{"id":26235,"date":"2018-10-18T09:56:28","date_gmt":"2018-10-18T09:56:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26235"},"modified":"2022-02-27T03:25:44","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T03:25:44","slug":"asi-es-como-se-marcho-aunque-no-quisiera","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/asi-es-como-se-marcho-aunque-no-quisiera\/","title":{"rendered":"As\u00ed es como se march\u00f3 incluso cuando no quer\u00eda hacerlo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Have you ever walked away from someone you still loved with all of your heart? Have you ever let go of someone you couldn’t imagine your life without?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfAlguna vez has dejado a alguien, sabiendo que es lo correcto y sabiendo que es la \u00fanica opci\u00f3n que tienes? \u00bfAlguna vez <\/b>lo bastante valiente para romper tu propio coraz\u00f3n<\/b><\/a>?<\/b><\/p>\n

Because this is exactly what this girl did. She was strong enough to walk away, even though she didn’t want to, simply because she had to do it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Y probablemente te est\u00e9s preguntando c\u00f3mo lo hizo. \u00bfC\u00f3mo consigui\u00f3 ser m\u00e1s fuerte que todo el dolor, que todo el amor que sent\u00eda por ese hombre?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo consigui\u00f3 ser m\u00e1s fuerte que ella misma? \u00bfC\u00f3mo venci\u00f3 su mente a su coraz\u00f3n? \u00bfC\u00f3mo se alej\u00f3, cuando la lo \u00fanico que quer\u00eda era quedarse<\/a>?<\/b><\/p>\n

No, no fue f\u00e1cil. De hecho, fue lo m\u00e1s doloroso y desgarrador que hizo en su vida. Y le hizo falta m\u00e1s valor y fuerza de lo que cualquiera podr\u00eda pensar.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero un d\u00eda, simplemente se eligi\u00f3 a s\u00ed misma por encima de este casi amor. Se eligi\u00f3 a s\u00ed misma por encima del hombre que la estaba matando espiritualmente. Por primera vez, eligi\u00f3 amarse a s\u00ed misma m\u00e1s que a \u00e9l. Un d\u00eda, eligi\u00f3 salvarse a s\u00ed misma y fue la mejor decisi\u00f3n de su vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

Y as\u00ed de f\u00e1cil, esta chica rompi\u00f3 todos los lazos con este hombre t\u00f3xico que estaba convirtiendo su vida en un infierno. Dej\u00f3 de contestar a sus llamadas borracha y de responder a sus mensajes nocturnos. Decidi\u00f3 que hab\u00eda llegado el momento de dejar de aceptarle cada vez que intentaba volver a su vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

Una ma\u00f1ana, tras pasar otra noche seguida sin dormir, se despert\u00f3 y bloque\u00f3 todas sus cuentas en las redes sociales, borr\u00f3 todas las fotos de los dos juntos y todas las canciones que le recordaban a \u00e9l. Dej\u00f3 de visitar los lugares en los que sab\u00eda que podr\u00eda encontrarse con \u00e9l y tir\u00f3 a la basura cada peque\u00f1a cosa que le recordaba a \u00e9l.<\/span><\/p>\n

Una ma\u00f1ana, decidi\u00f3 actuar como si ese hombre nunca hubiera formado parte de su vida. Decidi\u00f3 dejarlo en el pasado, donde pertenec\u00eda, aunque fuera lo \u00faltimo que quisiera hacer en la vida.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"As\u00ed<\/p>\n

Just like that, she stopped chasing him and begging for his attention. She stopped settling for the crumbs of his affection and she didn\u2019t mistake it for real love anymore.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por mucho que la matara, mir\u00f3 a los ojos a la cruda realidad y vio que todas sus esperanzas y esfuerzos eran en vano. De repente, dej\u00f3 de justificar su comportamiento t\u00f3xico y de buscar excusas por la forma en que la trataba.<\/span><\/p>\n

She stopped hoping that this man would eventually change and that he\u2019d start treating her the way she deserved. That he\u2019d become the man she imagined him to be for all this time.<\/span><\/p>\n

Entonces, admiti\u00f3 que ese hombre nunca la hab\u00eda amado de verdad. Que <\/span>ella s\u00f3lo era conveniente para \u00e9l<\/span><\/a> y que disfrutaba del amor que ella le daba.<\/span><\/p>\n

She accepted the fact that he wasn\u2019t actually emotionally damaged and that she couldn\u2019t save him. For the first time ever, she saw him without her rose-tinted glasses. And she saw that he was nothing more than a selfish egomaniac who couldn\u2019t care less about her.<\/span><\/p>\n

Y finalmente, record\u00f3 su val\u00eda. Record\u00f3 a la chica que era antes<\/a> este narcisista entr\u00f3 en su vida. Record\u00f3 que ella es la \u00fanica que tiene el control de su vida y que nunca deber\u00eda haber permitido que un imb\u00e9cil intentara siquiera destruirla.<\/span><\/p>\n

She realized that she has always been stronger and more valuable than him. That he was the one who wasn\u2019t enough all along and that he never deserved her even looking at him.<\/b><\/p>\n

Finally, she realized that he wasn\u2019t the center of her universe. That there were other things and people she should focus on.<\/span><\/p>\n

Finalmente, se puso a s\u00ed misma en primer lugar y decidi\u00f3 borrar a este hombre de su lista de prioridades.<\/b> Se dio cuenta de que deb\u00eda centrarse en s\u00ed misma, en sus objetivos y en su propio futuro, sin ese hombre a su lado.<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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