{"id":2597,"date":"2020-05-06T11:28:11","date_gmt":"2020-05-06T11:28:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2597"},"modified":"2022-02-23T01:22:46","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T01:22:46","slug":"carta-hombre-maltratado-emocionalmente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/carta-hombre-maltratado-emocionalmente\/","title":{"rendered":"Carta al hombre que me maltrat\u00f3 emocionalmente"},"content":{"rendered":"

Te gustar\u00eda volver a hacerme llorar esta noche delante de los dem\u00e1s. Te gustar\u00eda cortarme las venas con tus palabras como si usaras la hoja m\u00e1s afilada.<\/p>\n

Te gustar\u00eda ponerme triste aunque sea feliz. Te gustar\u00eda hacerme fea aunque sea la mujer m\u00e1s bella de la sala. Cari\u00f1o, todo esto lo s\u00e9 muy bien.<\/p>\n

That’s what my life was during the last year spent with you. What are you going to do to me that you haven’t done before?<\/p>\n

Manten\u00edas todos esos duelos sin honor ni honestidad. Me volv\u00edas loco aunque fuera normal.<\/p>\n

You would make me insecure even if I was so sure about things in my life. Now, I decided it’s done. And I have a message for you: \u201cYou can cuddle with me, you can rape me, you can kill me\u2014it’s all the same to me.<\/p>\n

There is no mercy for you anymore. God is leading my hand and tonight, your victim is holding the sword of her abuser.\u201d<\/p>\n

I don’t want to think about you anymore. I don’t want to make my life miserable because you are there.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I am just sad because I couldn’t discover all those latent signos de abuso emocional<\/a> a tiempo.<\/p>\n

You know what you did to me and you didn’t feel any remorse about that. For everything that happened to you it was \u201cmy fault\u201d. Of course, abusers talk like this.<\/p>\n

Do you remember all those times when you were silent? Now I know it was your way to punish me. You didn’t respect me and you didn’t care about how I felt.<\/p>\n

Ten\u00eda miedo de hablar delante de ti porque todo lo que hab\u00eda dicho estaba mal. T\u00fa me hiciste sentir as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

So, it was better to keep my mouth shut. Until you approach me first. To tell me another lie again. That I am everything valuable you have. That I am your lucky charm. I can’t believe I was buying that shit.<\/p>\n

I still remember all those ugly jokes about me. You didn’t think twice and you told them to your friends.<\/p>\n

Te burlabas de m\u00ed mientras yo estaba sentado solo y me preguntaba qu\u00e9 me pasa.<\/p>\n

Ahora s\u00e9 que todo estaba bien conmigo. Mi mayor error<\/a> was to give my heart to an asshole who didn’t know to cherish me.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You never gave me a gift for my birthday. You weren’t there when I delivered our first baby. You didn’t respect my wishes because eras un maldito psic\u00f3pata.<\/a><\/p>\n

Cuando bombeo mis frenos ahora y miro hacia atr\u00e1s, Admiro lo fuerte que era.<\/a> Pero, ya sabes, incluso las mujeres m\u00e1s fuertes se cansan con el tiempo. De la falta de amor. De la falta de respeto. De la falta de amabilidad y honestidad.<\/p>\n

Yo tambi\u00e9n. Ten\u00eda razones para vivir, as\u00ed que eleg\u00ed una vida sin ti. Y esa fue la mejor decisi\u00f3n de mi vida.<\/p>\n

Ahora hay alguien especial en mi vida. Me ense\u00f1\u00f3 a amar de nuevo. Me ense\u00f1\u00f3 c\u00f3mo debe ser una relaci\u00f3n sana.<\/p>\n

Y no hay palabras suficientemente buenas para agradecerle que lo haya hecho. \u00bfY usted?<\/p>\n

I hope you will find someone who will do to you all the things you have done to me. That’s the only way you can learn a lesson.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que aprend\u00ed la m\u00eda y nunca me conformar\u00e9 con menos en mi vida.<\/a><\/p>\n

Gracias por demostrarme que el mundo es suficientemente bello aunque no formes parte de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Su ex amante<\/p>\n

\"Carta<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You would like to make me cry tonight in front of the others again. You would like to cut my veins with your words like you are using the sharpest blade. You would like to make me sad even if I am happy. You would like to make me ugly even if I am the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":92035,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2597","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/A-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Emotionally-Abused-Me.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2597","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2597"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2597\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/92035"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2597"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2597"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2597"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}