{"id":26056,"date":"2019-10-17T08:03:49","date_gmt":"2019-10-17T08:03:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26056"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:50:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:50:27","slug":"pienso-demasiado-porque-me-envias-senales-contradictorias","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/pienso-demasiado-porque-me-envias-senales-contradictorias\/","title":{"rendered":"Pienso demasiado porque me env\u00edas se\u00f1ales contradictorias"},"content":{"rendered":"

Yes, I analyze everything regarding you and our \u2018relationship\u2019. <\/span>Disecciono cada movimiento que haces, en busca de significados ocultos. Cuestiono y compruebo literalmente cada palabra que sale de tu boca antes de creerte.<\/b><\/p>\n

Antes de llegar al fondo de la cuesti\u00f3n, se me ocurren cientos de hip\u00f3tesis diferentes sobre lo ocurrido.<\/span><\/p>\n

The truth is that I don\u2019t believe any word you say. That I constantly doubt your intentions and that I assume you are always lying, even when you are probably not.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ed, la verdad es que soy un <\/b>overthinker<\/b><\/a>. Y eso no es algo de lo que me sienta orgulloso. <\/b><\/p>\n

De hecho, a veces, incluso pienso que mis an\u00e1lisis me volver\u00e1n completamente loca.<\/b><\/p>\n

The truth is that for a long time, I\u2019ve used overthinking as a form of a defense mechanism. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nunca supe a qu\u00e9 atenerme contigo ni qu\u00e9 esperar, y pens\u00e9 que podr\u00eda predecir tus pr\u00f3ximos movimientos y ahorrarme muchos disgustos si llegaba al fondo de tu misteriosa personalidad.<\/span><\/p>\n

But after all these years, I finally understand that you were never complex or mysterious\u2014you were just an asshole. And I was crazy for letting you mistreat me and for allowing you to change me.<\/span><\/p>\n

Durante mucho tiempo, me culp\u00e9 por mi forma de ser. Me sent\u00eda culpable por pensar demasiado y asum\u00eda que mi exceso de an\u00e1lisis solo perjudicaba nuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero al final me di cuenta de que nunca he tenido la culpa de pensar tanto. Puede que esto sea lo \u00faltimo que quieras o\u00edr, pero la verdad es que pienso demasiado porque t\u00fa me obligaste a hacerlo.<\/b><\/p>\n

You know very well that I wasn\u2019t like this when we first met. You know I was a spontaneous, open-hearted girl who believed in people.<\/span> <\/b><\/p>\n

Pero entonces empezaste a jugar con mi mente y con mi coraz\u00f3n. <\/b><\/p>\n

Entonces,<\/b> you started confusing me to the point where I didn\u2019t have the slightest clue of what was going on between us. <\/b><\/p>\n

Entonces empezaste a enviarme <\/b>se\u00f1ales contradictorias<\/b><\/a> which I didn\u2019t have any way of interpreting.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Pienso<\/p>\n

Y fue entonces cuando empec\u00e9 a pasar noches en vela, intentando averiguar cu\u00e1les eran tus verdaderas intenciones. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfAlguna vez te preocupaste por m\u00ed? \u00bfO s\u00f3lo disfrutabas teni\u00e9ndome cerca? \u00bfQu\u00e9 significaba que te pasaras una semana entera ignor\u00e1ndome y luego volvieras a m\u00ed arrastr\u00e1ndote, prometi\u00e9ndome tu amor eterno a la semana siguiente? <\/span><\/p>\n

All of these questions were going through my mind and I wasn\u2019t getting the answers I needed to get from you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fue entonces cuando empec\u00e9 a intentar leer tus textos entre l\u00edneas para poder al menos adivinar tus verdaderas intenciones. Cuando empec\u00e9 a escuchar atentamente el tono de tu voz para poder o\u00edr incluso las cosas que no me dec\u00edas.<\/b><\/p>\n

Fue entonces cuando me obsesion\u00e9 con sus cuentas en las redes sociales, tratando de encontrar pistas de otras chicas en su vida. <\/span><\/p>\n

When I started questioning why you didn\u2019t reply to my texts, when I started doubting why you were too busy to see me and when I lost all of my trust in you.<\/span><\/p>\n

A partir de ese momento, pongo todo mi empe\u00f1o en intentar adivinar tus pensamientos y tus pr\u00f3ximos movimientos. <\/b><\/p>\n

Puse todo mi empe\u00f1o en descifrar la forma en que me mirabas, me enviabas mensajes y me llamabas. Puse todo mi empe\u00f1o en intentar descifrarte sin \u00e9xito.<\/b><\/p>\n

Y todo esto me convirti\u00f3 en un pensador exagerado. En realidad, t\u00fa me hiciste un pensador exagerado.<\/span><\/p>\n

Because if you had been honest about your intentions from the start, I wouldn\u2019t have been forced to analyze your every signal. I would never have been torn apart between being convinced that you loved me and thinking you couldn\u2019t care less about me in the very next moment. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you had been clear about your feelings, I wouldn\u2019t have had to search for non-existent clues of your love for me.<\/span><\/p>\n

Si hubieras estado dispuesto a <\/span>put a label on our \u2018relationship<\/span><\/a>\u2019, I wouldn\u2019t have spent endless nights trying to decode you. If you had been consistent, I wouldn\u2019t have had to question every little detail of your personality, trying to find a reason for your behavior.  <\/span><\/p>\n

If you hadn\u2019t been this unpredictable and if I had known what to expect from you, I wouldn\u2019t have had to wonder if you ever cared about me at all. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you hadn\u2019t been disappearing from my life and coming back the way you wanted, I wouldn\u2019t have had to try to decipher every single move you made.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you hadn\u2019t played mind games with me, I wouldn\u2019t have wasted years of my life trying to figure you out. <\/b><\/p>\n

If you hadn\u2019t sent me all those mixed signals, I would have known exactly where I stood and I wouldn\u2019t have had the need to overthink. <\/b> <\/p>\n

\"Pienso<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Yes, I analyze everything regarding you and our \u2018relationship\u2019. I dissect every move you make, in the search of hidden meanings. I question and check literally every word that comes out of your mouth before I believe you. I am able to come up with a hundred different case scenarios of what happened before I…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":26060,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26056","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/velizar-ivanov-1103339-unsplash-4.jpg",800,589,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26056","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26056"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26056\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/26060"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26056"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26056"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26056"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}