{"id":26229,"date":"2020-10-18T09:37:47","date_gmt":"2020-10-18T09:37:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26229"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:59:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:59:40","slug":"una-vez-que-me-costo-mi-paz-de-la-mente-que-tenia-que-ir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/una-vez-que-me-costo-mi-paz-de-la-mente-que-tenia-que-ir\/","title":{"rendered":"Una vez que me costaste la tranquilidad, ten\u00edas que irte"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There is a lot I am prepared to take for love. If it\u2019s the real deal, there is not much I wouldn\u2019t do, and nowhere I wouldn\u2019t go. But there is one thing I would never sacrifice for ANYONE, and that is my inner peace.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve been in enough relationships to know that if there is one thing you should never tolerate, no matter how much in love you are, that is somebody disturbing your inner <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/6-maneras-de-encontrar-la-paz-relacion-toxica\/\"> paz <\/a> . That is the one thing I\u2019m not giving to anyone. And you shouldn\u2019t either.<\/p>\n<p>It is totally normal to expect certain trials and tribulations in a relationship. It is also normal to feel an array of emotions, some that you don\u2019t even understand yourself, but it\u2019s never okay to not have your peace of mind due to your significant other.<\/p>\n<p>How do you know when you\u2019ve had enough? How do you know when to call it quits? That is a difficult question. Everyone has their boiling point. But in my opinion, if it even comes to that, I have no more patience for you.<\/p>\n<p>La paz interior es algo incre\u00edblemente dif\u00edcil de alcanzar. Es dif\u00edcil incluso explicarlo. Tienes que entrenar tu mente para que no te altere algo que normalmente te molestar\u00eda. Tienes que decirte a ti mismo que no hay nada por lo que merezca la pena perder la cordura.<\/p>\n<p>So, what do you do when a guy comes in like a storm, crashing your sunny day and making you question everything you\u2019ve been telling yourself thus far?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122047 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/a-brown-haired-woman-stands-in-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer de pelo casta\u00f1o se para en la calle\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/a-brown-haired-woman-stands-in-the-street.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/a-brown-haired-woman-stands-in-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/a-brown-haired-woman-stands-in-the-street-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/a-brown-haired-woman-stands-in-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/a-brown-haired-woman-stands-in-the-street-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/a-brown-haired-woman-stands-in-the-street-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/a-brown-haired-woman-stands-in-the-street-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/a-brown-haired-woman-stands-in-the-street-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s easy to just throw everything in the water, and let yourself be consumed by an individual that you feel like you\u2019re falling hard for, more and more with every waking hour. It\u2019s easy to let yourself enjoy it when it\u2019s good, and just accept that he comes with some downsides as well. In other words \u2013 make excuses for him. You know better than that.<\/p>\n<p>Pero si esos inconvenientes son el hecho de que te cueste tu paz, eso no es algo que debas pensar ni por un segundo. \u00bfCu\u00e1nto tiempo tardaste en volver a estar bien? \u00bfCu\u00e1nto tardaste en recuperar por fin tus emociones y tu identidad despu\u00e9s de tu \u00faltima relaci\u00f3n? \u00bfDurante cu\u00e1nto tiempo fuiste un desastre? \u00bfCu\u00e1nto sacrificaste de ti mismo?<\/p>\n<p>Despu\u00e9s de pensarlo largo y tendido, preg\u00fantate una cosa. \u00bfRealmente merece la pena volver a pasar por todo eso? \u00bfRealmente merece la pena pasar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/8-lugares-donde-tocar-a-un-hombre-para-volverlo-loco\/\"> loco <\/a> for at times? More often than not, the answer is going to be \u2018NO\u2019, so listen to yourself. Learn to spare your mind. You owe yourself that much.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 amable contigo mismo. A veces tienes que ser tu mejor amigo.<\/p>\n<p>Let me be your voice of reason. I\u2019ve had a few guys in my life who made me feel like I was depressed at times. Like I could just scream and throw something sharp at them. Like I couldn\u2019t have one sane thought in my mind, and I thought I would completely lose it. I was frightened of myself at times. That\u2019s how far I let it go.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122048 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/the-woman-is-standing-by-the-window-drinking-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"la mujer est\u00e1 junto a la ventana tomando caf\u00e9\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/the-woman-is-standing-by-the-window-drinking-coffee.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/the-woman-is-standing-by-the-window-drinking-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/the-woman-is-standing-by-the-window-drinking-coffee-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/the-woman-is-standing-by-the-window-drinking-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/the-woman-is-standing-by-the-window-drinking-coffee-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/the-woman-is-standing-by-the-window-drinking-coffee-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/the-woman-is-standing-by-the-window-drinking-coffee-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/the-woman-is-standing-by-the-window-drinking-coffee-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>But the thing is, it wasn\u2019t me. It was them. Now I know it, and nobody can tell me otherwise.<\/p>\n<p>Todo depende de la gente de la que te rodees. A las personas que no tienen en cuenta tu bienestar NUNCA les va a importar lo que te cuesten en la vida. Recu\u00e9rdalo.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca les va a importar el hecho de que est\u00e9s reventando poco a poco, sin saber cu\u00e1ndo te romper\u00e1s del todo. Esas son las personas que debes evitar a toda costa.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s easy to think that there must be something wrong with you. But ask yourself this. Do you feel this way at all times or does it only occur when you are around HIM? And that should answer your question.<\/p>\n<p>You are okay. You are fine. We all lose it sometimes. It\u2019s normal to feel like you\u2019re not in control sometimes. But if that feeling is only evident in the presence of that certain someone, than you know what to do.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody is worth your peace of mind. And when you feel like he\u2019s costing you that \u2013 he\u2019s got to go.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122046 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Once-You-Cost-Me-My-Peace-Of-Mind-\u2013-You-Had-To-Go-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Una vez que me costaste la tranquilidad, ten\u00edas que irte\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Once-You-Cost-Me-My-Peace-Of-Mind-\u2013-You-Had-To-Go-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Once-You-Cost-Me-My-Peace-Of-Mind-\u2013-You-Had-To-Go-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Once-You-Cost-Me-My-Peace-Of-Mind-\u2013-You-Had-To-Go-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Once-You-Cost-Me-My-Peace-Of-Mind-\u2013-You-Had-To-Go-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Once-You-Cost-Me-My-Peace-Of-Mind-\u2013-You-Had-To-Go-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There is a lot I am prepared to take for love. If it\u2019s the real deal, there is not much I wouldn\u2019t do, and nowhere I wouldn\u2019t go. But there is one thing I would never sacrifice for ANYONE, and that is my inner peace. I\u2019ve been in enough relationships to know that if there&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":122045,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26229","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Once-You-Cost-Me-My-Peace-Of-Mind-\u2013-You-Had-To-Go-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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