{"id":26499,"date":"2018-10-23T08:03:51","date_gmt":"2018-10-23T08:03:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26499"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:53:51","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:53:51","slug":"5-senales-de-que-crees-que-sigues-enamorado-de-tu-ex-pero-en-realidad-no-es-asi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-senales-de-que-crees-que-sigues-enamorado-de-tu-ex-pero-en-realidad-no-es-asi\/","title":{"rendered":"5 se\u00f1ales de que crees que sigues enamorado de tu ex (pero en realidad no es as\u00ed)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Don’t worry, darling. We all feel the same way.<\/p>\n

It’s not unusual to still have feelings for someone with whom you’ve spent a certain amount of time. You still remember his scent, his touch, his voice, the sound of his footsteps and so on.<\/p>\n

Pero tienes que entender que estos son s\u00f3lo los restos de su presencia y no tienen nada que ver con que todav\u00eda tengas afecto hacia \u00e9l. S\u00e9 que es confuso en este momento, pero estas se\u00f1ales desaparecer\u00e1n con el tiempo.<\/p>\n

Whatever you do, don\u2019t let them overwhelm you or confundir<\/a> you to start believing that you\u2019re still in love with him.<\/p>\n

These are the most common deceiving signs that may confuse you to think that you\u2019re still in love with him (but believe me, you\u2019re not):<\/p>\n

1. You don\u2019t want him to meet somebody else<\/h2>\n

This is the biggest misconception and it occurs at the very start of the break-up. You think you still love him just because you don\u2019t want him to be with somebody else.<\/p>\n

You still have that part of you saying that you\u2019re his and only his and him being with another woman is cheating on you. You still have these feelings that you\u2019re together but in reality this is not the case.<\/p>\n

This also means that you don\u2019t want him to be happy which is the biggest evidence that you\u2019re not in love with him. Real love means putting other people\u2019s happiness before yours.<\/p>\n

Esto significa que si la persona que amas es feliz, t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n lo ser\u00e1s y viceversa. Por lo tanto, tu deseo de que est\u00e9 siempre solo o en una relaci\u00f3n miserable dista mucho de estar enamorado.<\/p>\n

2. You\u2019re constantly calling and texting him<\/h2>\n

This one may seem weird because we all think if a person is constantly calling and texting someone then she\u2019s madly in love with him. Unfortunately, this is not true.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s a difference between being madly in love and an obsession. An obsession starts when you reach the level where he constantly ignores you but you keep calling and texting him with no intention of stopping until he answers you.<\/p>\n

Pero si quisiera responderte, lo habr\u00eda hecho hace mucho tiempo. Si le quieres de verdad, respetar\u00e1s su deseo de estar sin ti.
\nConstantly calling and texting him is a desperate move and you know you\u2019re better than that.<\/p>\n

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3. Esperas que te llame o te env\u00ede mensajes de texto<\/h2>\n

Esperar que te llame o te env\u00ede un mensaje de texto es otra versi\u00f3n de la obsesi\u00f3n. Entonces, \u00bfesperas que te llame pero te niegas a llamarle t\u00fa?<\/p>\n

The only logical reason why you would want such a thing is that you want to prove something to yourself. Perhaps you want to prove that you still own him or you\u2019re doing this for self-validation purposes.<\/p>\n

Evidentemente, esto no tiene nada que ver con el amor; es una cuesti\u00f3n de dominaci\u00f3n en una relaci\u00f3n y tambi\u00e9n de otros factores psicol\u00f3gicos. Si eras t\u00fa quien dominaba en la relaci\u00f3n, esta podr\u00eda ser tu forma subconsciente de preservar tu estatus para volver a sentirte bien.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t do this. You are a self-sufficient, amazing woman and you don\u2019t need a man to call you in order to prove what I\u2019ve just said.<\/p>\n

4. Tienes sentimientos encontrados cuando le ves<\/h2>\n

Tanto si lo ves en las redes sociales como en el mundo real, tienes que saber que es completamente normal mezclarse sentimientos<\/a> about him. This doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that you\u2019re still in love with him.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll most likely get the same feeling even five years after the break-up and this is like a side effect that follows everyone who\u2019s in the same situation. You have to know that you cannot simply forget a person after ten days.<\/p>\n

These mixed feelings you get have nothing to do with you being in love; they are just your body\u2019s reaction to certain stimuli, e.g. when you were with him, your body learned to react a certain way and now it just imitates the same reaction without any specific reason.<\/p>\n

5. You can\u2019t stop talking about him<\/h2>\n

If you can\u2019t stop talking about your ex, it means you haven\u2019t resolved the situation in your mind. You still need to process what has happened and to do some mind cleansing in order to accept it.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not in love if you can\u2019t stop talking about him because it means you\u2019re not ashamed to talk about him. When you\u2019re ashamed to talk about your ex, it means you\u2019re ashamed of the neglected feelings toward him or you\u2019re subconsciously fighting to forget him but don\u2019t want anyone to know it.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, cuando te pregunten: <\/span>\u00bfC\u00f3mo te sientes?<\/span><\/i> T\u00fa simplemente contestas: <\/span>Oh, I\u2019m doing fine\u2026<\/span><\/i> Si ese es el caso, a\u00fan podr\u00edas estar enamorada de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

But you\u2019re certainly not in love if you\u2019re constantly talking about him to make you feel better about yourself or to prove something to yourself and others. It means you\u2019ve accepted the situation but you only need some time to digest it.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Don’t worry, darling. We all feel the same way. It’s not unusual to still have feelings for someone with whom you’ve spent a certain amount of time. You still remember his scent, his touch, his voice, the sound of his footsteps and so on. But you have to understand that these are just the leftovers…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":26500,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29629],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26499","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-him-back"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29629,"label":"getting him back"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/niki-sanders-754457-unsplash-4.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29629,"name":"getting him back","slug":"getting-him-back","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29629,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to get your ex-boyfriend back, you need to avoid making the most common mistakes. Here's how you'll do it the right way.","parent":29627,"count":51,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29629,"category_count":51,"category_description":"If you want to get your ex-boyfriend back, you need to avoid making the most common mistakes. Here's how you'll do it the right way.","cat_name":"getting him back","category_nicename":"getting-him-back","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26499","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26499"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26499\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/26500"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26499"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26499"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26499"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}