{"id":24258,"date":"2020-06-25T11:11:40","date_gmt":"2020-06-25T11:11:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24258"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:05:33","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:05:33","slug":"6-cosas-que-hacen-los-tios-que-parecen-sospechosas-pero-son-realmente-inofensivas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-cosas-que-hacen-los-tios-que-parecen-sospechosas-pero-son-realmente-inofensivas\/","title":{"rendered":"6 cosas que hacen los hombres que parecen sospechosas pero son realmente inofensivas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hoy en d\u00eda es f\u00e1cil volverse demasiado desconfiado o incluso paranoico. Estamos acostumbrados a tipos que son muy sospechosos.<\/p>\n

So we search for red flags even when there aren\u2019t any.<\/p>\n

Vemos se\u00f1ales de enga\u00f1o en cada esquina. Lamentablemente, nuestras malas experiencias o las experiencias de la gente que nos rodea nos han ense\u00f1ado a pensar as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

A menudo nos precipitamos. Llegamos a conclusiones basadas en acciones que a menudo pueden ser enga\u00f1osas.<\/p>\n

Saboteamos nuestras relaciones porque tenemos miedo de que nos enga\u00f1en, as\u00ed que vemos amenazas por todas partes.<\/p>\n

Estas son las cosas que hacen los t\u00edos que parecen sospechosas pero que en realidad son inofensivas:<\/p>\n

1. Tarda mucho en responder a un mensaje de texto<\/h2>\n

\"6Autom\u00e1ticamente empezar\u00e1s a crear diferentes escenarios. \u00bfEst\u00e1 con otra mujer? \u00bfQu\u00e9 est\u00e1 tramando? \u00bfEst\u00e1 perdido inter\u00e9s<\/a>? Los pensamientos retumbar\u00e1n en tu cabeza.<\/p>\n

En realidad, podr\u00eda estar durmiendo. Pi\u00e9nsalo, los hombres tienden a dormirse m\u00e1s r\u00e1pido de lo que tardas en contar hasta tres.<\/p>\n

Si sabes que es as\u00ed, no tienes por qu\u00e9 preocuparte.<\/p>\n

Also, not getting an immediate response might signify that he actually works for a living or has friends and family he talks to, so don\u2019t give it too much thought.<\/p>\n

2. A veces tapa su tel\u00e9fono<\/h2>\n

\"6This is usually a bad sign and not good at all if it happens all the time. But if it\u2019s just sometimes, odds are he is watching something embarrassing and he is too ashamed to show you.<\/p>\n

Also, he might be in the middle of a private conversation with one of his guy friends and he doesn\u2019t want to share that friend\u2019s business with you.<\/p>\n

Even though this looks pretty bad, don\u2019t overreact unless you believe you have a reason to. There is a huge difference between things that happen all the time and just sometimes.<\/p>\n

3. Siempre pasas el rato en tu casa y nunca en la suya<\/h2>\n

\"6Of course, your instincts are telling you that there is some shady business going on there. But it usually isn\u2019t as shady as you think.<\/p>\n

If you have been dating for a brief while, he is probably too embarrassed to say that he lives with his mother or a bunch of roommates because he can\u2019t afford his own place or that he is messy as hell.<\/p>\n

Todas estas son cosas muy embarazosas de admitir para un hombre. As\u00ed que, cuando creas que ha pasado suficiente tiempo, p\u00eddele abiertamente que te cuente por qu\u00e9 nunca has visto su casa.<\/p>\n

4. Pasa mucho tiempo con sus amigos<\/h2>\n

\"6Tal vez incluso m\u00e1s de lo que lo hace contigo. Pero, \u00bfhay realmente algo de lo que preocuparse?<\/p>\n

Los conoce desde hace m\u00e1s tiempo que a ti, los valora y probablemente sea muy sociable.<\/p>\n

Lo \u00fanico que deber\u00eda preocuparte es que te cancele una cita en el \u00faltimo minuto o que la abandone porque tiene algo mejor que hacer con sus amigos.<\/p>\n

That kind of behavior should never be tolerated. You should be at the top, not at the bottom, of his priority list. Don\u2019t let him enga\u00f1arte.<\/a><\/p>\n

5. He hasn’t introduced you to \u2018his people\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"6If he spends a lot of his time with his friends and you don\u2019t know them yet, that doesn\u2019t have to set alarm bells ringing. Ask yourself if you\u2019ve been dating long enough to get to the phase of introductions.<\/p>\n

The same goes for his family members; maybe he believes that the relationship is still in its beginning stages and he thinks it\u2019s too soon.<\/p>\n

Also, he might not have a good relationship with his family and doesn\u2019t want to get you involved<\/p>\n

But if enough time passes and he has not introduced you to his people, whether we\u2019re talking about his friends or family, it\u2019s time to talk to him because something is off and if he isn\u2019t cheating, he just might not be ready for a serious relationship.<\/p>\n

6. Nunca se queda a dormir en tu casa<\/h2>\n

\"6Si todos los dem\u00e1s aspectos de vuestra relaci\u00f3n funcionan, no hay de qu\u00e9 preocuparse. Si acab\u00e1is de tener relaciones sexuales, os hab\u00e9is abrazado un poco y \u00e9l dice que se va a casa a dormir, lo m\u00e1s probable es que as\u00ed sea.<\/p>\n

Men are very practical and they will go to sleep in their own bed because they are used to it or because it\u2019s more convenient for them to get to work.<\/p>\n

If you were to do the same it wouldn\u2019t hurt them so they don\u2019t see what all the fuss is about.<\/p>\n

If you immediately start to think that he just replaced your bed with some other woman\u2019s bed, you are probably wrong.<\/p>\n

Even though most men like to brag about how many times they can have sex in one night, it\u2019s just pure words. Anything more than once is usually too much for them.<\/p>\n

All in all, think before you react. Nobody’s perfect and all of us have some behaviors that might look shady at first but are harmless in their essence.<\/p>\n

Openly talk to him and see what his deal is. Don\u2019t attack him for cheating or not being into you if you don\u2019t know the whole story.<\/p>\n

Chicos buenos y decentes<\/a> out there shouldn\u2019t pay for the sins of all the liars and cheaters of the world.<\/p>\n

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It\u2019s easy to become overly suspicious or even paranoid these days. We are used to guys who are shady AF. So we search for red flags even when there aren\u2019t any. We see signs of cheating at every corner. Sadly, our bad experiences or the experiences of the people around us have taught us to…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":24268,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24258","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/jez-timms-305915-unsplash.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24258","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24258"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24258\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/24268"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24258"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24258"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24258"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}