{"id":24907,"date":"2020-07-02T11:56:27","date_gmt":"2020-07-02T11:56:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24907"},"modified":"2022-01-24T13:57:07","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T13:57:07","slug":"asi-es-como-perdiste-a-la-chica-que-te-amaba-sin-importar-nada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/asi-es-como-perdiste-a-la-chica-que-te-amaba-sin-importar-nada\/","title":{"rendered":"As\u00ed es como perdiste a la chica que te quer\u00eda a pesar de todo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>La chica que ten\u00edas a tu lado era especial. Era la chica que te dio su coraz\u00f3n que llevaba en la manga y la chica que te amaba incondicionalmente y sin importar nada.<\/p>\n<p>La chica que estaba dispuesta a aguantar tus gilipolleces y la que estaba dispuesta a hacer lo que hiciera falta para verte feliz.<\/p>\n<p>You know very well that she never asked for much in return for all of her sacrifices. She just wanted your love and appreciation. But you couldn\u2019t get yourself to give her even that.<\/p>\n<p>En lugar de tratarla como se merec\u00eda, t\u00fa <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/10-tipos-de-novios-que-haran-de-tu-vida-un-infierno\/\"> hizo de su vida un infierno <\/a> .<\/p>\n<p>And when she finally saw that you weren\u2019t going to change and when she saw that she was about to lose herself completely next to you, she left you.<\/p>\n<p>When she finally realized that you were breaking her, she walked away from you. When she finally saw that you weren\u2019t worthy of her, you lost her for good.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110450\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-man-looking-through-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"hombre triste mirando por la ventana\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-man-looking-through-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-man-looking-through-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-man-looking-through-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-man-looking-through-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-man-looking-through-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-man-looking-through-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-man-looking-through-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-man-looking-through-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>But no, you didn\u2019t lose her overnight. You may not know it but your behavior was <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/nunca-rechaces-a-una-chica-que-haga-estas-7-cosas-por-ti\/\">alejando a esta chica<\/a> durante bastante tiempo. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Puede que no seas consciente de ello, pero en realidad llevabas a\u00f1os perdi\u00e9ndola poco a poco.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>La perd\u00edas cada vez que la pon\u00edas en \u00faltimo lugar.<\/b> Cada vez que la tratabas como <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/lee-esto-si-te-sientes-como-su-segunda-opcion\/\"> una segunda opci\u00f3n <\/a> como plan alternativo y \u00faltimo recurso.<\/p>\n<p>Every time you made her think that she wasn\u2019t worthy of your time or effort.<\/p>\n<p>La estabas perdiendo poco a poco en cada situaci\u00f3n en la que eleg\u00edas a los dem\u00e1s antes que a ella y en la que le demostrabas que estaba al final de tu lista de prioridades.<\/p>\n<p><b>Se distanciaba de ti cada vez que la hac\u00edas mendigar peque\u00f1as migajas de tu amor y atenci\u00f3n y cada vez que sent\u00eda que te obligaba a estar con ella.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110452\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/worried-woman-standing-on-balcony.jpg\" alt=\"mujer preocupada asomada a un balc\u00f3n\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/worried-woman-standing-on-balcony.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/worried-woman-standing-on-balcony-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/worried-woman-standing-on-balcony-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/worried-woman-standing-on-balcony-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/worried-woman-standing-on-balcony-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/worried-woman-standing-on-balcony-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/worried-woman-standing-on-balcony-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/worried-woman-standing-on-balcony-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Puede que no lo sepas, pero la verdad es que a lo largo de los a\u00f1os, hiciste que esta chica se sintiera poco querida y no deseada, y estas son las \u00faltimas cosas que alguien quiere sentir.<\/p>\n<p><b>La alejabas cada vez que la hac\u00edas llorar. <\/b> Every time she cried herself to sleep and every time you weren\u2019t around to wipe her tears away.<\/p>\n<p>Every time you didn\u2019t make an effort to put a smile back on her face.<\/p>\n<p>Remember all those nights you stood her up and left her hanging? All those times you didn\u2019t pick up the phone and all those nights you left her waiting?<\/p>\n<p>Bueno, \u00bfadivina qu\u00e9? <b>La perd\u00edas m\u00e1s y m\u00e1s cada vez que se quedaba dormida, toda vestida con su tel\u00e9fono en las manos, esperando desesperadamente que la llamaras.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>La alejaste porque la dabas por sentada.<\/b> Porque pensaste que se quedar\u00eda, por mucho da\u00f1o que le causaras y por mucho que la trataras.<\/p>\n<p><b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuanto-mas-juegues-con-ella-mas-rapido-perdera-interes\/\">La perd\u00edas cada vez que intentabas jugar con ella.<\/a>.<\/b> Cada vez que te aprovechaste de todo el amor que ella sent\u00eda por ti y cada vez que utilizaste su vulnerable coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110453\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-crying-in-hands.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste llorando en las manos\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-crying-in-hands.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-crying-in-hands-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-crying-in-hands-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-crying-in-hands-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-crying-in-hands-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-crying-in-hands-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-crying-in-hands-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-crying-in-hands-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>La perd\u00edas cada vez que eleg\u00edas a otra chica en vez de a ella.<\/b> Cada vez que la hac\u00edas compararse y competir con todas esas otras mujeres que te rodeaban.<\/p>\n<p>Every time you didn\u2019t give her the place she deserved in your life.<\/p>\n<p><b>You were pushing her away every time you weren\u2019t faithful or loyal.<\/b> Cada vez que te pillaba mandando mensajes a otras chicas y cada vez que te perdonaba por enga\u00f1arla.<\/p>\n<p><b>You lost her because you didn\u2019t want to commit. <\/b> Porque te negabas a poner una etiqueta a tu relaci\u00f3n y porque pretend\u00edas ser <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/la-verdad-es-que-no-es-emocionalmente-roto-que-es-solo-un-idiota\/\"> emocionalmente rota, mientras que t\u00fa s\u00f3lo eras un gilipollas <\/a> .<\/p>\n<p><b>You lost her because you made her feel like she wasn\u2019t enough.<\/b> Porque alimentaste sus inseguridades, en lugar de aumentar su autoestima.<\/p>\n<p>Porque eras su debilidad en lugar de su fuerza. Porque usaste sus vulnerabilidades en lugar de proteger esas partes de ella.<\/p>\n<p><b>La perdiste porque le mentiste.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110454\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-looking-through-rainy-window.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste mirando a trav\u00e9s de una ventana lluviosa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-looking-through-rainy-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-looking-through-rainy-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-looking-through-rainy-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-looking-through-rainy-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-looking-through-rainy-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-looking-through-rainy-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-looking-through-rainy-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-looking-through-rainy-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La manipulaste haci\u00e9ndole creer que era la \u00fanica chica de tu vida y que todo saldr\u00eda bien entre vosotros.<\/p>\n<p>She left because you made all of those fake promises that you\u2019d change and that you\u2019d start treating her the way she deserved.<\/p>\n<p><b>La alejaste porque nunca estuviste dispuesto a comprometerte o a encontrarte con ella a mitad de camino.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Porque nunca tuviste en cuenta sus necesidades y porque siempre actuaste como un imb\u00e9cil ego\u00edsta que s\u00f3lo se ocupaba de s\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\n<p>La verdad es que <b>esta chica se cans\u00f3 de perseguirte y esperar a que cambiaras.<\/b> Cansado de hacer sacrificios y de esforzarse.<\/p>\n<p>Cansado de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/lo-dio-todo-y-no-obtuvo-nada-a-cambio\/\"> d\u00e1ndote todo su ser mientras no recib\u00eda nada a cambio <\/a> .<\/p>\n<p><b>La verdad es que la estabas perdiendo poco a poco cada vez que le romp\u00edas el coraz\u00f3n.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110449\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/This-Is-How-You-Lost-The-Girl-Who-Loved-You-No-Matter-What-pinterest.png\" alt=\"As\u00ed es como perdiste a la chica que te quer\u00eda a pesar de todo\" width=\"540\" height=\"810\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/This-Is-How-You-Lost-The-Girl-Who-Loved-You-No-Matter-What-pinterest.png 540w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/This-Is-How-You-Lost-The-Girl-Who-Loved-You-No-Matter-What-pinterest-200x300.png 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/This-Is-How-You-Lost-The-Girl-Who-Loved-You-No-Matter-What-pinterest-150x225.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 540px) 100vw, 540px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The girl you had by your side was special. This was the girl who gave you her heart that she wore on her sleeve and the girl who loved you unconditionally and no matter what. The girl who was ready to put up with your bullshit and the girl who was willing to do whatever&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":110459,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24907","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/This-Is-How-You-Lost-The-Girl-Who-Loved-You-No-Matter-What-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24907","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24907"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24907\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/110459"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24907"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24907"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24907"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}