{"id":26325,"date":"2020-07-19T08:55:44","date_gmt":"2020-07-19T08:55:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26325"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:30:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:30:38","slug":"estoy-cansado-de-ser-siempre-el-que-mas-se-preocupa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/estoy-cansado-de-ser-siempre-el-que-mas-se-preocupa\/","title":{"rendered":"Estoy cansado de ser siempre el que m\u00e1s se preocupa"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>S\u00e9 m\u00e1s de lo que t\u00fa sabes de m\u00ed. Las cosas que te gustan, las cosas que amas. \u00bfEsto te dice algo?<\/p>\n<p>Why am I always the one who keeps track of your preferences while you ignore mine or don\u2019t know them? Why am I always the one who has to keep things going?<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m tired of always being <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/a-la-chica-que-dio-demasiado-de-si-misma-al-chico-equivocado\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">el que se preocupa demasiado<\/a> about your feelings, desires and requests. If you tell me that you\u2019re feeling down, I immediately try to lift you up.<\/p>\n<p>Si me dices que quieres verme con mi lencer\u00eda nueva, me pongo un conjunto sexy en cuesti\u00f3n de segundos. Si me dices que necesitas un masaje, dejo de lado mis prioridades y me pongo a darte un masaje, aunque apenas pueda mantenerme en pie.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m tired of that.<\/p>\n<p>Dicen que siempre habr\u00e1 alguien que se preocupe m\u00e1s. Pero, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 deber\u00eda ser siempre yo? Cuando te preocupas m\u00e1s, te hacen m\u00e1s da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102259\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada en la cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"540\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-768x518.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-150x101.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Te sientes herido cuando se niegan a hacer algo que t\u00fa har\u00edas encantado por ellos. Preocuparse m\u00e1s significa dejar que tus sentimientos controlen tus emociones. Me cans\u00e9 de que mis emociones me controlaran.<\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019m tired of you not caring enough.<\/b><b><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m tired of always being the one who will make you feel special. Just because I go beyond myself to show that I care, it doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re not allowed to.<\/p>\n<p>Hay muchos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-cosas-que-debes-saber-si-a-tu-pareja-le-cuesta-mostrar-afecto\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">formas de demostrar tu afecto<\/a>y todo lo que tienes que hacer es remangarte y demostrarme que te importo.<\/p>\n<p>Show me that you appreciate me being here and that you care for our relationship. Don\u2019t let me suffocate in my own thoughts, thinking that I\u2019m not good enough for you.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let me think that I should care more in order for you to start caring.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102260\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/worried-young-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"joven preocupada sentada junto a la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/worried-young-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/worried-young-woman-sitting-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/worried-young-woman-sitting-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/worried-young-woman-sitting-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/worried-young-woman-sitting-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si me quieres en tu vida, s\u00e9 un hombre y mu\u00e9strame tus verdaderas intenciones.<\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019m tired of you not making an effort.<\/b><b><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m tired of you not making an effort to show me your biggest fears and to show me that you will do anything to keep me entertained. When you really like someone, you never miss a chance to make them feel special.<\/p>\n<p>I want you to be a man and go over yourself to show me some affection. Buy me my favorite chocolate or pick a flower somewhere and I\u2019ll be the happiest girl in the world.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m tired of your not listening to my wishes and dreams.<\/p>\n<p>I want you to support my decisions and nourish my dreams just as I\u2019m nourishing yours.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102261\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/mindful-woman-looking-through-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"mujer atenta mirando por la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/mindful-woman-looking-through-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/mindful-woman-looking-through-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/mindful-woman-looking-through-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/mindful-woman-looking-through-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/mindful-woman-looking-through-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I want you to show me that you\u2019re interested in my cravings and that you\u2019re paying attention to the smallest of details that go on in my life.<\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019m tired of you telling me that I overreact.<\/b><b><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m tired of you telling me that I\u2019m overreacting every time you\u2019re wrong and trying to make me look insane so that things go the way you want them to go.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a cheap shot played by cheap people like you, making me look like I\u2019m the bad guy and that you\u2019re the victim.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m tired of being the victim of your selfish necessities. You probably don\u2019t realize that I have necessities too and that you\u2019re not the only one who needs attention.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want you to confuse me with being needy. There\u2019s a big differences between needing and wanting something.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102262\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/worried-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"joven preocupada sentada en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/worried-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/worried-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/worried-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/worried-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/worried-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t need it because I can\u2019t live without it. I want it because it makes me feel appreciated.<\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019m tired of your ignorance.<\/b><b><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m tired of your ignorance and lack of empathy. I don\u2019t want to be the one telling you what to do.<\/p>\n<p>Quiero que pienses en tu comportamiento y le encuentres una soluci\u00f3n adecuada.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want you to take me for granted just because you can or just because you know that I will always be the one who cares more.<\/p>\n<p>This time I want you to know that I do care more. But this time \u2013 about myself.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102258\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Im-Tired-Of-Always-Being-The-One-Who-Cares-More-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Estoy cansado de ser siempre el que m\u00e1s se preocupa\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Im-Tired-Of-Always-Being-The-One-Who-Cares-More-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Im-Tired-Of-Always-Being-The-One-Who-Cares-More-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Im-Tired-Of-Always-Being-The-One-Who-Cares-More-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I know more than you know about me. The things you like, the things you love. Is this telling you something? Why am I always the one who keeps track of your preferences while you ignore mine or don\u2019t know them? Why am I always the one who has to keep things going? I\u2019m tired&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":102263,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26325","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Im-Tired-Of-Always-Being-The-One-Who-Cares-More.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26325","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26325"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26325\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/102263"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26325"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26325"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26325"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}