{"id":24585,"date":"2020-04-27T10:19:53","date_gmt":"2020-04-27T10:19:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24585"},"modified":"2022-02-23T11:03:52","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T11:03:52","slug":"estoy-harto-de-que-me-rompan-el-corazon-es-hora-de-nuevas-reglas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/estoy-harto-de-que-me-rompan-el-corazon-es-hora-de-nuevas-reglas\/","title":{"rendered":"He terminado con que me rompan el coraz\u00f3n - Es hora de nuevas reglas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Soy consciente de que es casi imposible proteger mi coraz\u00f3n por completo, pero voy a hacer todo lo posible para reducir las probabilidades de que se rompa.<\/p>\n

Estoy agotada de pasar por los mismos escenarios una y otra vez.<\/p>\n

I sometimes admire myself, and all the women who have been in my shoes. We\u2019ve fallen so many times but we encontrar la manera de resurgir<\/a>. M\u00e1s fuertes, m\u00e1s audaces y m\u00e1s decididos a seguir adelante.<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de estar tan destrozado, ser fuerte es en realidad lo \u00fanico que tienes.<\/p>\n

A medida que te vas construyendo, te das cuenta de que en realidad has aprendido mucho de tus experiencias.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s just a matter of transferring your knowledge into actions.<\/p>\n

And though it\u2019s not as simple as it sounds, sometimes it\u2019s inevitable. There comes a point in every woman\u2019s life where she has to demand to be treated as she deserves.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I established some new rules that I am sharing with you just in case you were or are heartbroken, as I once was:<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t date a man I can\u2019t trust<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t have trust, you don\u2019t have anything. That\u2019s one of the most important things to keep in mind but I seemed to lose track of it way too often.<\/p>\n

La confianza hay que gan\u00e1rsela. S\u00e9 que no todos los hombres ser\u00e1n bastardo tramposo<\/a> or manipulative asshole that I am used to…<\/p>\n

Pero tendr\u00e1n que bajar el ritmo, tomarse las cosas con calma y darnos la oportunidad de conocernos antes de pasar de las citas a una relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e9 m\u00e1s selectiva con el tipo de hombres con los que salgo<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He terminado con los hombres t\u00f3xicos. Puedo olerlos a una milla de distancia ahora porque m\u00e1s o menos resumen mi vida amorosa.<\/p>\n

Soy capaz de reconocer todas las banderas rojas y todas las se\u00f1ales de alarma.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que a veces tambi\u00e9n har\u00e9 las cosas mal. S\u00e9 que existe la posibilidad de que me vuelvan a hacer da\u00f1o, pero al menos sabr\u00e9 lo que no debo aguantar nunca.<\/p>\n

Ignorar\u00e9 los mensajes que lleguen demasiado tarde<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I will resist the urge to answer a message that comes when it\u2019s already too late. When my heart is broken and my dreams are shattered.<\/p>\n

Ignorar\u00e9 los mensajes que lleguen a altas horas de la noche y que sean claramente una llamada de bot\u00edn<\/a>. Nunca enviar\u00e9 un mensaje de seguimiento despu\u00e9s de no obtener respuesta.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t be anybody’s toy<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I am tired of playing games. I don\u2019t want to be taken for granted or messed around with. The only way I will prevent that is if I don\u2019t allow it.<\/p>\n

Quiero a alguien que sea constante. Alguien que env\u00eda mensajes de texto, llamadas, aparece y hace tiempo para m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want empty promises or lame excuses. I want to know that somebody cares about me as much as I do for him.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t chase after love<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

There’s no point in chasing after love. Love has to go both ways. All the affection, attention and investments have to be reciprocated.<\/p>\n

Estoy harto de ser el que da m\u00e1s y no recibe nada a cambio. Estoy harto de estar con alguien y sentirse solo.<\/p>\n

I want someone who makes the efforts. Someone who matches my investments. Someone who cares and isn’t afraid to show it.<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e9 mi propia prioridad<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It\u2019s hard to admit but I used to lose sight of myself because of love. I was so focused on that other person.<\/p>\n

Me centr\u00e9 en sus necesidades y me olvid\u00e9 por completo de las m\u00edas. Y repet\u00ed ese mismo error m\u00e1s de una vez.<\/p>\n

Tard\u00e9 mucho en darme cuenta de que yo tambi\u00e9n soy necesaria, que tambi\u00e9n importo y que soy digna de amor. Pero primero tengo que darme ese mismo amor a m\u00ed misma.<\/p>\n

He reconstruido mi vida. Tengo mis intereses, sue\u00f1os y metas. Tengo una vida. Ahora s\u00e9 que amar a alguien nunca debe excluir amor propio<\/a>deber\u00eda potenciarlo.<\/p>\n

Establecer\u00e9 normas y me atendr\u00e9 a ellas<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t tolerate being treated badly anymore. I know I deserve better. I won\u2019t stick around when I know I have to walk away. I refuse to be strung along.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t allow anybody to mess with my feelings and complicate my life. There is someone out there who will show me that love should never make me suffer.<\/p>\n

Estoy seguro de que ir\u00e9 a\u00f1adiendo cosas a esta lista a medida que pase el tiempo. Lo \u00fanico que s\u00e9 es que con estas nuevas normas, las cosas ya est\u00e1n mejorando.<\/p>\n

I am more satisfied with myself and my life. And that’s where it all begins. Within me.<\/p>\n

No me cierro al amor, pero por ahora protejo mi coraz\u00f3n. Lo mantengo lo m\u00e1s seguro posible hasta que llegue alguien que merezca la oportunidad de estar ah\u00ed.<\/p>\n

\"He<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I realize that it is almost impossible to protect my heart completely but I am going to do my best to lower those odds of it getting broken. I am just exhausted from going through the same scenarios all over again. I sometimes admire myself, and all the women who have been in my shoes….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":80048,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24585","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/I-Am-Done-With-Getting-My-Heart-Broken-It\u2019s-Time-For-New-Rules.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24585","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24585"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24585\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/80048"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24585"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24585"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24585"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}