{"id":25056,"date":"2019-10-04T11:10:56","date_gmt":"2019-10-04T11:10:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=25056"},"modified":"2022-02-23T11:18:31","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T11:18:31","slug":"lo-mas-valiente-que-puedes-hacer-es-volver-a-amar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/lo-mas-valiente-que-puedes-hacer-es-volver-a-amar\/","title":{"rendered":"Lo m\u00e1s valiente que puedes hacer es volver a amar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Only the ones who have been hurt beyond repair know how hard it is to love again. How hard it is to place your heart in somebody&#8217;s hands and pray that they won\u2019t drop it.<\/p>\n<p>You are marked by your past, and there\u2019s nothing you can do about it. You want love, but you don\u2019t want the risk that comes with letting somebody in.<\/p>\n<p>Ya conoce la historia de sobra. Empieza como un sue\u00f1o y acaba siendo una pesadilla. Te levanta y acaba contigo en ruinas. Empieza con risas y acaba con l\u00e1grimas.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t want that again. You don\u2019t want your mind to be messed with. You don\u2019t want to trust in somebody and get betrayed. You don\u2019t want your emotions played with.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why you guard your heart. You built walls so high that it seems they are impossible to climb. It\u2019s easier that way.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s safer than giving love a chance and picking up the pieces once more. It\u2019s safer than opening up and being vulnerable. It\u2019s safer to be alone.<\/p>\n<p>You are used to be on your own after all. It\u2019s not so much different than the relationships you are used to. They left you feeling so lonely that being alone actually feels better.<\/p>\n<p>Estoy de acuerdo, estar solo siempre es mejor que estar en una relaci\u00f3n equivocada. Pero, \u00bfes realmente una respuesta encerrarse emocionalmente y alejarse de las relaciones?<\/p>\n<p>Claro que no, y te dar\u00e1s cuenta un d\u00eda de estos.<\/p>\n<p>You will realize that nothing in this life is worth it like love. It\u2019s worth the risk. It\u2019s worth the hurt. It\u2019s worth all the wrong ones if they pave the path for the right one.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando te des cuenta, ver\u00e1s que tienes m\u00e1s valor del que crees. Estar\u00e1s dispuesta a arriesgarte y a intentarlo una vez m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p><em><b>Ni siquiera eres consciente de ello, pero todo lo que has pasado te ha engrosado la piel. Te ha hecho m\u00e1s fuerte. Te ha hecho m\u00e1s <\/b><\/em>resistente<em><strong>. Te convirti\u00f3 en alguien que se levantar\u00e1, siempre, por dura que haya sido la ca\u00edda.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Tambi\u00e9n te hizo filtrar lo bueno y lo malo. Te hizo darte cuenta de las banderas rojas. Te hizo m\u00e1s precavido. Te hizo m\u00e1s perspicaz y mejor juez del car\u00e1cter.<\/p>\n<p>It made you see what you want and what you absolutely won\u2019t tolerate. It made you establish standards and not go beneath them. It made you see your own worth, so you would never again settle for less than you deserve.<\/p>\n<p>And even though there is no guarantee that you won\u2019t get hurt again, it will give you a head start and better odds in choosing in whom you place your trust.<\/p>\n<p>Ahora puede parecer imposible, pero <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/miedo-y-fe-para-volver-a-amar\/\">volver\u00e1s a amar<\/a>. Conocer\u00e1s a alguien que ser\u00e1 diferente a todos los que conoc\u00edas hasta ahora.<\/p>\n<p>Conocer\u00e1s a alguien que har\u00e1 que tus paredes <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/el-hombre-que-hace-caer-las-paredes\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">caerse<\/a>. You will meet someone who will make you realize why it didn\u2019t work with anyone else before.<\/p>\n<p>It won\u2019t be easy for you to give love a chance. It will take all of your strength. It will make you face your fears and conquer them. And you will\u2014there is no doubt about it.<\/p>\n<p>You will love again, and it\u2019ll be the bravest thing you\u2018ll ever do.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-25058 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/NOT-TO-ACQUIRE.-5-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Lo m\u00e1s valiente que puedes hacer es volver a amar\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/NOT-TO-ACQUIRE.-5-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/NOT-TO-ACQUIRE.-5-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/NOT-TO-ACQUIRE.-5.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Only the ones who have been hurt beyond repair know how hard it is to love again. How hard it is to place your heart in somebody&#8217;s hands and pray that they won\u2019t drop it. You are marked by your past, and there\u2019s nothing you can do about it. You want love, but you don\u2019t&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":25057,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-25056","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/matias-saw-783045-unsplash.jpg",800,537,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25056","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=25056"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25056\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/25057"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=25056"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=25056"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=25056"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}