{"id":2466,"date":"2020-08-12T06:50:48","date_gmt":"2020-08-12T06:50:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2466"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:51:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:51:36","slug":"5-senales-de-que-no-es-complicado-es-un-gilipollas-manipulador","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-senales-de-que-no-es-complicado-es-un-gilipollas-manipulador\/","title":{"rendered":"5 se\u00f1ales de que no es complicado, s\u00f3lo es un gilipollas manipulador"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tendemos a idealizar a los hombres que son simplemente INCORRECTOS para nosotras. Ya es hora de que las mujeres dejen de tolerar a tipos que las tratan como mierda, dejen de justificarlo diciendo que son demasiado \"complicados\". Ya est\u00e1 bien.<\/p>\n<p>No debemos aceptar a nadie que nos haga cosas horribles y luego utilizar nuestra compasi\u00f3n y comprensi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re with a guy who makes excuses by telling you he\u2019s complicated, then you should read these 5 signs carefully, because it could easily turn out he\u2019s just a manipulative asshole or even just <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/es-un-jugador-13-senales-de-advertencia-de-que-un-hombre-no-va-en-serio-contigo\/\">un simple jugador<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Todo parece ir bien, pero de repente se aleja de ti sin ninguna explicaci\u00f3n.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-113349 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-with-glasses-is-sitting.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre con gafas est\u00e1 sentado\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-with-glasses-is-sitting.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-with-glasses-is-sitting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-with-glasses-is-sitting-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-with-glasses-is-sitting-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-with-glasses-is-sitting-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-with-glasses-is-sitting-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-with-glasses-is-sitting-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-with-glasses-is-sitting-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Empez\u00e1is a salir y todo va genial. Entonces, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/los-hombres-se-alejan-en-los-primeros-compases\/\">de repente se retira y empieza a ignorarte.<\/a> He later justifies it by telling you he\u2019s scared and confused by his love for you.<\/p>\n<p>Actually, he doesn\u2019t know what he really wants, so he plays mind games with you. You don\u2019t need<\/p>\n<p>Actually, he doesn\u2019t know what he really wants, so he plays mind games with you. You don\u2019t need this, because real men don\u2019t play games.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He justifies his abusive behavior towards you by saying he\u2019s having a very difficult time in his life<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-113350 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre grita a una mujer\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He treats you really badly; abuses you verbally, emotionally and\/or physically; and then he explains that the reason behind all of the shit he does is just because he\u2019s having a very difficult time in his life.<\/p>\n<p>But the thing is\u2014nobody has the right to treat you like crap just because they\u2019re having<\/p>\n<p>But the thing is\u2014nobody has the right to treat you like crap just because they\u2019re having hard time. You shouldn\u2019t tolerate someone who doesn\u2019t respect you at all, no matter what his excuse is!<\/p>\n<p><strong>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n:<\/strong>6 se\u00f1ales de advertencia de que est\u00e1s en una relaci\u00f3n emocionalmente abusiva<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He is extremely romantic, BUT only when he needs something in return, OR when he wants to crawl back to you after you decided to ditch him because of all the bad stuff he\u2019s done<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-113351 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-man-hugs-the-woman-and-laughs.jpg\" alt=\"el hombre abraza a la mujer y se r\u00ede\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-man-hugs-the-woman-and-laughs.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-man-hugs-the-woman-and-laughs-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-man-hugs-the-woman-and-laughs-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-man-hugs-the-woman-and-laughs-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-man-hugs-the-woman-and-laughs-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-man-hugs-the-woman-and-laughs-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-man-hugs-the-woman-and-laughs-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-man-hugs-the-woman-and-laughs-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This is the oldest trick in the book. They become so romantic and gentle when they need something in return. You will thank God that he finally started showing his \u201csuppressed\u201d love.<\/p>\n<p>Odio reventar tu burbuja, pero lo hace s\u00f3lo porque quiere algo de ti. La mayor\u00eda de las veces, se trata de t\u00e1cticas manipuladoras para meterse en tus pantalones. \u00a1Vamos, puedes hacerlo mejor que esto!<\/p>\n<p>Another disgusting reason for faking affection is when he sees you\u2019re done with him after all the mess he made. Then, he will try to trick you by pretending to be so loving, just so you will forgive his manipulative ass.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps, it will make you think that he\u2019s changed, but these people NEVER change.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">No tiene amigos de verdad<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-113352 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre y una mujer se sientan a la mesa y hablan\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you date a guy long enough, normally you meet the people around him. So, if you notice that there is literally not a single person who is his real friend\u2014that is a huge red flag.<\/p>\n<p>Por muy complicados que seamos todos, siempre hay gente que ve lo bueno en nosotros.<\/p>\n<p>However, if this guy doesn\u2019t have any close friends, you should think about it a little. Why is it so?<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s probably because all the people around him recognized him as a manipulator, and kicked him out of their lives.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He makes you do things you don\u2019t like in order to prove your love<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-113353 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-man-explains-something-to-the-woman.jpg\" alt=\"el hombre explica algo a la mujer\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-man-explains-something-to-the-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-man-explains-something-to-the-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-man-explains-something-to-the-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-man-explains-something-to-the-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-man-explains-something-to-the-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-man-explains-something-to-the-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-man-explains-something-to-the-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-man-explains-something-to-the-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s sensitive. He\u2019s fragile. He needs much more love and affection than anyone else. So, you decided to prove your love in every possible way.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfCu\u00e1l es el resultado? Est\u00e1 utilizando esto para manipularte y conseguir cosas que necesita, como tu presencia constante, sexo, dinero, etc.<\/p>\n<p>Al final, te sentir\u00e1s atrapada y desdichada. Cada vez que cambies tu enfoque hacia algo o alguien m\u00e1s, \u00e9l te acusar\u00e1 de ser ego\u00edsta.<\/p>\n<p>He can make you feel as if you\u2019re neglecting him because he has power to manipulate you.<\/p>\n<p>Queridas se\u00f1oras, sean prudentes e inteligentes. La mayor\u00eda de las veces las cosas no son como parecen.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let toxic manipulators trick you. And remember\u2014it\u2019s not your fault, he\u2019s just an ass!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-113356 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/5-Signs-Hes-Not-Complicated\u2014Hes-Just-a-Manipulative-Asshole-pinterest.-1.jpg\" alt=\"5 se\u00f1ales de que no es complicado, s\u00f3lo es un gilipollas manipulador\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/5-Signs-Hes-Not-Complicated\u2014Hes-Just-a-Manipulative-Asshole-pinterest.-1.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/5-Signs-Hes-Not-Complicated\u2014Hes-Just-a-Manipulative-Asshole-pinterest.-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/5-Signs-Hes-Not-Complicated\u2014Hes-Just-a-Manipulative-Asshole-pinterest.-1-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/5-Signs-Hes-Not-Complicated\u2014Hes-Just-a-Manipulative-Asshole-pinterest.-1-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/5-Signs-Hes-Not-Complicated\u2014Hes-Just-a-Manipulative-Asshole-pinterest.-1-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We tend to romanticize men who are just WRONG for us. It\u2019s about time for women to stop tolerating guys who treat them like shit, stop justifying it by saying they\u2019re too \u201ccomplicated\u201d. It\u2019s enough. We should not accept anyone who does awful things to us, and then use our compassion and understanding. If you\u2019re&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":113347,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2466","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/5-Signs-Hes-Not-Complicated\u2014Hes-Just-a-Manipulative-Asshole-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2466","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2466"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2466\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/113347"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2466"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2466"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2466"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}