{"id":25083,"date":"2018-10-05T06:36:54","date_gmt":"2018-10-05T06:36:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=25083"},"modified":"2022-03-22T01:15:20","modified_gmt":"2022-03-22T01:15:20","slug":"gestionar-las-expectativas-de-su-asociacion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/gestionar-las-expectativas-de-su-asociacion\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo gestionar las expectativas de su pareja"},"content":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s important to understand what should be expected of you and what you should expect of your partner in order for a relationship to grow and sustain for a long period of time. If you decide to enter into a bond completely unaware of what your role in the relationship is or what to expect from the person you are committing yourself to, you\u2019ll only be opening yourself up to future struggles and disappointment.<\/p>\n

Por supuesto, las relaciones de pareja no pueden planificarse de antemano. No hay ninguna gu\u00eda que indique lo que debes decir o hacer, o lo que debes esperar de tu pareja. Lo m\u00e1s probable, sin embargo, es que ambos hay\u00e1is entrado en esta uni\u00f3n con objetivos similares, queriendo las mismas cosas b\u00e1sicas. Los dos quer\u00e9is ser felices y hacer feliz a la otra persona, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo se consigue esto?<\/b><\/p>\n

Just because you are head over heels for another person and caught up in a whirlwind of romance doesn\u2019t mean you should lose yourself in the process. Keep your own individual goals in mind and respect your partner\u2019s. The strongest relationships \u2013 those that tend to last a lifetime \u2013 are ones in which you can maintain healthy boundaries and respect for one another. There needs to be a balance between spending time together and staying connected to yourself and your individual goals.<\/p>\n

The relationship needs to be based on trust as well. You\u2019ll want to be able to trust your partner despite inevitable conflicts with commitments, schedules, values, or anything else that can hinder trust if you let it. You\u2019ll need to remain open and honest, and your partner will need to do the same.<\/p>\n

La comunicaci\u00f3n es clave. Muchos problemas en las relaciones surgen de una mala comunicaci\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Being willing to communicate means being able to share your expectations openly with your partner and allowing them to voice their needs. You should feel unafraid of being truthful about what you want from the relationship and be open-minded to your partner\u2019s desires even if they differ from your own.<\/p>\n

Try to fulfill each other\u2019s expectations. Making a genuine effort to do so will be appreciated and make your bond grow stronger. But, don\u2019t fulfill the needs of another person at the expense of staying true to yourself. This is a recipe for failure.<\/p>\n

When we become someone we\u2019re not, simply for the fact that we\u2019re trying to be everything we think our partner needs us to be, a part of us dies inside. And, eventually, this dissatisfaction will be all-consuming. We have to conserve some of our energy for our own interests in order to be truly happy.<\/p>\n

If you feel your partner is trying too hard to please you and these actions aren\u2019t genuine, or vice versa, something\u2019s not working. There is a big difference between accommodating a partner\u2019s needs while maintaining healthy boundaries and becoming someone else entirely in the process, at one\u2019s own expense. Lasting contentment cannot be built on a shaky foundation. Al final, todo se vendr\u00e1 abajo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s very easy to become inseguro en una relaci\u00f3n<\/a> with someone you truly love. Inside, you feel you would do anything for this person \u2013 you\u2019d give anything to be with them. So, it may seem too good to be true when you find someone who feels the same. However, you cannot allow jealousy to overtake your good intentions.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s healthy to be jealous from time to time, to some extent.<\/b> If you never feel this way, it may be a sign that you don\u2019t care as deeply for the person as you may want to. Regardless of how confident you are in yourself and the bond you have, it\u2019s natural to feel envious of something that comes between you two.<\/p>\n

However, there is a way to go about handling these feelings. Rather than lashing out at the other person and making hasty accusations or saying something you\u2019ll know you\u2019ll end up regretting, if something is making you feel insecure, talk to your partner about this. Don\u2019t beat around the bush, don\u2019t go about it in a passive-aggressive manner. Comunica abiertamente c\u00f3mo te sientes. <\/b> As long as they don\u2019t feel they\u2019re under attack, the way your partner responds will usually tell you everything you need to know.<\/p>\n

The bottom line is \u2013 if you and your partner have similar viewpoints on life and similar goals and expectations, you\u2019ll make it. Put in the time and effort to make your relationship last and you\u2019re bound to have a beautiful future together.<\/b><\/p>\n

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