{"id":2436,"date":"2019-07-11T10:42:17","date_gmt":"2019-07-11T10:42:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2436"},"modified":"2021-08-24T13:25:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-24T13:25:38","slug":"el-amor-unilateral-no-se-merece","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-amor-unilateral-no-se-merece\/","title":{"rendered":"El amor unilateral no es lo que mereces"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201c…unrequited love does not die; it’s only beaten down to a secret place where it hides, curled and wounded. For some unfortunates, it turns bitter and mean, and those who come after pay the price for the hurt done by the one who came before.\u201d<\/i><\/b> \u2013 Elle Newmark<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Dear \u201cWhoever is reading this\u201d,<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

A love that is a one-way street in which you are steering the wheel is not what you deserve. It’s not what anyone deserves.<\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe it\u2019s hard for you to understand and admit to yourself that you are el \u00fanico en tu relaci\u00f3n al que le importa un bledo.<\/a> I get it. I\u2019ve been there. I\u2019ve felt that.  <\/span><\/p>\n

En <\/span>IS<\/span><\/i> hard, but as soon as you stop fooling yourself into believing things are great and that they couldn\u2019t be better, it is going to be easier for you to finally understand you\u2019re <\/span>MISERABLE<\/span><\/i>.   <\/span><\/p>\n

Cuanto antes te des cuenta de esto, antes te librar\u00e1s del dolor paralizante del amor unilateral.<\/span><\/p>\n

Si crees que est\u00e1s atrapado en ese c\u00edrculo vicioso de dar amor y no recibirlo de vuelta, sal de \u00e9l y abre los ojos.<\/span><\/p>\n

Te mereces algo mejor que eso.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

El amor unilateral es una tortura.<\/h2>\n

It\u2019s giving yourself entirely to someone who is totally indifferent. It\u2019s the constant fear that someone will leave you because their eyes are blank, empty when they look at you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Everyone\u2019s eyes are windows of their souls and one simple look will tell you how they actually feel about you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t deceive yourself into thinking they care for you when you see they don\u2019t. By doing that, you are only torturing yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hablando desde mi experiencia, s\u00e9 que es duro enfrentarse al hecho de que tu relaci\u00f3n no va a ninguna parte. Est\u00e1s dispuesta a hacer todo lo que est\u00e9 en tu mano para que funcione, pero, por desgracia, eres la \u00fanica.<\/span><\/p>\n

Te mereces algo mejor que eso.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

El amor unilateral es desamor.<\/h2>\n

It\u2019s seeing people are as cold as ice while you are burning up with all the love you have to give.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00fa est\u00e1s dispuesto a hacer un esfuerzo adicional por ellos, mientras que ellos se niegan a dar un peque\u00f1o paso. <\/span>Isn’t that selfish?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

You are left with the void in your heart and there\u2019s no one there to fill it. It\u2019s as if they are so bored, so they decided to kill some time by being in a relationship with you.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Chica<\/p>\n

That leaves someone crying (you) and someone smiling (them). You are the one left to cry and you know they are not worth your tears, but you still don\u2019t give up on them and your relationship because you care too much when you shouldn’t.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Te mereces algo mejor que eso.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

El amor unilateral est\u00e1 destruyendo tu confianza en ti mismo.<\/h2>\n

You might deny this while it\u2019s happening, but when it\u2019s all over, you are left broken and alone. You will probably not be able to love someone that way anytime soon.<\/span><\/p>\n

Debido a su falta de aprecio, te quedas cuestion\u00e1ndote a ti mismo, <\/span>\u201cWhat did I do wrong? I gave him everything, why couldn\u2019t he love me back?\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Les enviaste mensajes de texto, les llevaste a cenas rom\u00e1nticas, les compraste regalos y les dejaste bonitas notas y todo lo que obtuviste a cambio fue un afecto lastimero que dur\u00f3 unos 3 segundos.<\/span><\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de eso, su indiferencia volvi\u00f3 a la vida. As\u00ed es como te aprecian.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Me pregunto c\u00f3mo reaccionar\u00edan si probaran su propia medicina. Si hay justicia en el universo, tendr\u00e1n la oportunidad de probarla, s\u00f3lo para ver c\u00f3mo te sent\u00edas y por lo que estabas pasando.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por lo que a ti respecta, congela su indiferencia y apl\u00e1stala porque nadie tiene derecho a hacerte dudar de ti misma.<\/span><\/p>\n

Te mereces algo mejor que eso.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

El amor unilateral es una calle de sentido \u00fanico.<\/h2>\n

There is always one person who is doing all the work and the other one who lays back and enjoys. It shouldn’t be like that. The two of you should be equals. It’s the only way for a relationship to work\u2014to grow into a life-time partnership.<\/span><\/p>\n

You are the one who is left to choose where you are going to go on a date. You are the one who is initiating all your conversations because if it weren\u2019t for you, uncomfortable silence would dominate.<\/span><\/p>\n

They aren\u2019t able to feel the awkwardness between the two of you because they couldn\u2019t care less.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00fa eres el iniciador en esas relaciones cuando, en realidad, los dos deber\u00edais trabajar juntos.<\/span><\/p>\n

Te mereces algo mejor que eso.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/strong>6 se\u00f1ales de que le quieres mucho m\u00e1s de lo que \u00e9l te quiere a ti<\/a><\/p>\n

El amor unilateral es una obsesi\u00f3n.<\/h2>\n

Being in a one-sided relationship is a 24\/7 job. You won\u2019t quit because you love them and you are giving your best to prove it to them, hoping that things will change. But they won’t and somewhere deep inside, you know that, but you won’t admit it.<\/span><\/p>\n

They have you by their side, but they don\u2019t respect you. They don\u2019t have a problem with making you lose your mind over the success of your relationship. They are turning you into an obsessive maniac.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Real love is not one-sided, it\u2019s reciprocated. Save yourself the trouble if that isn\u2019t the case in your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

You will end up obsessing over the fact your relationship is getting sick and you haven\u2019t got the cure to heal it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tu relaci\u00f3n es un barco que se hunde y tienes que abandonarlo para salvarte.<\/span><\/p>\n

Te mereces algo mejor que eso.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

El amor unilateral te est\u00e1 haciendo perder la fe.<\/h2>\n

How can it be that one person would sacrifice anything to make a relationship work, while the other one couldn\u2019t care less?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 se comprometen contigo esas personas insensibles si lo \u00fanico que te van a dejar es una p\u00e9rdida de fe en la gente?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo puedes confiar en alguien despu\u00e9s de que alguien te tomara por tonto?<\/span><\/p>\n

Tienes que reaccionar a tiempo y poner fin a la relaci\u00f3n antes de que te paralice.<\/span><\/p>\n

Te mereces algo mejor que eso.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\"Chica<\/p>\n

El amor unilateral es una batalla.<\/h2>\n

It\u2019s your battle\u2014the one you are struggling with on the inside. One moment you feel you are about to win, and the next moment you are surrendering and counting your dead.<\/span><\/p>\n

You’ve finally realized they don\u2019t reciprocate your love, but you can\u2019t help yourself from trying because you love them.<\/span><\/p>\n

At the end of the day, the ball is in your court. You have the power to end it, so you won\u2019t suffer, but do you have the guts to do it?<\/span><\/p>\n

Claro que s\u00ed, porque t\u00fa eres mejor que eso.<\/span><\/i><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u201c…unrequited love does not die; it’s only beaten down to a secret place where it hides, curled and wounded. For some unfortunates, it turns bitter and mean, and those who come after pay the price for the hurt done by the one who came before.\u201d \u2013 Elle Newmark Dear \u201cWhoever is reading this\u201d, A love…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":2437,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2436","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/toa-heftiba-84798.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2436","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2436"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2436\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2437"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2436"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2436"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2436"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}