{"id":25112,"date":"2020-07-05T07:43:32","date_gmt":"2020-07-05T07:43:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=25112"},"modified":"2024-10-28T01:55:37","modified_gmt":"2024-10-27T23:55:37","slug":"una-carta-a-la-mujer-que-era-hace-un-ano","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/una-carta-a-la-mujer-que-era-hace-un-ano\/","title":{"rendered":"Carta a la mujer que era hace un a\u00f1o"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Querido yo,<\/p>\n<p>You really couldn\u2019t even guess how much could happen in one year. You never thought that the tears would stop.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca pensaste que ser\u00edas capaz de conciliar el sue\u00f1o sin dar vueltas en la cama ni pensar demasiado.<\/p>\n<p>You were haunted by your thoughts. You kept asking yourself: \u201c What went wrong?\u201d, \u201cCould I have done something differently?\u201d, \u201cWill he come back?\u201d and, \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/me-echara-de-menos-si-le-dejo-solo-es-algo-que-merece-la-pena-averiguar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u00bfMe echa de menos?<\/a>\u201d&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Pero aqu\u00ed est\u00e1s, ahora est\u00e1s tranquilo. Tus pensamientos est\u00e1n silenciados. Sabes que nunca se trat\u00f3 de ti.<\/p>\n<p>There was nothing you could&#8217;ve done or said that would have changed the outcome.<\/p>\n<p>Siempre fue \u00e9l. Nunca vio tu verdadero yo. Nunca vio lo \u00fanica y especial que eras.<\/p>\n<p>Jug\u00f3 con tus sentimientos y dio por sentado tu amor. Y aunque te doli\u00f3, te hizo un favor.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120058\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/woman-looking-through-office-window.jpg\" alt=\"mujer mirando por la ventana de la oficina\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/woman-looking-through-office-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/woman-looking-through-office-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/woman-looking-through-office-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/woman-looking-through-office-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/woman-looking-through-office-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/woman-looking-through-office-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/woman-looking-through-office-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/woman-looking-through-office-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You would still be hooked on him and stuck in something that was never right for you if he wasn\u2019t the one who left. You were too close and too in love that you couldn\u2019t see the real him.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>M\u00edrate ahora, ya casi lo has superado y pensabas que ese d\u00eda nunca llegar\u00eda. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>You finally found the light after all the darkness and I couldn\u2019t be prouder. You are stronger than you gave yourself credit. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>It wasn\u2019t easy to get where you are now. When you are in pain, a year can really feel like a century.<\/p>\n<p>Sab\u00edas desde el principio que necesitabas tiempo, pero parec\u00eda que se ralentizaba s\u00f3lo para fastidiarte.<\/p>\n<p>Todos esos bonitos recuerdos que compartisteis se convirtieron en tu peor enemigo. La idea de no volver a revivir momentos as\u00ed con \u00e9l te destrozaba el coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Te temblaba la voz y te dol\u00edan los o\u00eddos cada vez que ten\u00edas que decir que hab\u00edais roto y que \u00e9l ya no formaba parte de tu vida a alguien que os conoc\u00eda a los dos.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Today those painful feelings have turned into acceptance. You know that things had to go that way and that\u2019s it.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/pensive-brunette-woman-looking-away.jpg\" alt=\"mujer morena pensativa mirando hacia otro lado\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/pensive-brunette-woman-looking-away.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/pensive-brunette-woman-looking-away-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/pensive-brunette-woman-looking-away-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/pensive-brunette-woman-looking-away-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/pensive-brunette-woman-looking-away-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/pensive-brunette-woman-looking-away-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/pensive-brunette-woman-looking-away-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/pensive-brunette-woman-looking-away-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b><i>\u00a0Memories are just memories now and you proudly say you are \u201c<\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/9-cosas-que-pasan-cuando-estas-soltero-y-arrasas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><b><i>soltera y fabulosa<\/i><\/b><\/a><b><i>\u201d. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>You have a more positive outlook on life and on yourself. You don\u2019t dwell on the past anymore, your focus is on what&#8217;s ahead of you.<\/p>\n<p>Has aprendido lo importante que es cuidarte y recordarte cada d\u00eda lo que vales.<\/p>\n<p>Cre\u00edas que saldr\u00edas adelante y lo hiciste.<\/p>\n<p>Ten\u00edas tu fe, tus amigos y tu familia a tu lado y no hab\u00eda nada que te detuviera con un sistema de apoyo as\u00ed. Est\u00e1s muy agradecida a todos ellos.<\/p>\n<p>Te sientes como si estuvieras viviendo una nueva vida. Es feliz y vibrante. Exploras el mundo que te rodea, vas a sitios nuevos y conoces a gente nueva.<\/p>\n<p>You have new goals to pursue and there\u2019s no stopping you.<\/p>\n<p>Al perderle, te encontraste a ti misma. Descubriste de qu\u00e9 est\u00e1s hecha y est\u00e1s preparada para afrontar lo que venga.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Keep your head up high, your dreams big and just keep on going forward and everything will work out when it\u2019s supposed to. You know that, don\u2019t you?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/A-Letter-To-The-Woman-I-Was-A-Year-Ago-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Carta a la mujer que era hace un a\u00f1o\" class=\"wp-image-163256\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/A-Letter-To-The-Woman-I-Was-A-Year-Ago-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/A-Letter-To-The-Woman-I-Was-A-Year-Ago-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/A-Letter-To-The-Woman-I-Was-A-Year-Ago-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/A-Letter-To-The-Woman-I-Was-A-Year-Ago-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/A-Letter-To-The-Woman-I-Was-A-Year-Ago-pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/A-Letter-To-The-Woman-I-Was-A-Year-Ago-pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/A-Letter-To-The-Woman-I-Was-A-Year-Ago-pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/A-Letter-To-The-Woman-I-Was-A-Year-Ago-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear me, You really couldn\u2019t even guess how much could happen in one year. You never thought that the tears would stop. You never thought you would be able to fall asleep without tossing and turning and overthinking. You were haunted by your thoughts. You kept asking yourself: \u201c What went wrong?\u201d, \u201cCould I have&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":176626,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-25112","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/A-Letter-To-The-Woman-I-Was-A-Year-Ago-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. 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