{"id":24822,"date":"2018-10-02T07:56:47","date_gmt":"2018-10-02T07:56:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24822"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:27:44","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:27:44","slug":"si-le-envias-estos-7-mensajes-es-que-casi-tienes-una-relacion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-le-envias-estos-7-mensajes-es-que-casi-tienes-una-relacion\/","title":{"rendered":"Si le env\u00edas estos 7 mensajes, es que casi tienes pareja"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>1. \u201cDo you want to come over?\u201d<\/h2>\n<p>Siempre encuentras algo divertido que hacer. Le invitas a quedar, pides comida para llevar, eliges una pel\u00edcula o una serie en Netflix, preparas una comida casera, etc. La cuesti\u00f3n es que lo haces todo.<\/p>\n<p>And it\u2019s like that most of the time. You are the one <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/te-voy-a-dar-la-misma-cantidad-de-esfuerzo-que-tu-me-das-a-mi\/\">hacer el esfuerzo<\/a> y eso incluye hacer planes. Te est\u00e1s esforzando demasiado y \u00e9l casi nunca lo hace y eso te pone en la posici\u00f3n de una casi novia.<\/p>\n<h2>2. \u201cI had a great time the other night\u201d<\/h2>\n<p>Aunque parece un bonito gesto enviarle un mensaje dici\u00e9ndole que te lo has pasado muy bien, tambi\u00e9n depende de si realmente te lo has pasado muy bien y tienes la necesidad de compartirlo con \u00e9l o si est\u00e1s buscando una excusa para enviarle un mensaje.<\/p>\n<p>Otro punto importante aqu\u00ed es que si fuera tu novio de verdad, probablemente se lo dir\u00edas cara a cara y no te esconder\u00edas detr\u00e1s de un mensaje de texto.<\/p>\n<h2>3. \u201cGood morning\/Goodnight.\u201d<\/h2>\n<p>\u00bfSon mensajes de texto de ambas partes? \u00bfSiempre tiene que enviar mensajes de texto o tiene la oportunidad de dec\u00edrselo cara a cara? \u00bfSe queda a dormir o vuelve corriendo a casa despu\u00e9s de salir o tener sexo?<\/p>\n<p>Todas estas son preguntas importantes que debes responder con sinceridad. Si eres la \u00fanica que env\u00eda mensajes de texto y si nunca o casi nunca se queda a dormir, lo m\u00e1s probable es que est\u00e9is en una relaci\u00f3n casi.<\/p>\n<h2>4. \u201cAre you free to go with me\u2026?\u201d<\/h2>\n<p>You don\u2019t really know if you can ask him to go with you somewhere like a family gathering, your friend\u2019s party, a concert next month, etc.<\/p>\n<p>But you ask him anyway and the answer is usually no. If he doesn\u2019t say right away, he says he\u2019ll see, then he cancels last minute.<\/p>\n<p>The sole fact that you are nervous about asking him indicates that you are with someone who you don\u2019t know where you stand with.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-24827 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Untitled-design-36.png\" alt=\"Si le env\u00edas estos 7 mensajes, es que casi tienes pareja \" width=\"540\" height=\"810\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Untitled-design-36.png 540w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Untitled-design-36-200x300.png 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 540px) 100vw, 540px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>5. \u201cAre we still on for next week?\u201d<\/h2>\n<p>Es una pregunta a la que no responder\u00e1 o lo har\u00e1 vagamente. En el fondo de tu coraz\u00f3n lo sabes, pero esperas una respuesta positiva.<\/p>\n<p>Si ya hab\u00e9is acordado hacer algo la semana que viene y si ya lo hab\u00e9is planeado, no tiene sentido que se lo preguntes dos veces. Si tuviera ganas de ir, ya te lo dir\u00eda \u00e9l mismo.<\/p>\n<h2>6. \u201cHow was your day\/weekend\/work?\u201d<\/h2>\n<p>Let\u2019s face it\u2014these questions are pretty common in real relationships too. The big difference is that when you are in an almost relationship, you are the only one asking them.<\/p>\n<p>It hardly ever crosses his mind to do the same. He doesn\u2019t really care much about your day, weekend or work. It\u2019s a harsh reality but your life isn\u2019t his business and he is making it obvious.<\/p>\n<h2>7. \u201cWe need to talk.\u201d<\/h2>\n<p>This is the text you don\u2019t want to send but you will eventually. There will come a point in your almost relationship when it will be all or nothing.<\/p>\n<p>Estar\u00e1s cansado de tanto l\u00edo. Te doler\u00e1. Te sentir\u00e1s poco apreciado y <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/carta-que-el-hombre-dio-por-buena\/\">se da por sentado<\/a> y querr\u00e1s saber si vais a alguna parte o si ha llegado el momento de poner fin a la casi relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. \u201cDo you want to come over?\u201d You always find something fun to do. You ask him to hang out, you order takeout, you choose a movie or a series on Netflix, you cook a homemade meal, etc. The point is you do it all. And it\u2019s like that most of the time. 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