{"id":2617,"date":"2020-06-18T08:04:03","date_gmt":"2020-06-18T08:04:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2617"},"modified":"2021-08-11T14:10:56","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T14:10:56","slug":"girl-dating-narcissistic-guy-cant-tame-beast","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/girl-dating-narcissistic-guy-cant-tame-beast\/","title":{"rendered":"A la chica que sale con un chico narcisista: No puedes domar a la bestia"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>\u00bfConoces la historia de Narciso?<\/b> Dice as\u00ed: Hab\u00eda un cazador griego conocido por su belleza.<\/p>\n<p>Era hijo de un dios del r\u00edo y de una ninfa, extremadamente orgulloso de s\u00ed mismo, pero desde\u00f1aba a quienes le amaban.<\/p>\n<p>Un d\u00eda, los dioses se dieron cuenta de su arrogancia y lo atrajeron a la piscina, donde vio su reflejo en el agua y se enamor\u00f3 al instante.<\/p>\n<p>Incapaz de abandonar la belleza de su reflejo, Narciso perdi\u00f3 las ganas de vivir. Se qued\u00f3 mirando su reflejo hasta que muri\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p><b>What about the Narcissus you\u2019re dating?<\/b> You are expecting to be the one to change him, aren\u2019t you?<\/p>\n<p>You think you\u2019ll be the one that\u2019s different and that you will be worth changing for.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97874\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/worried-woman-looking-up.jpg\" alt=\"mujer preocupada mirando hacia arriba\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/worried-woman-looking-up.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/worried-woman-looking-up-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/worried-woman-looking-up-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/worried-woman-looking-up-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/worried-woman-looking-up-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You might not be aware, but the term \u2018narcissism\u2019 <b>is the concept of excessive selfishness and it\u2019s mainly linked to vanity and self-admiration.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>This may not ring any bells, but I\u2019m sure there are things in this article that\u2019ll be more than familiar to you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Every single girl in this world likes to see herself as \u2018the special one\u2019, the one that\u2019s worth changing for.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> And the truth is we are special, and there are guys out there who\u2019ll do their best to be better men for us. I hate to break it to you, but that guy is not your narcissist.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> He\u2019s not going to change nor for you nor for any other girl in this world and there is not much you can do about it.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I hate to be the one to tell people to walk away, but is all of what you\u2019re going through worth your time?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97875\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/sad-woman-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste mirando a lo lejos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/sad-woman-looking-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/sad-woman-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/sad-woman-looking-at-distance-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/sad-woman-looking-at-distance-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/sad-woman-looking-at-distance-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You are more than aware how he behaves towards you and that you\u2019ll never be on the throne, at least not permanently, because that seat has been taken a long time ago.<\/p>\n<p><b>You struggle to have your views and feelings heard and of course, it\u2019s \u2018your fault\u2019 that he forgets something\u2014you didn\u2019t bother to remind him<\/b> !<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s the one to overstep and use others without consideration or any sensitivity. It just doesn\u2019t touch him in any way. It\u2019s all he needs to do for his vanity and he\u2019ll do it.<\/p>\n<p><b>It\u2019s as if he likes to do things to impress others. He does it by making himself look good externally.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> This is also known as a \u2018trophy\u2019 complex.<\/b> Tiene la necesidad de exhibirse f\u00edsicamente, rom\u00e1nticamente, sexualmente, financieramente y Dios sabe de qu\u00e9 otra manera.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s his way to tell others: \u201d I\u2019m better than you\u201d because, in his mind, the world revolves around him.<\/p>\n<p>Relacionado: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/guia-definitiva-para-ignorar-las-secuelas-de-la-deteccion-de-narcisistas\/\">La gu\u00eda definitiva para ignorar a un narcisista (Detecci\u00f3n y consecuencias)<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97877\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/handsome-man-posing-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"hombre guapo posando en la playa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/handsome-man-posing-on-the-beach.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/handsome-man-posing-on-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/handsome-man-posing-on-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/handsome-man-posing-on-the-beach-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/handsome-man-posing-on-the-beach-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>See, he has this gift\u2014you know this best\u2014to be very charismatic and persuasive when he\u2019s interested in somebody. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>He can make you feel really special and wanted. He can be the funniest and the kindest person in order to win you over. The downside of this is the fact that it isn\u2019t permanent.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando pierda el inter\u00e9s por ti (sobre todo porque ha conseguido lo que necesitaba\/quer\u00eda o porque ha encontrado algo m\u00e1s interesante), puede que te abandone sin pens\u00e1rselo dos veces.<\/p>\n<p><b> Because he\u2019s only interested in a person for his own gratification.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Otro de sus grandes dones son las emociones negativas.<\/b> Let\u2019s not talk about his need to disdain everything, the topic here is your feelings.<\/p>\n<p><b> A menudo te hace sentir inseguro y desequilibrado.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Relacionado: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/10-signos-de-obsesion\/\">Se\u00f1ales de obsesi\u00f3n: 10 se\u00f1ales de que es peligrosamente obsesivo y no est\u00e1 enamorado<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97878\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/worried-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"joven preocupada sentada en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/worried-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/worried-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/worried-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/worried-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/worried-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b> <\/b> Maybe you don\u2019t notice he\u2019s doing it on purpose or you\u2019re doing your best to meet his expectations, but there isn\u2019t a final line\u2014you\u2019ll keep running the never-ending marathon because the finish line is always moving.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca podr\u00e1s alcanzar sus expectativas y \u00bfsabes por qu\u00e9? Porque <b> it\u2019s not you, it\u2019 him.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> He\u2019s making you feel like that because he needs you to feel insecure so he can feel superior.<\/b> It\u2019s what gives him strength in the morning. He feeds on it.<\/p>\n<p>You may mistake him for a alpha man when he\u2019s, in fact, just making decisions for others to suit his own needs.<\/p>\n<p>Puede que te utilice para satisfacer sus irracionales necesidades ego\u00edstas o para encubrir sus insuficiencias y defectos autopercibidos.<\/p>\n<p><b>And now comes the refusal part. It\u2019s the part where you deny anything that\u2019s been said because this way it\u2019s much easier.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Relacionado: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/senales-de-advertencia-de-un-novio-controlador\/\">18 se\u00f1ales de advertencia de un novio controlador<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97879\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/sad-woman-in-red-coat-standing-in-nature.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste con abrigo rojo de pie en la naturaleza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/sad-woman-in-red-coat-standing-in-nature.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/sad-woman-in-red-coat-standing-in-nature-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/sad-woman-in-red-coat-standing-in-nature-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/sad-woman-in-red-coat-standing-in-nature-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/sad-woman-in-red-coat-standing-in-nature-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>You could just ignore everything that has been said and continue living the way you do now convinced that if you try hard enough he&#8217;ll change, he&#8217;ll give you the love you desrve and he&#8217;ll treat you differently. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>But you\u2019ll get to a dead end eventually and you know it well. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Every single girl in this world likes to see herself as \u2018the special one\u2019, the one that\u2019s worth changing for.<\/p>\n<p>And the truth is we are special, and there are guys out there who\u2019ll do their best to be the better man for us.<\/p>\n<p><b>I hate to break it to you, but that guy is not your narcissist. He\u2019s not going to change and you can\u2019t tame the beast.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>You deserve somebody who\u2019ll treat you like a queen.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Relacionado: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/como-herir-emocionalmente-a-un-hombre-narcisista-6-formas-efectivas-de-hacerlo\/\">C\u00f3mo herir emocionalmente a un hombre narcisista<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97881\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/beautiful-smiling-couple-looking-at-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"hermosa pareja sonriente mir\u00e1ndose\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/beautiful-smiling-couple-looking-at-each-other.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/beautiful-smiling-couple-looking-at-each-other-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/beautiful-smiling-couple-looking-at-each-other-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/beautiful-smiling-couple-looking-at-each-other-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/beautiful-smiling-couple-looking-at-each-other-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>There is somebody out there ready to give you everything you deserve\u2014the one that\u2019ll get off the throne to put you there.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> But that won&#8217;t be the guy who&#8217;s breaking your heart day after day. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>I know it hurts and I know you love, but you&#8217;ve fallen for a wrong guy. You&#8217;re giving all of yourself and for what?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfS\u00f3lo para que te rompan el coraz\u00f3n al final?<\/p>\n<p>Silly girl it&#8217;s time to learn to walk away from the people who do nothing but tear you down.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s time to admit to yourself you can&#8217;t change someone who doesn&#8217;t see that there is anything wrong with him.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97882\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/young-woman-in-deep-minds.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven de mente profunda\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/young-woman-in-deep-minds.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/young-woman-in-deep-minds-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/young-woman-in-deep-minds-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/young-woman-in-deep-minds-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/young-woman-in-deep-minds-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You can&#8217;t be a rug everyone walks on.<\/p>\n<p>Deja de intentar cambiar a los dem\u00e1s y c\u00e9ntrate en ti mismo.<\/p>\n<p>Trabaja duro para ser la mejor versi\u00f3n de ti mismo.<\/p>\n<p>Learn to love yourself and when the time is right you will no longer be surrounded by toxic people nor will you believe how you can change someone who&#8217;s okay being self-centered and selfish.<\/p>\n<p>When the time is right the right guy will walk in your life and you&#8217;ll be thankful you managed to cut all ties with your narcissist and that you chose to finally accept the fact that you can&#8217;t tame the beast.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97884\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/To-The-Girl-Dating-A-Narcissistic-Guy-You-CANT-Tame-The-Beast-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"A la chica que sale con un chico narcisista No puedes domar a la bestia\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/To-The-Girl-Dating-A-Narcissistic-Guy-You-CANT-Tame-The-Beast-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/To-The-Girl-Dating-A-Narcissistic-Guy-You-CANT-Tame-The-Beast-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/To-The-Girl-Dating-A-Narcissistic-Guy-You-CANT-Tame-The-Beast-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/To-The-Girl-Dating-A-Narcissistic-Guy-You-CANT-Tame-The-Beast-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/To-The-Girl-Dating-A-Narcissistic-Guy-You-CANT-Tame-The-Beast-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do you know the story of Narcissus? It goes like this: There was a Greek hunter known for his beauty. He was a son of a river god and a nymph, extremely proud of himself, but he disdained those who loved him. One day, the gods noticed his arrogance and attracted him to the pool&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":97883,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2617","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/To-The-Girl-Dating-A-Narcissistic-Guy-You-CANT-Tame-The-Beast.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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