{"id":24561,"date":"2020-05-27T08:09:51","date_gmt":"2020-05-27T08:09:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24561"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:18:41","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:18:41","slug":"11-senales-de-que-mantiene-abiertas-sus-opciones","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/11-senales-de-que-mantiene-abiertas-sus-opciones\/","title":{"rendered":"11 se\u00f1ales de que mantiene abiertas sus opciones"},"content":{"rendered":"

No hablar de etiquetas se ha convertido en una especie de moda \u00faltimamente.<\/p>\n

Puede que te encuentres en la situaci\u00f3n de estar saliendo con alguien durante meses y a\u00fan no saber si sois exclusivos o no.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s where assumptions kick in. You assume that if he is the only one you are seeing and you don\u2019t need anybody else, that he feels and acts the same.<\/p>\n

But without having \u201cthe talk\u201d, you really don\u2019t know if you are the only woman in his life. Don\u2019t assume, and get to the bottom of things.<\/p>\n

Comprueba las se\u00f1ales que se enumeran a continuaci\u00f3n y determina si mantiene abiertas sus opciones.<\/p>\n

Keep in mind that these signs individually don\u2019t mean much, but if he is ticking most of the boxes, you are probably not the only woman he is dating:<\/p>\n

1. Retiene<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

He is still keeping you at an arm’s length. He doesn\u2019t seem too eager to open up and let you closer.<\/p>\n

You mostly talk about you or some other topics that don\u2019t include him or the two of you as a couple. Whatever you have, it won\u2019t progress any further until he lets you in.<\/p>\n

Poder compartir y confiar en alguien es lo que diferencia una relaci\u00f3n real de una cita.<\/p>\n

Si te abriste a \u00e9l con la esperanza de que siguiera tu ejemplo pero no has llegado a ninguna parte, lo m\u00e1s probable es que no sea tan serio sobre ti<\/a>u como t\u00fa quieres que sea.<\/p>\n

2. S\u00f3lo env\u00eda mensajes de texto<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

It\u2019s easier to use texts, especially during the initial phases of dating when you are still getting to know one another.<\/p>\n

Pero si este comportamiento contin\u00faa y lo \u00fanico que recibes son algunos mensajes aqu\u00ed y all\u00e1, hay algo que deber\u00eda preocuparte.<\/p>\n

Un hombre al que s\u00f3lo le importas t\u00fa descolgar\u00e1 el tel\u00e9fono y llamar\u00e1 para o\u00edr tu voz o har\u00e1 una videollamada para verte de vez en cuando.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s easier to bond this way and make more profound connections\u2014that is if you want them.<\/p>\n

3. Utiliza t\u00e9rminos gen\u00e9ricos para describir sus planes<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Of course, he\u2019ll have other plans, and he won\u2019t be glued to you 24\/7. But pay attention to the way he explains his whereabouts.<\/p>\n

More often than not, you have no clue what he is up to. He has \u201ca family thing\u201d, \u201csomething at work\u201d, \u201csome errands to run\u201d, \u201csomething a friend needs help with\u201d, etc.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s de ser impreciso sobre su paradero, nunca vuelve a cont\u00e1rselo despu\u00e9s.<\/p>\n

He never shares where he\u2019s been, what he\u2019s done or how it went. It makes you wonder, doesn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

4. Tiene la costumbre de cancelar planes en el \u00faltimo minuto<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Things happen. Fife is unpredictable, and it\u2019s only natural that plans are going to get moved or canceled sometimes. Sometimes yes, but not most of the time.<\/p>\n

If he is juggling a few women at once, it can be pretty hard to manage his schedule. That\u2019s why he gets lost in all of it.<\/p>\n

Presta atenci\u00f3n. Si sus otros comportamientos parecen un poco raros, sin duda hay motivos para preocuparse.<\/p>\n

5. He doesn\u2019t add you on his social media accounts<\/h2>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

Puedes averiguar mucho sobre un chico si echas un vistazo a sus cuentas en las redes sociales.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why a guy who is keeping his options open will try to leave you out of it. He will come up with some great and convincing story.<\/p>\n

He might say he usually doesn\u2019t add people he dates, that social media complicates things and creates jealousy or something down that lane.<\/p>\n

The odds are he is trying to sell that story to other women, too, and it\u2019s easier to date a few people at once when they have lesser chances of finding out about one another.<\/p>\n

6. Nunca deja su tel\u00e9fono desatendido<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

His phone has a better protection system than the Pentagon, and you wouldn\u2019t be able to get in even if you wanted to.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, nunca ha dejado su tel\u00e9fono cerca de ti y ha salido de la habitaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

He also never reads his texts or answers his phone around you. He doesn\u2019t want you to see or hear anything you shouldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s also not too eager to give you his phone if you need to use it for some reason. A guy with nothing to hide wouldn’t act shady in these situations.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to know how to unlock his phone, but he will have no problem leaving it around, answering calls or reading texts when you are by his side.<\/p>\n

7. Desaparecer\u00e1 de vez en cuando<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 muy mono, atento y estar\u00e1 encima de ti durante un tiempo, y luego desaparecer\u00e1.<\/p>\n

It won\u2019t be forever. He\u2019ll be back again, acting like nothing happened or having some lame excuse up his sleeve.<\/p>\n

Este tipo de comportamiento es inaceptable. Te est\u00e1 faltando al respeto, te est\u00e1 tomando el pelo e incluso podr\u00eda tener alguna chica de compa\u00f1\u00eda<\/a>. Esto por s\u00ed solo es una buena raz\u00f3n para deshacerse de su lamentable culo.<\/p>\n

8. Tiene demasiadas amigas<\/h2>\n

\"grupo<\/p>\n

Sure, he can have a few good female friends but they are all friends you know\u2014or at least you will get to know\u2014when things get a bit more serious.<\/p>\n

But if he never talks about them, that\u2019s a red flag right there\u2014especially if you run into them and he introduces you as one more of his many friends. It\u2019s more than obvious that something is off.<\/p>\n

9. Things aren\u2019t adding up<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

It\u2019s just a matter of time before a man who multi-dates gets tangled up in his own web of lies.<\/p>\n

Aunque dominaba la mentira<\/a> como una de sus muchas habilidades, est\u00e1 obligado a resbalar en alg\u00fan momento.<\/p>\n

Lo primero que le descubrir\u00e1 ser\u00e1 que tiene todas esas versiones diferentes de una historia.<\/p>\n

So one day he\u2019ll talk about hanging out with his friends on Friday night, and if you ask him in a few days, he spent that same Friday night chilling at home watching movies.<\/p>\n

10. Hablar de compromiso es algo que evita h\u00e1bilmente<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Es muy bueno con las palabras, y es capaz de dar la vuelta a cualquier situaci\u00f3n para que le beneficie.<\/p>\n

You might have even tried to have \u201cthe talk\u201d with him, but he somehow managed to change the topic.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n puede que no lo diga directamente, pero mencionar\u00e1 que ahora mismo no est\u00e1 metido en nada serio.<\/p>\n

He has a wild nature and a free spirit. He doesn\u2019t want to complicate things. He needs time, etc.<\/p>\n

These indirect things are pretty direct if you look at them closely. Don\u2019t allow him to lead you on.<\/p>\n

11. Your gut is telling you that something\u2019s off<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces has acabado en una situaci\u00f3n complicada porque decidiste ignorar a tu instinto? Demasiadas, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t do it this time. If you think that something is off, talk to him directly.<\/p>\n

Preg\u00fantale si eres la \u00fanica con la que sale y si sois exclusivos o no. La vida es demasiado corta para andarse con rodeos y juegos.<\/p>\n

If you are not the only woman in his life as you thought you were, it\u2019s time to wave him goodbye.<\/p>\n

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