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<\/p>\nAl intentar descifrar el cerebro masculino, a menudo hacemos ciertas generalizaciones sobre ellos, que decidimos que son ciertas, sea as\u00ed o no.<\/p>\n
By doing that, we are actually making it easier for ourself after realizing that we simply weren\u2019t enough for a certain guy to decide to change.<\/p>\n
We usually make these assumptions and stick by them after having been through a relationship where a guy wasn\u2019t willing to change his (questionable) ways to make us happy.<\/p>\n
Not only is this wrong but it is insulting, both to us and even more to the men out there who actually give a damn and do not fall into your \u2018jerk\u2019 category by default.<\/p>\n
Here\u2019s what we often get wrong about men:<\/p>\n
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Claro que nosotras, las mujeres, somos m\u00e1s propensas al aspecto rom\u00e1ntico de las cosas, pero eso se debe sobre todo a las innumerables pel\u00edculas de chicas que vemos semanalmente (a veces incluso a diario), que nos dan expectativas incre\u00edblemente poco realistas de los hombres.<\/p>\n
Movies aren\u2019t real life, it\u2019s ridiculous to even have to say that.<\/p>\n
Just because a guy in a movie hires a plane that spells out I love you in the sky for his beloved leading lady, does not make your boyfriend\u2019s bouquet any less delightful!<\/p>\n
No es realista esperar que la otra persona tenga esos grandes gestos, sobre todo porque nadie puede permitirse esas cosas en la vida real.<\/p>\n
Let\u2019s give them a break and appreciate what they do for us. Surely they are more romantic than we give them credit for.<\/p>\n
Let\u2019s learn to appreciate the small gestures that show us they love us. Life isn\u2019t a movie and we aren\u2019t katherine heigl. Everyone\u2019s idea of romance is different!<\/p>\n
Para algunos, ir a una cena elegante seguida de un paseo rom\u00e1ntico por la playa bajo la luz de la luna es la idea perfecta de una noche rom\u00e1ntica, mientras que otros consideran que un abrazo, una buena charla y un hombro sobre el que llorar despu\u00e9s de un largo d\u00eda son el gesto rom\u00e1ntico perfecto.<\/p>\n
A cada cual lo suyo.<\/p>\n
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This one is a very common misinterpretation we\u2019ve all heard on tv and in numerous movies.<\/p>\n
Una y otra vez.<\/p>\n
Sure, there are guys who might not be okay with us ladies being more successful than them, mostly because it hurts their ego if we are financially more independent, and therefore able to afford certain things that they can\u2019t.<\/p>\n
Pero, por suerte, tambi\u00e9n hay muchos t\u00edos que son conscientes de que vivimos en el siglo XXI y de que las mujeres merecemos con creces la igualdad salarial, y no les intimida estar cerca de nosotras.<\/p>\n
Just because you ran into a guy who had a problem with it, does not make it a rule. It\u2019s more of an exception these days and rightfully so.<\/p>\n
Si alguien es lo suficientemente inseguro sobre esto, Dios sabe cu\u00e1ntas inseguridades m\u00e1s tiene, que no tienen nada que ver contigo, y todo que ver con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n
Aim higher, there are plenty more fish in the sea. You\u2019ll meet a guy who can handle you, just as amazing as you are, and will proudly parade you around every chance he gets. Not everyone is your ex.<\/p>\n
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Esto no es as\u00ed. Cualquier chica que haya visto a su chico involucrarse emocionalmente en un partido de f\u00fatbol puede dar fe de ello.<\/p>\n
Sure, it can be annoying that he can get so emotional about something as irrelevant as a football match but when it comes to us, we\u2019re lucky if we hear him say I love you once in a blue moon.<\/p>\n
But here\u2019s the thing.<\/p>\n
Guys aren\u2019t like us. Just because he doesn\u2019t profess his love vocally every chance he gets, does not mean he doesn\u2019t love you.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s in the way he acts. Pay attention to his actions. If he makes you tea when you\u2019re feeling under the weather and sits with you under a blanket with his arm around you, you\u2019ve got yourself a keeper.<\/p>\n
What more can you ask for? He doesn\u2019t feel the need to constantly tell you this because he shows it when it counts.<\/p>\n
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It is another common misconception that men can\u2019t control their primitive urges, which makes it hard for them to remain faithful.<\/p>\n
De esta manera, hacemos otra falsa generalizaci\u00f3n sobre ellos que no tiene nada que ver con la realidad y todo que ver con nosotros tratando de encontrar una excusa para su enga\u00f1o o hacer m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil para nosotros aceptar que hemos sido enga\u00f1ados.<\/p>\n
El hecho de que un tipo haya enga\u00f1ado no significa que eso se aplique a todos los hombres.<\/p>\n
Let\u2019s stop making assumptions about men when it suits us best and start realizing that, yeah, shit happens, but it doesn\u2019t mean it will keep happening with everyone we encounter.<\/p>\n
Cheating has nothing to do with gender and everything to do with being an insecure, selfish being who doesn\u2019t appreciate what they have.<\/p>\n
Dale a los hombres un poco de cr\u00e9dito, hay buenos tipos por ah\u00ed, s\u00f3lo tienes que salir de tu zona de confort y buscarlos.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s not easy, sure, but don\u2019t give up on all men just because of one bad experience.<\/p>\n
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