{"id":2441,"date":"2017-07-11T11:16:01","date_gmt":"2017-07-11T11:16:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2441"},"modified":"2022-02-23T01:03:11","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T01:03:11","slug":"bestfriend-decided-couldnt-friends-anymore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/bestfriend-decided-couldnt-friends-anymore\/","title":{"rendered":"A la \"mejor amiga\" de la que decid\u00ed que ya no pod\u00eda serlo m\u00e1s"},"content":{"rendered":"

Querido amigo,<\/p>\n

Estoy aqu\u00ed delante de ti, con el coraz\u00f3n en la manga, dici\u00e9ndote la cruda verdad que deber\u00edas haber o\u00eddo hace mucho tiempo.<\/p>\n

I decided I couldn\u2019t be friends with you<\/a> anymore. I don\u2019t know what exactly happened to me to make a decision like this but I am happy it did.<\/p>\n

Me di cuenta de que fui yo quien se fue. Fui yo quien se mud\u00f3 a otro lugar, quien hizo otros amigos.<\/p>\n

Pero nunca te olvid\u00e9. Y por otro lado, t\u00fa me olvidaste a m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

You should know that friendship is not a one-way street. You should know that you can\u2019t take advantage of me just because we are friends. You were taking me for granted for such a long time, thinking that I will be there no matter what happens.<\/p>\n

Pero estabas equivocado. Soy un ser humano, con un coraz\u00f3n y un alma. Esos d\u00edas en los que me abandonaste fueron los peores de mi vida. Tuve una monta\u00f1a rusa de emociones y estuve en estado de shock todo el tiempo.<\/p>\n

I can see you now with other friends, posting happy photos of you on Facebook, tagging them like best friends. Don\u2019t you know it hurts me so much when I see that?<\/p>\n

Mis heridas emocionales a\u00fan est\u00e1n frescas y necesito algo de tiempo para volver a encarrilarme.
\nNow I can see you don\u2019t care for me. Because if you did, you wouldn\u2019t do things that are hurting my feelings.<\/p>\n

I am aware of the fact that you didn\u2019t love me all this time\u2014you were jealous of me. You decided we weren\u2019t friends anymore cuando dejaste de ser mi mejor amigo<\/a>pero esperaba que yo fuera el tuyo.<\/p>\n

You decided we weren\u2019t best friends when you chose a boyfriend over me. And that was tearing my heart.<\/p>\n

Sabes, cuando amas a alguien, luchas por \u00e9l. La amistad es como el amor<\/a>\u2014a constant fight for things to work. But no. You stopped fighting for me. And our friendship\u2019s heart stopped beating.<\/p>\n

I blame you for killing all those nice memories we had together. I blame you because you didn\u2019t give a damn about me. And on the other hand, I was always going an extra mile for you.<\/p>\n

Yo estaba all\u00ed cuando suspendiste tu primer examen, consol\u00e1ndote y dici\u00e9ndote que todo ir\u00eda bien. Estuve all\u00ed cuando te enga\u00f1aron, pensando en vengarte de ese imb\u00e9cil que os dej\u00f3 llorando. Estuve all\u00ed cuando muri\u00f3 tu padre, para decirte que ahora tienes que ser fuerte.<\/p>\n

But you didn\u2019t know to cherish that. And that is something I will never forgive.<\/p>\n

La triste verdad es que te he estado eligiendo a ti cuando deber\u00eda haberme elegido a m\u00ed. Bueno, cari\u00f1o, ahora se te acaba el tiempo, porque yo me elijo a m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que hice todo lo que estaba en mi mano para salvar nuestra amistad, pero fuiste t\u00fa quien se rindi\u00f3. As\u00ed que ahora te dejo ir. Ya no tengo nada a lo que aferrarme.<\/p>\n

\"Novias<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Al final, s\u00f3lo quiero darte las gracias. Quiz\u00e1 est\u00e9s pensando por qu\u00e9, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n

Bueno, a pesar de todo lo que pas\u00f3, fuimos amigos una vez, los mejores amigos.<\/p>\n

Gracias por todos esos bonitos recuerdos y noches salvajes mientras el resto del mundo dorm\u00eda. Gracias por dejarme llorar en tu hombro cuando me sent\u00eda mal.<\/p>\n

Thank you for fighting for me, when I didn\u2019t have strength to do that for myself. Thank you for teaching me how to be a loyal friend.<\/p>\n

Pero, sobre todo, gracias por ser la persona que finalmente me empuj\u00f3 a elegirme a m\u00ed misma.
\nCon amor,<\/p>\n

Tu ex mejor amigo<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Dear Friend, I am standing here in front of you, with my heart on my sleeve, telling you the harsh truth you should have heard a long time ago. I decided I couldn\u2019t be friends with you anymore. I don\u2019t know what exactly happened to me to make a decision like this but I am…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":2442,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29624],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2441","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-friends-and-family"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29624,"label":"friends&family"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/StockSnap_T55DZBQCR6.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29624,"name":"friends&family","slug":"friends-and-family","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29624,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? Following these tips will help you boost your connection with your favorite people.","parent":29620,"count":316,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29624,"category_count":316,"category_description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? Following these tips will help you boost your connection with your favorite people.","cat_name":"friends&family","category_nicename":"friends-and-family","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2441","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2441"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2441\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2442"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2441"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2441"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2441"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}