{"id":24621,"date":"2020-08-28T07:36:15","date_gmt":"2020-08-28T07:36:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24621"},"modified":"2022-01-14T02:08:58","modified_gmt":"2022-01-14T02:08:58","slug":"por-que-los-hombres-tienen-miedo-de-acercarse-a-las-mujeres-6-razones-probadas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-que-los-hombres-tienen-miedo-de-acercarse-a-las-mujeres-6-razones-probadas\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 los hombres temen acercarse a las mujeres? 6 razones probadas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Approaching new people is never an easy decision but it gets even harder if a guy likes a girl and wants to get to know her better. He would like to approach her but doesn\u2019t know how.<\/p>\n<p>He is afraid of rejection and he isn\u2019t sure about himself. He is afraid that he will make a fool out of himself if he says something inappropriate. And in most cases, he quits.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe he will try again once he drinks a bit more and gets an ego boost from alcohol but he surely won\u2019t come close to a beautiful girl sober. So, the question is: Why are guys afraid to approach some women?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfSomos tan intimidantes que es imposible invitarnos a tomar un caf\u00e9? Descubra las respuestas a todas estas preguntas en la siguiente lista.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tienen miedo al rechazo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-109871 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-disappointed-man-sits-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre decepcionado se sienta en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-disappointed-man-sits-on-the-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-disappointed-man-sits-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-disappointed-man-sits-on-the-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-disappointed-man-sits-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-disappointed-man-sits-on-the-couch-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-disappointed-man-sits-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-disappointed-man-sits-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-disappointed-man-sits-on-the-couch-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ver\u00e1s, cuando un chico ve a una mujer que le parece tan atractiva, al instante pierde la cabeza por ella. Su cerebro est\u00e1 trabajando al m\u00e1ximo y est\u00e1 tratando de encontrar buenas maneras de seducirla y hacerla suya.<\/p>\n<p>Empieza a hacer cosas que nunca ha hecho y se siente mal por ello. Algunos chicos se ponen muy nerviosos y empiezan a tener algunos tics que parecen totalmente antinaturales. Y cuando ven lo ansiosos y mal que se ven, deciden posponer ese momento.<\/p>\n<p>The worst thing for them would be if the girl they like so much rejects them because they don\u2019t look as natural as they really are.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tienen miedo de lo que la chica a la que se acercan piense de ellos.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-111550\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/man-alone-looking-depressed.jpg\" alt=\"hombre solo con aspecto deprimido\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/man-alone-looking-depressed.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/man-alone-looking-depressed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/man-alone-looking-depressed-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/man-alone-looking-depressed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/man-alone-looking-depressed-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/man-alone-looking-depressed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/man-alone-looking-depressed-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/man-alone-looking-depressed-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A veces, los chicos piensan demasiado. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-cosas-que-la-mayoria-de-los-hombres-piensan-demasiado-en-una-relacion\/\">Le dan demasiadas vueltas a las cosas<\/a> that haven\u2019t happened yet and they are scared about what could happen if something goes wrong.<\/p>\n<p>Their wish to approach a girl is considerable but the fear of being ashamed is even bigger. They simply don\u2019t know how the girl they are approaching will react when they show up in front of her. They don\u2019t know what she will think of them.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfPensar\u00e1 que son raros, divertidos o est\u00fapidos? Y mientras piensan as\u00ed, pierden todas las ganas de acercarse a la chica y se dan por vencidos.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">They think they don\u2019t deserve her<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109874\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-pensively-looks-out-the-window-1.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre mira pensativo por la ventana\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-pensively-looks-out-the-window-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-pensively-looks-out-the-window-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-pensively-looks-out-the-window-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-pensively-looks-out-the-window-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-pensively-looks-out-the-window-1-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-pensively-looks-out-the-window-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-pensively-looks-out-the-window-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-pensively-looks-out-the-window-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por muy guapo que sea un chico, se acobardar\u00e1 cuando quiera acercarse a una chica. Pensar\u00e1 que no es lo suficientemente bueno para ella y que le rechazar\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t have <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/7-ways-boost-self-esteem\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">suficiente autoestima<\/a> and he thinks that she will think the worst about him. That\u2019s why guys miss many chances to get to know a girl they like so much. Maybe that girl would be glad that a guy is interested in her and she wouldn\u2019t think anything bad.<\/p>\n<p>But since guys don\u2019t know that, they blow their chance of a great relationship.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">They are so anxious that they can\u2019t act normal<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-109875 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-sits-on-the-floor-pensive.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre se sienta en el suelo pensativo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-sits-on-the-floor-pensive.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-sits-on-the-floor-pensive-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-sits-on-the-floor-pensive-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-sits-on-the-floor-pensive-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-sits-on-the-floor-pensive-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-sits-on-the-floor-pensive-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-sits-on-the-floor-pensive-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-sits-on-the-floor-pensive-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There are guys who are open and they don\u2019t have any problems with approaching a girl. But there are also guys who get so anxious when they want to approach a girl that they start having a real panic attack.<\/p>\n<p>Their palms start to get sweat, they feel dizzy, they don\u2019t know how to properly say normal sentences and they act like they have never spoken before. And because of something like this, they simply give up on approaching a girl.<\/p>\n<p>Por mucho que deseen a esa chica y por mucho que les guste, prefieren dar un paso atr\u00e1s y estar solos porque les aterroriza lo que pueda ocurrir si dan el primer paso.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Temen ser criticados<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-109877 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-drinks-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre bebe caf\u00e9\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-drinks-coffee.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-drinks-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-drinks-coffee-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-drinks-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-drinks-coffee-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-drinks-coffee-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-drinks-coffee-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-drinks-coffee-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There are guys who have a fear that they will be judged and criticized by a woman they want to approach. They fear that she will think they are weird and that they even don\u2019t know how to hit on a woman.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t want to get hurt or to feel bad and that is the reason they hold off from any contact with girls. Only one they drink another glass of wine will they get the ego boost they need to approach a girl and ask her out on a date.<\/p>\n<p>In a situation like that, they won\u2019t be scared of anything and they won\u2019t think about the bad things that could happen in the process.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Piensan que no son lo suficientemente buenos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-109879 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/the-man-is-sitting-on-a-bench-with-his-back-turned.jpg\" alt=\"el hombre est\u00e1 sentado en un banco de espaldas\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/the-man-is-sitting-on-a-bench-with-his-back-turned.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/the-man-is-sitting-on-a-bench-with-his-back-turned-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/the-man-is-sitting-on-a-bench-with-his-back-turned-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/the-man-is-sitting-on-a-bench-with-his-back-turned-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/the-man-is-sitting-on-a-bench-with-his-back-turned-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/the-man-is-sitting-on-a-bench-with-his-back-turned-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/the-man-is-sitting-on-a-bench-with-his-back-turned-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/the-man-is-sitting-on-a-bench-with-his-back-turned-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cuando un chico piensa que no es lo suficientemente bueno, nunca tendr\u00e1 el valor suficiente para acercarse a una chica. Pensar\u00e1 que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/couldve-better-man\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">puede encontrar una ma<\/a>n que \u00e9l y perder\u00e1 la oportunidad de ser feliz.<\/p>\n<p>That is their biggest mistake because girls actually just want a normal and good boy who will treat them like they deserve. They will also be anxious and won\u2019t feel so comfortable in the beginning but as soon as they get to know a man, they will feel much better.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why we should never miss out on new things in life because we don\u2019t know which ones of them will be great!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-109870\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/Why-Are-Guys-Afraid-To-Approach-Women-6-Proven-Reasons-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Por qu\u00e9 los hombres temen acercarse a las mujeres 6 razones probadas\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1499\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/Why-Are-Guys-Afraid-To-Approach-Women-6-Proven-Reasons-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/Why-Are-Guys-Afraid-To-Approach-Women-6-Proven-Reasons-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/Why-Are-Guys-Afraid-To-Approach-Women-6-Proven-Reasons-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Approaching new people is never an easy decision but it gets even harder if a guy likes a girl and wants to get to know her better. He would like to approach her but doesn\u2019t know how. He is afraid of rejection and he isn\u2019t sure about himself. He is afraid that he will make&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":109867,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24621","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/Why-Are-Guys-Afraid-To-Approach-Women-6-Proven-Reasons-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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