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<\/p>\nBefore making this beyond complicated, I will tell you the truth from the start. The truth is that you don’t know and you will never know. But you can feel.<\/p>\n
Saber y sentir son dos direcciones contradictorias y cuando se entrelazan pueden crear un reino de confusi\u00f3n, incertidumbre e incluso depresi\u00f3n.<\/b><\/p>\n
Have you ever looked at your man and started thinking \u2018how in the world can I be sure that he is the one?\u2019 After that, you start weighing up some pros and cons, rewinding scenes of his socks under the bed or that last cake eaten by him\u2026<\/p>\n
Then you realize that there is no point in making a list of an \u2018anti-perfect man\u2019 and you start begging God and his assistants to enlighten you.<\/p>\n
Pero el \u00fanico problema es que pones demasiado empe\u00f1o en el conocimiento y los hechos sobre tu hombre en lugar de escuchar tu intuici\u00f3n y tu instinto. Saber y sentir son dos direcciones contradictorias y cuando se entrelazan pueden crear un reino de confusi\u00f3n, incertidumbre e incluso depresi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n
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Do you know the feeling when you question something to the extent that it becomes a haunting nightmare? If you want to forget that feeling (and I certainly would) then you have to stop asking yourself if he is the man who\u2019s going to pick you up in his spaceship and introduce you to his crew (aka his parents) all the while exploring the endless extent of space that is love.<\/p>\n
Kidding aside, you have to reach the level where you know that you don\u2019t know that he is the one. Try repeating: \u201cI don\u2019t know if he is the one and I don\u2019t give a damn. I will not let this overrated question manipulate me. I\u2019m a strong, independent woman and I choose to live carefree.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n Being too occupied with questions and answers kills all the fun and spontaneity that are crucial to your well-being. For example, your head is in his lap and he\u2019s playing with your locks while you\u2019re questioning his existence along with the whole universe and the theory of gravity.<\/p>\n \u00c9l lo sabr\u00e1. Lo sabr\u00e1 cuando empieces a hacerte estas preguntas porque los hombres tienen ese extra\u00f1o radar que les dice cada vez que algo huele mal en su mujer.<\/p>\n To avoid this, concentrate on feelings. If you feel like you\u2019ve attained nirvana (and I don\u2019t mean the band) when just hanging around with your man\u2014THAT\u2019S IT.<\/p>\n That\u2019s the thing we\u2019re looking for. Just listen to your intuition and embrace the feelings you get when thinking of that specific person and you\u2019ll get the answer.<\/p>\n YOU CAN\u2019T and that\u2019s the beauty of it. But if you\u2019re sure of your own existence, that will do. Cogito, ergo sum (I think, therefore I am).<\/p>\n Pensar en algo demuestra que existimos, pero no valida nuestros sentimientos. Por ejemplo, Miranda<\/em> dice que est\u00e1 segura de que Jim es el elegido porque es muy buena persona.<\/p>\n \u00a1\u00bfQu\u00e9 demonios?! \u00bfQu\u00e9 significa eso?<\/p>\n Miranda<\/em> probablemente piensa que Jim<\/em> es una buena persona por un mill\u00f3n de otras razones que se corresponden con su definici\u00f3n de un buen tipo. Pero, \u00bfc\u00f3mo la hace sentir eso? La verdadera pregunta es c\u00f3mo le hace sentir a usted.<\/p>\n Do you want to be with him because he is such a good guy and \u2018the one\u2019 according to your scale and priorities or do you want to be with him because he makes you feel transcendent, blessed and utterly grateful?<\/p>\n No pienses. SIENTE.<\/p>\n P.S. If he can drive you beyond crazy and you still don\u2019t want him dead\u2014he\u2019s definitely the one.<\/p>\n Before making this beyond complicated, I will tell you the truth from the start. The truth is that you don’t know and you will never know. But you can feel. Knowing and feeling are two contradictory directions and when intertwined they can create a realm of confusion, uncertainty and even depression. 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<\/p>\n#3 \u00bfC\u00d3MO PUEDO ESTAR SEGURO DE QUE MIS SENTIMIENTOS NO ME ENGA\u00d1AN?<\/h2>\n
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