{"id":24966,"date":"2020-05-03T11:18:40","date_gmt":"2020-05-03T11:18:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24966"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:34:03","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:34:03","slug":"por-eso-no-puede-seguir-perdonandote","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-eso-no-puede-seguir-perdonandote\/","title":{"rendered":"Esta es la raz\u00f3n por la que no puede seguir perdon\u00e1ndote"},"content":{"rendered":"

Durante mucho tiempo, esta chica crey\u00f3 en todas tus promesas, mientras t\u00fa no hac\u00edas m\u00e1s que tomarla por tonta.<\/p>\n

She kept trying to find excuses for you mistreating her and kept hoping that you\u2019d become the man you swore you\u2019d be.<\/p>\n

She kept justifying you and kept waiting for you to change your ways. She kept forgiving you for everything you\u2019d been putting her through.<\/p>\n

Puede que pensaras que era tonta por creerte y por perdonarte siempre. La habr\u00e1s considerado loca. Pero la verdad es que s\u00f3lo estaba loca por ti.<\/p>\n

Porque esta chica es cualquier cosa menos est\u00fapida. Y por eso ha decidido que ya est\u00e1 harta. Por eso ha decidido poner fin a esta farsa y decir su despedida final<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

La verdad es que sigue teniendo un coraz\u00f3n de oro, pero ya no hay sitio para ti en \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

\u017eThe truth is that this girl is done with believing in your lies. The truth is that she can\u2019t keep forgiving you and that she doesn\u2019t want to let you play with her anymore.<\/p>\n

Ya sabes, she can\u2019t keep forgiving you because you\u2019ve violated her trust more than once. <\/b><\/p>\n

Porque cada vez que ella empezaba a creer que esta vez ser\u00eda diferente y que por fin cambiar\u00edas, acababas haciendo algo a\u00fan peor que antes.<\/p>\n

This girl isn\u2019t someone who will cut you off on your first strike because she believes in people. And she believed in you, even when that was the last thing you deserved.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

But she doesn\u2019t want to continue forgiving you because you\u2019ve really crossed the line. Because she is sick and tired of giving you endless second chances.<\/p>\n

Porque cada vez que ella te acept\u00f3 de nuevo y cada vez que decidi\u00f3 darle otra oportunidad a esta relaci\u00f3n, t\u00fa la arruinaste. Arruinaste todas las oportunidades que ella te dio.<\/p>\n

Nunca viste su perd\u00f3n como una oportunidad para mejorar. Por el contrario, actuaste como si ella te diera permiso para seguir haci\u00e9ndole da\u00f1o, como si te diera luz verde para seguir rompi\u00e9ndole el coraz\u00f3n.<\/b><\/p>\n

No puede seguir perdon\u00e1ndote porque empezaste a darla por sentada<\/b> hace un tiempo.<\/p>\n

Porque empezaste a asumir que hab\u00eda nada pod\u00edas hacer para que dejara de quererte <\/a> o que se aleje de ti para siempre, por mucho da\u00f1o que le hagas.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Porque siempre la tratabas como si supieras que se quedar\u00eda a tu lado, a pesar de todo el dolor emocional que le estabas causando.<\/p>\n

The truth is that you\u2019ve been taking advantage of her and of the way she loves you.<\/p>\n

Que utilizaste su gracia y su coraz\u00f3n indulgente como una oportunidad para tratarla como quer\u00edas, sin pensar nunca en las consecuencias emocionales que tu comportamiento estaba dejando en ella.<\/p>\n

But most of all\u2014she can\u2019t force herself to continue forgiving you, even if she wanted to because nunca sentiste pena por nada de lo que le hiciste pasar<\/b>.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, le dijiste que lo sent\u00edas cientos de veces. Pero ninguna de tus disculpas fue sincera.<\/p>\n

\"el<\/p>\n

Nunca has intentado ponerte en su lugar y ver las cosas desde su punto de vista.<\/p>\n

You never put in the effort to really understand everything you\u2019d been doing to this girl for years.<\/p>\n

Nunca sentiste culpa por todo el da\u00f1o emocional que le causaste. <\/b><\/p>\n

Nunca te sentiste culpable de ninguna de sus l\u00e1grimas y nunca te cre\u00edste responsable de sus desamores.<\/b><\/p>\n

Tal vez no eras consciente de todo el dolor que le causaste. O simplemente intentaste justificarte sin mirar nunca la verdad a los ojos.<\/p>\n

Or you are just an insensitive asshole who doesn\u2019t care what he is doing to someone who loves him.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Either way, the truth is that you\u2019ve never shown any sign of real resentment. <\/b><\/p>\n

La verdad es que <\/b>hurting her doesn\u2019t haunt you<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

The truth is that you\u2019ve never shown her that you were honestly sorry for all the bad things you\u2019d done.<\/b><\/p>\n

And what is the point of constantly forgiving someone who clearly doesn\u2019t want to be forgiven?<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Esta<\/p>\n

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