{"id":26291,"date":"2020-07-19T07:54:25","date_gmt":"2020-07-19T07:54:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26291"},"modified":"2022-02-06T17:24:12","modified_gmt":"2022-02-06T17:24:12","slug":"volver-a-lo-que-te-rompio-no-te-arreglara","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/volver-a-lo-que-te-rompio-no-te-arreglara\/","title":{"rendered":"Volver a lo que te rompi\u00f3 no te arreglar\u00e1"},"content":{"rendered":"

Por favor, ten un poco de respeto por ti misma. No vuelvas con la persona que huy\u00f3 de tu amor.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t go back to the person who turned his back on you, leaving you all alone and vulnerable, while you were begging him to stay. Don\u2019t go back to the one who broke all of his promises.<\/p>\n

Te mereces a alguien que ni siquiera se plantee dejarte sola y confundida. Te mereces un amor en el que te sientas segura.<\/p>\n

Amor que puede protegerte del desamor y el dolor.<\/p>\n

Te mereces a alguien que nunca podr\u00eda hacerte llorar. Alguien que nunca podr\u00eda soportar verte derramar l\u00e1grimas por algo que te hizo.<\/p>\n

I get it. It\u2019s easy to take him back when he\u2019s telling you everything you want to hear. When he\u2019s promising you that this time, it WILL be different.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

This time, he has changed. And it\u2019s easy to believe what you want him to tell you. It\u2019s way too easy loving someone you shouldn\u2019t love anymore.<\/p>\n

But hear me out. When he\u2019s on his knees begging you to take him back, and saying that things are really going to be different this time, he will be telling you that because he knows that\u2019s what you need to hear from him.<\/p>\n

He knows that you need reassurance if you\u2019re going to go back into the hole that he had dug for you, so please, don\u2019t believe him.<\/p>\n

Ya mostr\u00f3 sus verdaderos colores la primera vez que te dej\u00f3<\/a>. Ya te demostr\u00f3 lo poco que le importas cuando te dej\u00f3 tan f\u00e1cilmente, sin dar marcha atr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be crazy to think he actually changed.<\/p>\n

I know that you desperately want to feel loved, just like the rest of us. I know that you want to feel adored and be without a care in the world when you\u2019re with him.<\/p>\n

Pero la persona que te dej\u00f3 una vez, lo volver\u00e1 a hacer. La persona que te dej\u00f3 nunca va a ser la persona que te va a arreglar.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que.., don\u2019t go running back<\/a> the minute he realizes what he has lost and wants you back. Don\u2019t be the one to fill the emptiness he now feels.<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s, \u00e9l sabe que le quieres. Sabe que esperas pacientemente su llamada y que volver\u00e1s en cuanto \u00e9l quiera.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give him the satisfaction. Don\u2019t do this to yourself. He broke you once, and he will do it again.<\/p>\n

The only reason he wants you to come back is because he can\u2019t be alone. Don\u2019t run back to him simply because it is convenient for him.<\/p>\n

He will find a reason to break you again. And then, it\u2019s going to be twice as hard to heal from it.<\/p>\n

Qui\u00e9rete t\u00fa primero. Ponte a ti primero por una vez. Corre en otra direcci\u00f3n si llama a tu puerta.<\/p>\n

Igual que hizo cuando necesitaste que se quedara. Recu\u00e9rdalo siempre.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1s enamorado. Eso es completamente natural, lo entiendo.<\/p>\n

But don\u2019t you want someone who will appreciate you, value you and ultimately adore you, the way you feel for him now?<\/p>\n

El tipo de amor que est\u00e1 dispuesto a ofrecer no es el tipo de amor que mereces<\/a>. Si vuelves con \u00e9l, nunca dejar\u00e1s de preguntarte. Siempre sabr\u00e1s lo que es capaz de hacer.<\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, lo has vivido en primera persona. Eso por s\u00ed solo nunca te dar\u00e1 tranquilidad. \u00bfEs eso lo que quieres para ti?<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t do it. Protect you heart and say, \u2018No.\u2019 Remember that he broke you once already and still has the guts to appear at your door again.<\/p>\n

Please, don\u2019t go back to false hope again. Don\u2019t go back to fake promises, lies and tears.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t go back to his games and tricks. You deserve so much more than him.<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s scary to hear this now because you feel like you are at a crossroads. I know you are afraid of being alone if you don\u2019t take him back.<\/p>\n

You might even believe him when he tells you he\u2019s a changed man and that leaving you the first time was the biggest mistake of his life.<\/p>\n

Pero, por favor, s\u00e9 valiente y ten en cuenta tus propios sentimientos y tu felicidad.<\/p>\n

After some time, you will realize that saying, \u2018No\u2019 to him was the best decision of your life.<\/p>\n

\"Volver<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Please, have some respect for yourself. Don\u2019t go back to the person who ran away from your love. Don\u2019t go back to the person who turned his back on you, leaving you all alone and vulnerable, while you were begging him to stay. Don\u2019t go back to the one who broke all of his promises….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":107611,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26291","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Going-Back-To-What-Broke-You-Wont-Fix-You.jpg",800,540,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","parent":29627,"count":263,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29628,"category_count":263,"category_description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","cat_name":"dealing with breakup","category_nicename":"dealing-with-breakup","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26291","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26291"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26291\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/107611"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26291"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26291"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26291"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}