{"id":26066,"date":"2018-10-17T08:17:13","date_gmt":"2018-10-17T08:17:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26066"},"modified":"2022-02-22T01:29:45","modified_gmt":"2022-02-22T01:29:45","slug":"el-dolor-te-mostrara-el-verdadero-significado-del-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-dolor-te-mostrara-el-verdadero-significado-del-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"El dolor te mostrar\u00e1 el verdadero significado del amor"},"content":{"rendered":"

S\u00e9 que suena inquietante, pero la verdad es que el dolor te mostrar\u00e1 el verdadero significado del amor<\/a>. Hace un a\u00f1o, tras una ruptura, me mir\u00e9 al espejo e intent\u00e9 encontrar algo positivo en mi estado actual. Me sent\u00eda desgraciada, rota e indigna de amor.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 clase de persona hace eso? \u00bfQu\u00e9 clase de persona te hace sentir menos importante o menos digno de amor? T\u00fa. T\u00fa fuiste el culpable de mi actual estado de miseria.<\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t want to go out for months. I only went over all of it again and again. It was so hard to go through all of those painful moments and find something that would answer my question:<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 yo?<\/b><\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 hice para merecer un trato tan inhumano por tu parte? \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 merec\u00eda sufrir?<\/p>\n

Maybe if I had treated you like shit, you would have treated me right. I guess I will never know. And I don\u2019t even want to know it anymore.<\/p>\n

Respir\u00e9 hondo, segu\u00ed los siguientes pasos y empec\u00e9 a resolver el rompecabezas.<\/p>\n

PASO 1:<\/h2>\n

Repet\u00ed varias veces en voz alta: If I hadn\u2019t been in love, I wouldn\u2019t have been hurt!<\/b> As simple as that. If I was to know that this would happen, I certainly wouldn\u2019t have been with you.<\/p>\n

But, I didn\u2019t know. So, I cannot blame myself for what happened to me. It is not my fault or anyone else\u2019s. It is just so.<\/p>\n

Pero, \u00bfc\u00f3mo puedo estar segura de que, despu\u00e9s de todo, era amor? \u00bfY si s\u00f3lo era una especie de prueba que hay que superar para ser recompensado con algo m\u00e1s grande?<\/p>\n

After all, you cannot appreciate the good if you didn\u2019t taste the bad. Maybe being hurt has more meanings than just one.<\/p>\n

I wouldn\u2019t mind if there are more meanings to it. I just want to be sure that all of this I\u2019m going through is not for nothing.<\/p>\n

PASO 2:<\/h2>\n

Repet\u00ed la siguiente conclusi\u00f3n l\u00f3gica: If I hadn\u2019t been hurt, I wouldn\u2019t be in pain.<\/b> I mean, what kind of a conclusion is this? Of course if I hadn\u2019t been hurt, I wouldn\u2019t be in pain.<\/p>\n

But, why do I have to be in pain? Why can\u2019t I just be hurt and not go through all of that process of being in constant pain where I cannot eat, sleep nor live like a normal human being?<\/p>\n

But what if being in pain is a process that I have to go through so that I can be prepared for something greater to come? It\u2019s really hard to believe such thing, but I\u2019ll give it a chance. What could I lose anyway?<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve already lost myself, and pain is the only thing that is reminding me of being human.<\/p>\n

Necesito aprender a trabajar con dolor, a caminar con dolor y a dormir con dolor.<\/p>\n

I guess when the time comes, I\u2019ll be ready. I\u2019ll be ready for anything.<\/p>\n

PASO 3:<\/h2>\n

Me sobresalt\u00e9 un momento y trat\u00e9 de encontrar mi siguiente afirmaci\u00f3n: If I weren\u2019t in pain, I wouldn\u2019t\u2026<\/b>Pero, \u00bfqu\u00e9? \u00bfDe qu\u00e9 me puede servir el dolor? Entonces me di cuenta, y estall\u00f3 como una burbuja:<\/p>\n

If I weren\u2019t in pain, I wouldn\u2019t appreciate not being in pain!<\/b><\/p>\n

If I weren\u2019t in pain, I wouldn\u2019t realize what a shitty person you were!<\/b><\/p>\n

If I weren\u2019t in pain, I wouldn\u2019t realize the true meaning of love.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ahora todo ten\u00eda sentido para m\u00ed. El verdadero amor est\u00e1 hecho de respeto, compromiso y entrega desinteresada.<\/p>\n

It is made of everything I haven\u2019t experienced yet!<\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019m no longer mad at you. I thank you for that.<\/p>\n

Te agradezco que me hayas hecho darme cuenta de que estaba enamorada de un significado retorcido del amor. Pero ahora que conozco su verdadero significado, nunca me conformar\u00e9 con otra cosa.<\/p>\n

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I know it sounds disturbing, but the truth is that pain will show you the true meaning of love. A year ago after a breakup, I looked at myself in the mirror, and I was trying to find one positive thing about my current state. I felt miserable, broken and unworthy of love. What kind…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":26068,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26066","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/makhmutova-dina-1053978-unsplash-1.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26066","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26066"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26066\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/26068"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26066"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26066"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26066"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}