{"id":25781,"date":"2018-10-15T08:19:48","date_gmt":"2018-10-15T08:19:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=25781"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:04:33","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:04:33","slug":"5-cosas-que-debes-hacer-si-le-pillas-viendo-pornografia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-cosas-que-debes-hacer-si-le-pillas-viendo-pornografia\/","title":{"rendered":"5 cosas que debe hacer si le pilla viendo pornograf\u00eda"},"content":{"rendered":"

Some of you have probably experienced the feeling of disappointment when you\u2019ve caught your man watching pornography. The only thing you could do was probably to stay still in disbelief. Then you start asking yourself questions like: Why is he doing this? Am I not good enough for him anymore? Does he even love me?<\/p>\n

You wish someone could answer your questions, but you feel so numb that you can\u2019t even find the words to ask any. It\u2019s totally understandable. But, not all hope is lost.<\/p>\n

La pr\u00f3xima vez que le sorprendas azotando a su mono, deber\u00edas plantearte mirar la otra cara de la moneda y hacer algo de lo siguiente:<\/p>\n

1. Lo primero y m\u00e1s importante: mantenga la calma.<\/h2>\n

No matter how hurt or mad you are, it is important to keep your cool. There\u2019s no point in shouting or kicking him because with it, you\u2019ll only do worse. Instead, you should stay calm and have this one thing in your mind: You are not the reason why he is doing this. They do it because it\u2019s in their nature. I know it\u2019s hard to understand, but if you show that it doesn\u2019t bother you, he will think how cool and self-confident you are. Even his friends will be jealous of him.<\/p>\n

2. Don\u2019t ask him those questions<\/h2>\n

Just don\u2019t. If you start pushing him to validate his feelings towards you, he will think of you as a crazy woman. They simply don\u2019t understand a woman\u2019s complex mind when it comes to this. In their minds, pornography has nothing to do with you or his affection for you. They think of pornography as a soothing activity that helps them recharge. That is why he will be really confused if you start verbally punishing him for something he \u201cdidn\u2019t do\u201d.<\/p>\n

3. Considera la posibilidad de unirte a \u00e9l<\/h2>\n

Nadie puede negar que las mujeres tambi\u00e9n ven pornograf\u00eda. Quiz\u00e1 no con tanta frecuencia como los hombres, pero seguro que lo hacen. Entonces, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 no unirse a \u00e9l? Puede parecer absurdo, pero ver pornograf\u00eda juntos puede hacer que estrech\u00e9is lazos y que os conozc\u00e1is mejor. Si lo haces, te aseguro que caer\u00e1 de rodillas ante ti.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no need to feel awkward about it because it\u2019s something completely normal and enjoyable. Instead of overreacting, you\u2019ll turn the situation into a positive outcome, and he will be grateful to have you.<\/p>\n

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4. Pasar desapercibido<\/h2>\n

We all know the saying: Sometimes a man\u2019s gotta do what a man\u2019s gotta do. So, sometimes, it\u2019ll just be wise to leave him be\u2014especially if you\u2019re not in the mood to join him, just walk away unnoticed (if you\u2019re sure that he didn\u2019t notice you). But, don\u2019t run away to another country. Let him be. Watch your favorite show on the TV, eat some ice cream or whatever makes you happy. Once he\u2019s finished with his activity, you can choose whether to talk about it or not. In the meantime, just chill and enjoy a moment for yourself.<\/p>\n

5. Hablar con \u00e9l m\u00e1s tarde<\/h2>\n

If all of the above makes you uneasy, sometimes a simple conversation is all that is needed. But, don\u2019t do it when you catch him in the act. Think about what you\u2019re going to ask him, but make sure that the questions are not implying that he should feel guilty. Try to be open for a discussion, and I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll come to the conclusion that it is not as big a deal as you might have thought it was.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t agree with any of it above, feel free to improvise. But, whatever you decide to do, do not act out of anger. Anger is the worst enemy you might face in this situation, while understanding is the key.<\/p>\n

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