{"id":25019,"date":"2020-04-04T09:48:19","date_gmt":"2020-04-04T09:48:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=25019"},"modified":"2022-02-10T02:15:46","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T02:15:46","slug":"5-senales-de-que-tiene-miedo-de-que-le-vuelvan-a-hacer-dano","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-senales-de-que-tiene-miedo-de-que-le-vuelvan-a-hacer-dano\/","title":{"rendered":"5 se\u00f1ales de que teme que le vuelvan a hacer da\u00f1o"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfQu\u00e9 ocurre cuando afloran sus emociones ocultas?<\/b><\/p>\n

Conoc\u00ed a un chico hace un tiempo. Me enamor\u00e9 de \u00e9l en cuanto le vi. Era absolutamente todo lo que buscaba en un hombre.<\/p>\n

Era perfecto. Y lo mejor de todo, yo tambi\u00e9n le gustaba.<\/p>\n

Los dos sab\u00edamos que nos gust\u00e1bamos, que era cuesti\u00f3n de tiempo que las cosas se pusieran serias.<\/p>\n

Sab\u00edamos que llegar\u00eda ese momento, pero \u00bfqui\u00e9n puede resistirse a un poco de persecuci\u00f3n al principio? Al fin y al cabo, \u00e9sa es la mejor parte.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

It\u2019s such a relief to get involved in a romance you know is going to work out.<\/p>\n

He wasn\u2019t sending any mixed signals, he wasn\u2019t being hot and cold. He was sure about me and I was sure about him.<\/p>\n

No nos jug\u00e1bamos el coraz\u00f3n. Sab\u00edamos que \u00edbamos a funcionar. As\u00ed que lo intentamos. <\/i><\/p>\n

Nada cambi\u00f3 mucho, al menos al principio de la relaci\u00f3n, pero lo que vino despu\u00e9s fue algo que ninguno de los dos esperaba. <\/b><\/p>\n

Me cuid\u00f3. Me hizo sentir segura. Era el hombre de mis sue\u00f1os. Pero algo cambi\u00f3 cuando nuestra relaci\u00f3n se volvi\u00f3 m\u00e1s seria.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

En lugar de que las cosas fueran a\u00fan mejor y m\u00e1s fuertes, nuestra relaci\u00f3n se debilit\u00f3. Empez\u00f3 a retroceder, se volvi\u00f3 inseguro, como si algo le frenara.<\/p>\n

Pens\u00e9 que el problema era yo. Pens\u00e9 que hab\u00eda hecho algo para ahuyentarlo <\/a> but I had no idea, it didn\u2019t even cross my mind, that mi novio ten\u00eda miedo de amarme.<\/b><\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t see it coming either. I saw he was trying to fight it but the fear prevailed and paralyzed him.<\/p>\n

He showed that to me every day through his actions but I was too blind to see it. He didn\u2019t change, he didn\u2019t become an asshole all of a sudden. He was just scared of getting hurt again.<\/p>\n

Evitaba hablar de relaciones<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Todos los problemas que ten\u00edamos se escond\u00edan bajo la alfombra. Nunca habl\u00e1bamos de nada. Evitaba los temas relacionados con nuestro futuro y con nuestros problemas de pareja.<\/p>\n

He was scared that we\u2019d reach a point where there would be something that we wouldn\u2019t be able to solve, which would result in us breaking up.<\/p>\n

And that meant he\u2019d get his heart broken once again.<\/p>\n

Ten\u00eda sentimientos encontrados<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

One moment he was over the moon and the next, he was the most depressed person you\u2019d ever met. His mood changed in a minute.<\/p>\n

Se preocupaba por m\u00ed pero ten\u00eda miedo de admitirlo <\/a> . Algo le imped\u00eda desprenderse de sus miedos.<\/p>\n

So he acted this way. It\u2019s like he was torn between doing what he really wanted and what his reason told him was the best for him.<\/p>\n

Su coraz\u00f3n lo acercaba a m\u00ed y su mente lo alejaba.<\/p>\n

He wanted to make plans but he didn\u2019t<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Realmente quer\u00eda hablar del futuro. Quer\u00eda hacer planes conmigo porque en el fondo nos quer\u00edamos.<\/p>\n

Pero esa sensaci\u00f3n, ese miedo, siempre le frenaba.<\/p>\n

Yo era la que ten\u00eda que planificar los viajes y las citas y, sinceramente, me hart\u00e9.<\/p>\n

I thought he had given up on us and that he wasn\u2019t trying hard enough because he couldn\u2019t care less whether we made it or not.<\/p>\n

Pero la verdad es que estaba demasiado asustado para dejarme entrar un poco m\u00e1s en su vida. Sab\u00eda que no hab\u00eda vuelta atr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Tuvo episodios de celos<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Era su inseguridad la que hablaba. Aqu\u00ed es donde la parte de un hombre emocionalmente destruido entr\u00f3 en acci\u00f3n. Obviamente ten\u00eda un pasado dif\u00edcil.<\/p>\n

Obviamente le hab\u00edan herido y se hab\u00eda marchado para reparar su coraz\u00f3n. Ahora actu\u00f3 antes de que algo as\u00ed sucediera.<\/p>\n

Sus acciones nunca tuvieron causa. Sus acusaciones eran rid\u00edculas.<\/p>\n

He would freak out if I didn’t answer his text right away because he thought I was out there screwing someone else. He never asked, he only made assumptions.<\/p>\n

Los celos le impidieron ver lo que realmente estaba ocurriendo.<\/p>\n

Ya le hab\u00edan herido antes<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

I know, this is not an excuse. You were hurt, I was hurt, we\u2019ve all been hurt before. But think back for a second and remember how you felt.<\/p>\n

Recuerda por lo que estabas pasando cuando intentaste recomponer los pedazos de tu coraz\u00f3n roto<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You\u2019d probably sworn off relationships for good. You thought men were stupid and you\u2019d never date again.<\/p>\n

You probably had a rebound relationship which didn’t work out because you were too scared you\u2019d get hurt again.<\/p>\n

Well, this is everything he is going through right now. Don\u2019t let it be a rebound. Believe in him and give him some space to heal and to allow himself to love again.<\/p>\n

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