{"id":25454,"date":"2020-03-10T11:07:14","date_gmt":"2020-03-10T11:07:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=25454"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:50:20","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:50:20","slug":"10-senales-de-que-solo-juega-con-tus-emociones","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-senales-de-que-solo-juega-con-tus-emociones\/","title":{"rendered":"10 se\u00f1ales de que s\u00f3lo juega con tus emociones"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes we\u2019re so fixed on searching for \u2018<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/17-senales-del-lenguaje-corporal-que-le-gustas-en-secreto-y-le-interesas\/\">se\u00f1ales de que le gustas<\/a>\u2019 that we fail to see the huge, red flags glowing in the dark.<\/p>\n<p>No vemos que es un gilipollas total y manipulador cuyo mayor divertimento es torturarte y convertir tu vida en un infierno.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s frustrating to face the fact that all you\u2019ve wanted was someone to love, someone who loves you back and you\u2019ve got a manipulative, immature, toxic person who feeds himself with pain and suffering.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re his supply, he needs you, so he manipulates you into staying.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve been through this hell and thank God I managed to run away from it. I dumped his sorry ass and went no contact. I don\u2019t want to know whether he is alive or not.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t even want to know <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/me-echara-de-menos-si-le-dejo-solo-es-algo-que-merece-la-pena-averiguar\/\">si me echa de menos<\/a>. That\u2019s how little I think of him.<\/p>\n<p>I went through all of this but there is something I learned after all. No matter what kind of a relationship you\u2019re in, a guy will play with your emotions if he wants to.<\/p>\n<p>Puedes pensar que te quiere con locura, pero todo puede ser una gran mentira.<\/p>\n<p><b>Signs he\u2019s playing with your emotions<\/b><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tu relaci\u00f3n est\u00e1 cambiando a peor<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78906 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-arguing-with-woman-while-she-looking-away.jpg\" alt=\"hombre discutiendo con mujer mientras ella mira hacia otro lado\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-arguing-with-woman-while-she-looking-away.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-arguing-with-woman-while-she-looking-away-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-arguing-with-woman-while-she-looking-away-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Instead of meeting his friends and family, he\u2019s keeping you a secret. Your relationship should have gone to another level by now. Instead, it\u2019s decreasing in quality.<\/p>\n<p>He isn\u2019t asking to spend more time with you, he seems to be getting away more often.<\/p>\n<p>Todas estas son se\u00f1ales de que no va en serio contigo y s\u00f3lo te utiliza para divertirse.<\/p>\n<p>He is not taking your emotions into consideration because he doesn\u2019t care about you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Hace cosas que te molestan<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78907 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-yelling-at-woman.jpg\" alt=\"hombre gritando a mujer\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-yelling-at-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-yelling-at-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-yelling-at-woman-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nEstabas enfadada por algo que hab\u00eda hecho y te enfrentaste a \u00e9l. Le dijiste que hab\u00eda sido grosero y que hab\u00eda herido tus sentimientos, pero a pesar de que te abriste a \u00e9l y te mostraste vulnerable, \u00e9l sigue haciendo lo mismo.<\/p>\n<p>He still hurts you the same way. He does this because he doesn\u2019t care how you feel. He is playing with your emotions and he doesn\u2019t feel sorry for you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"> He\u2019s not that available anymore<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78914 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-girl-sitting-at-coffee-bar-and-looking-at-phone-screen.jpg\" alt=\"chica joven sentada en la barra de un caf\u00e9 y mirando la pantalla del tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-girl-sitting-at-coffee-bar-and-looking-at-phone-screen.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-girl-sitting-at-coffee-bar-and-looking-at-phone-screen-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-girl-sitting-at-coffee-bar-and-looking-at-phone-screen-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This right here shows you how much he\u2019s interested in being with you or in a relationship. At first, this wasn\u2019t an issue, you were only starting to get to know each other.<\/p>\n<p>Pero a medida que pasabais m\u00e1s tiempo juntos, \u00e9l quer\u00eda pasar menos tiempo contigo.<\/p>\n<p>Usually, he uses some lame excuse as to why he can\u2019t come and see you, he cancels dates last-minute and he has slowly distanced himself.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9l ya no est\u00e1 tanto y poco a poco vas perdiendo la sensaci\u00f3n de que est\u00e1s en una relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"> He is interested in you when you\u2019re not there<\/h2>\n<h2><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78916 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-typing-on-his-phone-outside.jpg\" alt=\"hombre escribiendo en su tel\u00e9fono al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-typing-on-his-phone-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-typing-on-his-phone-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-typing-on-his-phone-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nCuando un chico juega con tus emociones, tiene una t\u00e1ctica perfecta para mantenerte cerca.<\/p>\n<p>When you are next to him, he won\u2019t give you the time of day. He\u2019ll push you away from him and he\u2019ll try to see you as little as possible.<\/p>\n<p>Pero cuando tomes el asunto en tus manos y te distancies de \u00e9l, te llamar\u00e1 a todas horas.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re out with a friend and you hadn\u2019t announced a week earlier that you were going to be, he will bomb you with texts that<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/9-signs-misses-actually-mean\/\"> te echa de menos <\/a>y te quiere a su lado.<\/p>\n<p>These men do this because they don\u2019t want to let you out of their grasp that easily.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t want to be with you but they still want to have you as an option, so they give you enough attention to keep you hooked.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Muestra inter\u00e9s por otras mujeres<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78918 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/smiling-man-standing-and-typing-on-his-phone-in-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"hombre sonriente de pie y escribiendo en su tel\u00e9fono en la sala de estar\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/smiling-man-standing-and-typing-on-his-phone-in-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/smiling-man-standing-and-typing-on-his-phone-in-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/smiling-man-standing-and-typing-on-his-phone-in-living-room-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s one thing when he does it when you don\u2019t see it but completely another when he does it in front of you.<\/p>\n<p>When you don\u2019t see it, you don\u2019t know it and it can\u2019t hurt you despite the fact that he is a great douche. But when he does it right in front of you, it hurts like hell.<\/p>\n<p>He is proving to you that he doesn\u2019t care about you or respect you. Him flirting with other women is just proof he is playing with your emotions.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He makes you feel you\u2019re not good enough for him<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78920 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/lonely-woman-sitting-on-the-roof.jpg\" alt=\"mujer solitaria sentada en el tejado\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/lonely-woman-sitting-on-the-roof.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/lonely-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/lonely-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Around him, you feel you\u2019re not pretty enough or that you\u2019re not smart enough. This is not on you.<\/p>\n<p>You wouldn\u2019t feel that way if he didn\u2019t treat you that way. His snarky comments and his mean jokes are killing your confidence in a second.<\/p>\n<p>He sees that as having fun because it makes him laugh. He doesn\u2019t care that the things he says are not even the slightest bit funny to you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Es perfecto cuando necesita algo de ti<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78923 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-couple-enjoying-coffee-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"pareja joven disfrutando de un caf\u00e9 en una cafeter\u00eda\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-couple-enjoying-coffee-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-couple-enjoying-coffee-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-couple-enjoying-coffee-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you are the only person who can help him, he is the official winner of the \u2018boyfriend of the year\u2019 prize.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s there for you, he supports you, he listens to you, he basically does everything that a normal boyfriend should do.<\/p>\n<p>And once he gets what he wants, he shuts you down again because he\u2019s done with you. You\u2019ve given him what he needed so he can continue to treat you like shit.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Enviar se\u00f1ales contradictorias es lo suyo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78925 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/An-angry-girl-looks-at-the-phone.jpg\" alt=\"Una chica enfadada mira el tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/An-angry-girl-looks-at-the-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/An-angry-girl-looks-at-the-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/An-angry-girl-looks-at-the-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Es el rey absoluto cuando se trata de esto. Nadie puede ganarle ni actuar con tanta astucia como \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>One day you\u2019re his world, his love, his everything and the next he is capable of walking by you in the street without even saying hello.<\/p>\n<p>Esta monta\u00f1a rusa emocional causa dolor emocional que puede convertirse f\u00e1cilmente en dolor f\u00edsico real. Puedes enfermar literalmente por el constante abuso emocional, el terror o su indiferencia.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"> Espera que perdones<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78927 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/girl-alone-at-home-sitting-in-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"chica sola en casa sentada en el salon\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/girl-alone-at-home-sitting-in-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/girl-alone-at-home-sitting-in-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/girl-alone-at-home-sitting-in-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He can get away with everything but you don\u2019t. His double standards are ridiculous.<\/p>\n<p>When he doesn\u2019t call you for days, he doesn\u2019t show up on a date or doesn\u2019t text you back, you\u2019re supposed to let it slide and forget all about it after his pitiful \u2018sorry\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>Pero cuando la situaci\u00f3n se invierte, cuando eres t\u00fa quien se toma la libertad de actuar como \u00e9l, como una basura, entonces se desata el infierno.<\/p>\n<p>He calls you, he goes out looking for you and he makes a scene. And God knows how long he will be mentioning that one \u2018fallout\u2019 and rubbing it in your face while he is doing the same thing.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Siempre est\u00e1 mintiendo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78928 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-talking-to-bored-woman-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"hombre hablando con una mujer aburrida en un caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-talking-to-bored-woman-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-talking-to-bored-woman-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-talking-to-bored-woman-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nFirst, you notice those \u2018white\u2019 lies and you tell yourself how they are not that big of a deal.<\/p>\n<p>But later on, those \u2018white\u2019 lies become way too frequent. Later on, you find out that lying is in his blood.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s capable of lying about everything\u2014his past, about what he\u2019s doing, he\u2019s even changing some facts about him so people would like him. He is a manipulator in disguise.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78932 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/10-Signs-Hes-Only-Playing-With-Your-Emotions-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"10 se\u00f1ales de que s\u00f3lo juega con tus emociones \" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/10-Signs-Hes-Only-Playing-With-Your-Emotions-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/10-Signs-Hes-Only-Playing-With-Your-Emotions-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/10-Signs-Hes-Only-Playing-With-Your-Emotions-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/10-Signs-Hes-Only-Playing-With-Your-Emotions-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/10-Signs-Hes-Only-Playing-With-Your-Emotions-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/10-Signs-Hes-Only-Playing-With-Your-Emotions-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes we\u2019re so fixed on searching for \u2018signs he likes you\u2019 that we fail to see the huge, red flags glowing in the dark. We fail to see that he is a total, manipulative asshole whose biggest fun time is torturing you and turning your life into a living hell. It\u2019s frustrating to face the&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":78933,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-25454","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/10-Signs-Hes-Only-Playing-With-Your-Emotions.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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