{"id":24617,"date":"2020-02-20T07:17:39","date_gmt":"2020-02-20T07:17:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24617"},"modified":"2022-01-30T21:15:42","modified_gmt":"2022-01-30T21:15:42","slug":"deje-de-perseguirlo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/deje-de-perseguirlo\/","title":{"rendered":"20 cosas que aprend\u00ed cuando dej\u00e9 de perseguirle"},"content":{"rendered":"

1. You can\u2019t catch happiness.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

No puedes obligarle a llamar a tu puerta. Ocurrir\u00e1, pero no cuando t\u00fa quieras. Ocurrir\u00e1 cuando sea el momento adecuado.<\/p>\n

2. Ning\u00fan hombre merece tanto de tu tiempo.<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo me hac\u00eda perder el tiempo y me enga\u00f1aba. Sab\u00eda que no iba a pasar nada entre nosotros, pero le gustaba llamar la atenci\u00f3n. As\u00ed que yo... dej\u00f3 de perseguirlo<\/a> y empec\u00e9 a valorarme a m\u00ed mismo y a mi tiempo un poco m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

3. Waiting for a text for more than an hour means he doesn\u2019t like you.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Si le gustaras de verdad, estar\u00eda impaciente y llevar\u00eda el tel\u00e9fono encima s\u00f3lo en caso de que le enviaras un mensaje<\/a>. He couldn\u2019t wait to hear from you.<\/p>\n

Cualquier otra cosa significa que no est\u00e1 interesado.<\/p>\n

4. Siempre acabamos persiguiendo a los equivocados.<\/h2>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

The moment I realized he wasn\u2019t worth chasing or giving him any kind of attention, and I gave up, another man walked into my life.<\/p>\n

A man who deserved to be chased but a man who didn\u2019t let me chase him.<\/p>\n

Un hombre que me persegu\u00eda.<\/p>\n

5. A veces hay que ser brutalmente honesto.<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

That\u2019s the only way to s\u00e1lvate de las malas relaciones y los desenga\u00f1os amorosos<\/a>. You have to be straight about what you like and don\u2019t like.<\/p>\n

Tienes que ser transparente sobre lo que quieres.<\/p>\n

6. Me sent\u00ed indeseada por su culpa.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Me hizo sentir as\u00ed. En cierto modo, me rechaz\u00f3. Nunca dijo esas palabras de rechazo, pero el hecho de que mantuviera la boca cerrada era un rechazo en s\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\n

So, I felt like shit, I felt undesirable but just because he didn\u2019t like me, that didn\u2019t mean no one else did. I was just blind to see that. I saw only him.<\/p>\n

7. Yo quer\u00eda amor verdadero y \u00e9l quer\u00eda algo aparte.<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s say we weren\u2019t on the same page.<\/p>\n

8. Los ni\u00f1os juegan, a diferencia de los hombres.<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Men are honest and mature. Men don\u2019t string you along. Men mean what they say.<\/p>\n

9. Casi las relaciones son una tortura.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You\u2019re always chasing someone who cannot be caught. You\u2019re trying your best, you\u2019re making their wishes come true but there is nothing in it for you.<\/p>\n

Acabas con las manos vac\u00edas y herido.<\/p>\n

10. T\u00fa eres el que merece ser perseguido.<\/h2>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

You\u2019re smart and beautiful, and men should have to fight over you. Don\u2019t let yourself chase anyone, it never ends well.<\/p>\n

11. You\u2019ll wonder if there is something wrong with you.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll feel like you\u2019re not good enough because despite your efforts, that person still doesn\u2019t appreciate you.<\/p>\n

A bunch of insecurities will come to the surface and a lot of time will have to pass for you to realize that it wasn\u2019t your fault he sent you se\u00f1ales contradictorias<\/a>.<\/p>\n

12. You\u2019re allowed to plan one or two dates but nothing more.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re the one planning where you\u2019ll go next, it means that you\u2019re the only one trying.<\/p>\n

13. Never get up and go to him in the middle of the night, especially if you haven\u2019t heard from him in a few days.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

He\u2019s only calling because he needs someone by his side. He needs fun, distraction or whatever. He is not serious about you.<\/p>\n

14. Don\u2019t date him if he is not sure about you from the start.<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He isn\u2019t going to change his mind. He is going to string you along until something better comes along.<\/p>\n

A man in love won\u2019t spend a second longer than he needs in order to be with you.<\/p>\n

15. You can\u2019t force someone to date you.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Te gusta, vale, pero si el sentimiento no es mutuo, en el mejor de los casos acabar\u00e9is en una relaci\u00f3n unilateral.<\/p>\n

16. No hay ning\u00fan significado oculto en sus palabras.<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

I know that every time he messages you or sends you something, you\u2019re trying to figure out whether he meant something else.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re hoping that his indifference toward you is actually love, in a hidden meaning.<\/p>\n

17. You\u2019re going to hate him for making you give him everything and getting nothing in return.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Ese enamoramiento del principio se convertir\u00e1 en resentimiento.<\/p>\n

18. No matter how attractive he is, don\u2019t fall for him.<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He\u2019s picked up so many women like that before you and it always ended up the same. They were all chasing him.<\/p>\n

19. Una cosa es segura: nunca cambiar\u00e1 de opini\u00f3n.<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

So if you comfort yourself with the thought that he\u2019ll change, you\u2019re wrong. That is only prolonging your agony.<\/p>\n

20. La persecuci\u00f3n nunca acaba bien.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Busca a alguien a quien le gustes tanto como \u00e9l a ti. Esa relaci\u00f3n tiene potencial para ser feliz.<\/p>\n

\"20<\/p>\n

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