{"id":25276,"date":"2020-08-08T12:50:53","date_gmt":"2020-08-08T12:50:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=25276"},"modified":"2022-04-04T02:58:45","modified_gmt":"2022-04-04T02:58:45","slug":"cuando-sientas-que-ha-llegado-el-momento-de-decir-adios","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuando-sientas-que-ha-llegado-el-momento-de-decir-adios\/","title":{"rendered":"Cuando sienta que ha llegado el momento de decir adi\u00f3s"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Para llegar a una relaci\u00f3n que nos complete y que veamos como duradera a largo plazo, es necesario pasar por aquellas que no nos han hecho bien.<\/p>\n<p>A veces podemos decir con certeza que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/alejarse-de-alguien-es-algo-mas-que-romper-con-el\/\"> alguien no es para nosotros <\/a> y rompemos la relaci\u00f3n, pero \u00bfqu\u00e9 pasa cuando no podemos tomar una decisi\u00f3n?<\/p>\n<p>Y nos preguntamos si deber\u00edamos esperar y dar a la relaci\u00f3n una oportunidad m\u00e1s? \u00bfO gastar energ\u00eda innecesaria en algo que no tiene sentido?<\/p>\n<p>Si te reconoces en la mayor\u00eda de estas situaciones, puede que haya llegado el momento de seguir adelante.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s hard to say <b>\u00bfcu\u00e1ndo es el momento adecuado para una ruptura?<\/b> y cuando te dar\u00e1s cuenta seguro de que no tienes nada m\u00e1s que buscar en esa relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>A veces se decide porque hay una discusi\u00f3n constante entre los miembros de la pareja, a veces por enga\u00f1o, y a veces se trata de discrepar sobre actitudes, deseos y posibilidades.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-101766\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-arguing-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"pareja discutiendo en un cafe\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-arguing-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-arguing-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-arguing-at-cafe-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-arguing-at-cafe-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-arguing-at-cafe-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Los escenarios son siempre diferentes, pero la verdadera pregunta es: \u00bfcu\u00e1ndo es el momento adecuado para una ruptura? \u00bfCu\u00e1ndo es el momento de decir adi\u00f3s?<\/p>\n<p>A veces, justo cuando rompemos, nos damos cuenta de cu\u00e1nto antes ten\u00eda que haber ocurrido.<\/p>\n<p>When you are hiding some feelings and problems in your head, without telling your partner about them, you are creating more problems you don&#8217;t need.<\/p>\n<p>A veces significa que la relaci\u00f3n est\u00e1 en su fase cr\u00edtica, pero eso no significa que los problemas que no se pueden resolver.<\/p>\n<p>They can be resolved and ignoring them won&#8217;t help. If you don&#8217;t feel the need to talk about them with your partner, think about breaking up.<\/p>\n<p>Si las personas que te quieren se preocupan por ti porque pareces infeliz en esta relaci\u00f3n, no les des por irrelevantes.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-101767\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-holding-sad-woman-for-arms.jpg\" alt=\"hombre sosteniendo mujer triste por brazos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-holding-sad-woman-for-arms.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-holding-sad-woman-for-arms-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-holding-sad-woman-for-arms-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-holding-sad-woman-for-arms-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-holding-sad-woman-for-arms-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Escuche lo que tienen que decir, ya que a veces <b>we don&#8217;t see the situation objectively.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Esto puede ser de gran ayuda. Si hay una raz\u00f3n justificada para no confiar en tu pareja, si la desconfianza se ha convertido en parte de la relaci\u00f3n, entonces los problemas est\u00e1n en camino.<\/p>\n<p>Debes saber que la mejor soluci\u00f3n en esta situaci\u00f3n es poner fin a la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>If your partner is someone who&#8217;s focused on himself, paranoid, defensive, easily angry, or often has bad thoughts and moods, that&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/10-maneras-de-superar-una-ruptura-sentimental\/\"> no es un hombre con el que quieras tener una relaci\u00f3n <\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Do not hesitate to tell him goodbye. A good reason to end the relationship is when you have realized that you have life goals that do not even match your partner\u2019s, as sometimes two good people simply have no plans or ambitions that match.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando se tienen puntos de vista distintos sobre temas importantes de la vida, por ejemplo, no se est\u00e1 de acuerdo en cuestiones sociales, pol\u00edticas, de fe, de hijos o de finanzas, no se puede esperar un buen futuro juntos. No es real.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-101768\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-arguing-in-the-kitchen-2.jpg\" alt=\"pareja discutiendo en la cocina\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-arguing-in-the-kitchen-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-arguing-in-the-kitchen-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-arguing-in-the-kitchen-2-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-arguing-in-the-kitchen-2-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-arguing-in-the-kitchen-2-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La comunicaci\u00f3n en una relaci\u00f3n <b>no puede ser superficial<\/b> porque si es as\u00ed, no est\u00e1s en condiciones de mantener conversaciones sinceras y constructivas.<\/p>\n<p>Entonces es dif\u00edcil que la relaci\u00f3n progrese.<\/p>\n<p>Si no puedes resolver los conflictos, deber\u00edas poner fin a la relaci\u00f3n. En las relaciones s\u00f3lidas, la gente se esfuerza mucho por superar los conflictos y eso les hace m\u00e1s fuertes juntos.<\/p>\n<p>Sin ella, la relaci\u00f3n se volver\u00e1 t\u00f3xica para ambos.<\/p>\n<p>Also if you do not feel that you have 100% support and the person you&#8217;re concerned about shows little interest in your ambitions and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-buenas-razones-para-romper\/\"> insiste constantemente en hablar de s\u00ed mismo <\/a>no ser\u00e1s feliz.<\/p>\n<p>Una de las se\u00f1ales de que ha llegado el momento de romper la relaci\u00f3n es si tu chico te cuenta c\u00f3mo tuvo que compartir habitaci\u00f3n con una guapa colega en un viaje de negocios, y t\u00fa ni pesta\u00f1easte. Sabes que eso no est\u00e1 bien.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-101769\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-with-blue-eyes-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con ojos azules mirando a lo lejos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-with-blue-eyes-looking-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-with-blue-eyes-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-with-blue-eyes-looking-at-distance-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-with-blue-eyes-looking-at-distance-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-with-blue-eyes-looking-at-distance-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si te sientes as\u00ed, deber\u00edas hablar con tu pareja sobre lo que piensas. Si tu pareja no quiere hablar de ello, daos un poco de tiempo a ti y a \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Try to fight for it, as you may find out something that will change your mind, but if it does not, don&#8217;t stay in a relationship which does not make you happy.<\/p>\n<p><b>Esta conversaci\u00f3n no ser\u00e1 f\u00e1cil para nadie.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You once liked the guy, you still love him in some way, but it&#8217;s time to turn a new page, though you may already share a lot\u2014an apartment, a circle of friends, pets or whatever.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why you have to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-frases-de-ruptura-y-su-significado\/\"> dile sinceramente c\u00f3mo te sientes <\/a>ahora mismo y por qu\u00e9 crees que deber\u00edas terminar la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/mensajes-de-despedida-y-buena-suerte\/\">Decir adi\u00f3s<\/a> a alguien suena terrible, pero no se puede decir que no es hermoso. Ten cuidado de hablar de ti misma y de tus sentimientos, sin atacarle ni culparle. \u00c9l apreciar\u00e1 tu sinceridad.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-101765\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/When-You-Feel-It-Is-Time-To-Say-Goodbye-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Cuando sienta que ha llegado el momento de decir adi\u00f3s\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/When-You-Feel-It-Is-Time-To-Say-Goodbye-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/When-You-Feel-It-Is-Time-To-Say-Goodbye-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/When-You-Feel-It-Is-Time-To-Say-Goodbye-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In order to reach a relationship that completes us and which we see as lasting in the long run, it is necessary to pass through those that have not been good for us. Sometimes we can say with certainty that someone is not for us and we break up the relationship but what about when&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":101770,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-25276","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/When-You-Feel-It-Is-Time-To-Say-Goodbye.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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