{"id":26279,"date":"2020-03-19T07:54:36","date_gmt":"2020-03-19T07:54:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26279"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:35:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:35:11","slug":"ser-feliz-sin-el-es-la-mejor-venganza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/ser-feliz-sin-el-es-la-mejor-venganza\/","title":{"rendered":"Ser feliz sin \u00e9l es la mejor venganza"},"content":{"rendered":"

La necesidad de venganza <\/a> in itself is never a good idea. Instead of moving on, you\u2019re not giving yourself a chance to heal and are instead, focused on proving something to the other person.<\/p>\n

What\u2019s the point of that?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s understandable to feel a certain way after a messy breakup and to feel the need to show the other person that you don\u2019t need them anyway.<\/p>\n

But instead of proving it to them, you need to make sure that you get it,too. You\u2019re the one you\u2019re left with, remember that.<\/p>\n

Ser feliz es el objetivo, \u00bfverdad? Pues bien, en lugar de intentar que otra persona se lo crea, c\u00e9ntrate en asegurarte de que t\u00fa est\u00e1s en el camino hacia la felicidad de verdad.<\/p>\n

For starters, let go of everything that you have boiling inside you. It\u2019s unhealthy, and it\u2019s only preventing you from getting over him.<\/p>\n

The minute you decide that you no longer need to prove anything to anyone is when you can proudly tell yourself that you\u2019ve made it. You\u2019re on your way.<\/p>\n

What drives people crazy is seeing that you are doing well without them. It makes them realize they no longer have any control over you, and that\u2019s what your goal should be.<\/p>\n

En vez de estar pendiente de \u00e9l y de c\u00f3mo darle celos y cosas as\u00ed, c\u00e9ntrate en otras cosas de la vida. Quiero decir, ten\u00edas cosas que te hac\u00edan feliz antes de saber que \u00e9l exist\u00eda, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n

Bueno, por fin tienes tiempo para dedicarte a esas cosas, as\u00ed que no pierdas tiempo y vuelve a la vida que ten\u00edas y amabas antes de que \u00e9l apareciera.<\/p>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

Always know that happiness is a choice. Shitty things will always happen, and things won\u2019t always be dreamy.<\/p>\n

Pero cuando decidas que no temer\u00e1s las cosas que no puedes controlar, te dar\u00e1s cuenta de que realmente puedes mantener tu cordura y preservar tu felicidad.<\/p>\n

Life is way too short to spend time worrying about people who don\u2019t give a crap about you.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t try to make his life hell. Don\u2019t try to make him jealous by parading someone new around him, just for the sake of it.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not worth it. It\u2019s also not fair to that person.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo los estar\u00edas usando para herir a otra persona, pero m\u00e1s personas terminar\u00edan heridas que s\u00f3lo tu ex. Pi\u00e9nsalo por un segundo.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t use other people and play with their emotions. That way, you\u2019re no better than your ex. Don\u2019t degrade yourself to his level.<\/p>\n

Sup\u00e9ralo y demu\u00e9strale que realmente puedes estar sin \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t mean that you can\u2019t get angry or upset. You can still let yourself feel whatever emoci\u00f3n <\/a> that takes over you. It is all part of the process of letting go. Don\u2019t deny yourself that.<\/p>\n

You can still get sad at times. It\u2019s perfectly normal, as long as you know that it doesn\u2019t define you. A single emotion doesn\u2019t define your life. It will all go away eventually.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo tienes que permitirte procesarlo todo de la manera adecuada.<\/p>\n

Remember those times when you felt like you couldn\u2019t get out of bed?<\/p>\n

\u00bfRecuerdas aquella vez que pensaste que nunca superar\u00edas al chico que cre\u00edas que era el amor de tu vida en ese momento?<\/p>\n

Well, look at you now! You\u2019re over it and probably laughing how funny it all seems now.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s exactly how you\u2019ll be feeling about your current situation.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no need to put anyone down. You just focus on getting back to your happy place, the one you know exists.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo te quedan algunos pasos m\u00e1s antes de llegar por fin.<\/p>\n

Todos los dem\u00e1s son irrelevantes.<\/p>\n

De lo \u00fanico que tienes que preocuparte es de volver a encarrilarte y de rodearte de personas que te ayuden a sentirte bien contigo mismo en el proceso.<\/p>\n

Verte feliz es la \u00fanica venganza que le volver\u00e1 loco.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

\"Ser<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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