{"id":25135,"date":"2020-10-05T08:49:13","date_gmt":"2020-10-05T08:49:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=25135"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:17:52","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:17:52","slug":"el-amor-no-consiste-en-quedarse-con-alguien-que-te-hace-dano","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-amor-no-consiste-en-quedarse-con-alguien-que-te-hace-dano\/","title":{"rendered":"El amor no consiste en quedarse con alguien que te hace da\u00f1o"},"content":{"rendered":"

La verdad es que el amor requiere tiempo y esfuerzo, porque las relaciones sanas no surgen de la noche a la ma\u00f1ana.<\/p>\n

En cambio, suelen requerir muchos sacrificios y trabajo duro.<\/p>\n

Pero una cosa es que luches contra tus problemas codo con codo con tu pareja y otra completamente distinta que seas t\u00fa el \u00fanico que lucha.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I am not saying that you should back out of your relationship at the first sight of a problem.<\/p>\n

No te estoy diciendo que te rindas cada vez que aparezca un peque\u00f1o inconveniente o desacuerdo. Porque el amor consiste en luchar e intentar que las cosas salgan bien.<\/p>\n

But it doesn\u2019t mean that you are required to stay with someone who is doing you harm. <\/b><\/p>\n

Porque el amor no consiste en quedarse al lado de alguien que te hace da\u00f1o.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, el amor tiene que ver con el perd\u00f3n. Pero hay que recordar que existen algunos <\/b>cosas que nunca debes perdonar<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Que hay cosas que permanecen enterradas en lo m\u00e1s profundo de tu ser, aunque intentes forzarte a olvidarlas.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, el amor se basa en el compromiso. But that doesn\u2019t mean you should always be the one to compromise with yourself.<\/b><\/p>\n

Que seas t\u00fa quien deje de lado tus necesidades y quien haga todos los sacrificios.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, el amor es cuesti\u00f3n de esfuerzo. But that doesn\u2019t mean you are required to move mountains for someone who isn\u2019t ready to lift a finger for your sake.<\/b><\/p>\n

Que seas t\u00fa quien siempre intente hacer avanzar las cosas y quien est\u00e9 constantemente tratando de encontrar la mejor soluci\u00f3n a sus problemas.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, el amor consiste en mejorar.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

But that doesn\u2019t mean that you should be with someone who tries to mold you his own way or with someone who wants you to fit his standards. <\/b><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that you should stick with a partner who wants to change you. <\/b><\/p>\n

En cambio, lo que esto significa es que necesitas estar con quien te empuje hacia adelante y te inspire a convertirte en la mejor versi\u00f3n posible de ti mismo.<\/p>\n

Remember\u2014love is never pain. Love is never staying with someone who takes you for granted and it\u2019s never about giving them unlimited chances to hurt you even more.<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not being with someone who abuses you in any way or with a person who does everything in his power to put you down.<\/p>\n

El amor nunca te har\u00e1 sentir inseguro o como si no fueras suficiente.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not love if you have to fight for pieces of someone\u2019s attention or if you have to beg your other half to put you first.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Love is not staying with someone who doesn\u2019t deserve you. It\u2019s not being with a man who te trata como a una mierda<\/a> o convierte tu vida en un infierno.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not about waiting for him to change and to come to his senses.<\/p>\n

Yes, love is all about being together through thick and thin. It\u2019s all about dealing with challenges and difficulties while holding each other\u2019s hand.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s about going through life\u2019s journey shoulder to shoulder. And it is all about not leaving someone hanging when times get rough.<\/p>\n

But this doesn\u2019t mean that you are required to put up with all the bad things this person might be doing to you, no matter how much you love them.<\/b><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that you should forget about all of your deal-breakers and standards or that you should allow them to treat you the way they want, just because you care for them.<\/p>\n

Porque A veces, llegas a un punto de ruptura. A veces, la persona que amas cruza una l\u00ednea.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

A veces, empiezan a afectar a tu salud mental y ves que no son buenas para ti. A veces, ves que te traen m\u00e1s tristeza que alegr\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Cuando esto ocurre, la \u00fanica opci\u00f3n que tienes es marcharte. La \u00fanica opci\u00f3n que tienes es lib\u00e9rate de esta relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Tienes que olvidarte de toda la historia que ten\u00e9is juntos y dejarla en el pasado.<\/p>\n

A veces, tienes que elegir salvarte a ti mismo por encima de esa persona que tanto te importa.<\/p>\n

And there is nothing selfish about this. It doesn\u2019t make you weak and you definitely shouldn\u2019t feel guilty about doing it.<\/p>\n

Por el contrario, te hace m\u00e1s fuerte de lo que crees porque demuestra que tuviste el poder de elegir tu raz\u00f3n por encima de tu coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Demuestra que tuviste el poder de vencerte a ti mismo y hacer lo correcto. <\/b><\/p>\n

Demuestra que fuiste lo bastante inteligente para saber que el amor nunca debe complicarte la vida.<\/b> <\/p>\n

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The truth is that love takes time and effort because healthy relationships don\u2019t happen overnight. Instead, they usually require many sacrifices and hard work. But it is one thing if you fight your problems side by side with your partner and it is something completely different if you are the only one fighting. Don\u2019t get…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":118448,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-25135","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Love-Isnt-About-Staying-With-Someone-Who-Hurts-You-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25135","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=25135"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25135\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/118448"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=25135"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=25135"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=25135"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}