history.<\/p>\n

In the end, it\u2019s important to remember that under no circumstances, being in love and loving someone excludes self-love.<\/b><\/em><\/p>\n

Al contrario, le da la bienvenida. S\u00f3lo cuando te amas, te aceptas y te aprecias de verdad, eres capaz de transmitir esos mismos sentimientos puros a otra persona.<\/b><\/em><\/p>\n

\"Verdaderas<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I used to mix up these two terms as I imagine most of you have as well. They are so easily mistaken. Not only as terms, but also as feelings. I wasted so much time crying over some men who were never right for me to begin with. I truly believed that by losing them,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":84249,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24115","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/True-Differences-Between-Being-In-Love-And-Loving-Someone.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24115","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24115"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24115\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":163574,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24115\/revisions\/163574"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/84249"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24115"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24115"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24115"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}