{"id":26553,"date":"2020-06-23T10:28:38","date_gmt":"2020-06-23T10:28:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26553"},"modified":"2022-02-22T15:47:27","modified_gmt":"2022-02-22T15:47:27","slug":"necesito-que-me-elijas-y-que-nunca-dejes-de-luchar-por-mi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/necesito-que-me-elijas-y-que-nunca-dejes-de-luchar-por-mi\/","title":{"rendered":"Necesito Que Me Elijas Y Que Nunca Dejes De Luchar Por M\u00ed"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A trav\u00e9s de todos mis desenga\u00f1os y desventuras amorosas del pasado, he aprendido (inconscientemente) a levantar un muro alrededor de mi coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Un muro que es muy dif\u00edcil de atravesar, pero una vez que lo haces, ver\u00e1s un atisbo de la chica de antes de todo el dolor y el sufrimiento.<\/p>\n<p>El verdadero yo.<\/p>\n<p>Una vez que atravieses ese muro, podr\u00e1s ver a la chica que era antes de que el mundo me aplastara y con cada <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/11-maneras-de-volver-a-ser-uno-mismo-tras-un-desengano-amoroso\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> desamor <\/a>...me hizo perder un pedacito de m\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>I need you to break through that wall and show me that all of my heartbreak wasn\u2019t for nothing.<\/p>\n<p>Necesito que seas t\u00fa quien recoja todas las piezas perdidas de mi puzzle y me completes.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96789\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-smiling-woman.jpg\" alt=\"hombre abrazando a mujer sonriente\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-smiling-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-smiling-woman-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-smiling-woman-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-smiling-woman-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>You\u2019re well on your way but I fear I might scare you away.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Tengo la sensaci\u00f3n paranoica de que te dar\u00e1s cuenta de que estoy demasiado da\u00f1ada y dejar\u00e1s de luchar por m\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Te dar\u00e1s cuenta de que soy demasiado y huir\u00e1s hacia otro lado.<\/p>\n<p><b>Please, don\u2019t. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfRecuerdas aquel fin de semana que pasamos en el lago? \u00bfEn aquella casita sin electricidad y sin nadie en un radio de 8 kil\u00f3metros?<\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1bamos los dos solos y fue la mejor sensaci\u00f3n del mundo. Me sent\u00ed TAN conectada a ti.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96790\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/couple-sitting-on-the-pier-by-the-lake.jpg\" alt=\"pareja sentada en el muelle junto al lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/couple-sitting-on-the-pier-by-the-lake.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/couple-sitting-on-the-pier-by-the-lake-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/couple-sitting-on-the-pier-by-the-lake-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/couple-sitting-on-the-pier-by-the-lake-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/couple-sitting-on-the-pier-by-the-lake-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfRecuerdas c\u00f3mo nos qued\u00e1bamos en la cama hasta mediod\u00eda, hablando, abraz\u00e1ndonos y cont\u00e1ndonos todo lo que nos pasaba por la cabeza?<\/p>\n<p>Me abr\u00ed a ti como nunca antes y fue la primera vez en mucho tiempo que me sent\u00ed lo suficientemente c\u00f3moda para<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/guardia-amar-a-alguien-como\/\"> bajar la guardia con alguien.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Siempre me abrazabas tan fuerte que sent\u00eda que nadie pod\u00eda hacerme da\u00f1o. Eras mi refugio seguro (a\u00fan lo eres).<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 que puedo ser <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/salir-con-una-mujer-complicada-puede-ser-dificil-pero-merece-la-pena\/\">una mujer dif\u00edcil de amar<\/a>. I know that when I fall, it can seem as if I\u2019m never getting back up.<\/p>\n<p>I promise I\u2019m trying to change that. I promise I\u2019m trying to not let all of my past experiences shape me as a person and define our relationship.<\/p>\n<p>But I need YOU to help me get there. I can\u2019t do this alone.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96791\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-woman-on-the-pier.jpg\" alt=\"hombre abrazando a mujer en el muelle\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-woman-on-the-pier.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-woman-on-the-pier-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-woman-on-the-pier-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-woman-on-the-pier-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-woman-on-the-pier-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I hope this doesn\u2019t frighten you. I hope you won\u2019t go searching for someone \u2018less\u2019 damaged. I hope you can see past my walls.<\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019m still here, I just need you to find me along the way and never let me go back to that sunken place.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><em>Si el amor fuera tan f\u00e1cil, \u00bfmerecer\u00eda realmente la pena?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Hasta que no luchas por alguien con cada fibra de tu ser, no te das cuenta de lo mucho que le quieres y le aprecias.<\/p>\n<p>Hasta que no pasas por tanta mierda con alguien y consigues llegar al otro lado, no aprendes a llevarlo tan cerca del coraz\u00f3n y a protegerlo a toda costa.<\/p>\n<p>Las dificultades nos lo ense\u00f1an.<em> Deber\u00eda saberlo.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96794\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-comforting-sad-woman.jpg\" alt=\"hombre consolando a mujer triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-comforting-sad-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-comforting-sad-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-comforting-sad-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-comforting-sad-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-comforting-sad-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When it starts getting scary, that\u2019s when you know it\u2019s worth fighting for. That is when you know you have something real.<\/p>\n<p><em>So I am begging you to stay with me. Let me be the mess that I am and help guide me to the place we both know I can get to. I feel like I\u2019m worth it and I know you feel it too.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I feel it every time you\u2019re near me. I feel it in your every kiss and your every embrace.<\/p>\n<p>When you kiss me, I feel the ground beneath me slipping away and it\u2019s as if I\u2019m on a cloud that is making me feel like the luckiest girl in the world.<\/p>\n<p>But at the same time, it\u2019s scary. I feel like I can fall at any time. It\u2019s like I\u2019m so happy and I know something is going to come and ruin it for me.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96796\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-woman-in-man-hug.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven en abrazo de hombre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-woman-in-man-hug.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-woman-in-man-hug-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-woman-in-man-hug-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-woman-in-man-hug-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-woman-in-man-hug-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Aqu\u00ed es donde necesito que des un paso al frente y me demuestres que mi paranoia no es real.<\/p>\n<p>Que cuando me besas, LO HACES EN SERIO, y no tienes intenci\u00f3n de irte.<\/p>\n<p>Necesito sentir que luchas por m\u00ed cuando empiezo a escabullirme.<\/p>\n<p>Porque ocurrir\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>At times, I will feel insecure. But with your love and guidance, I feel like the safest gal in the world. Just don\u2019t quit on me and I promise I will learn to give you my all.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96788\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/I-Need-You-To-Choose-Me-And-Never-Stop-Fighting-For-Me-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Necesito Que Me Elijas Y Que Nunca Dejes De Luchar Por M\u00ed\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/I-Need-You-To-Choose-Me-And-Never-Stop-Fighting-For-Me-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/I-Need-You-To-Choose-Me-And-Never-Stop-Fighting-For-Me-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/I-Need-You-To-Choose-Me-And-Never-Stop-Fighting-For-Me-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Through all of my past heartbreaks and misfortunes with love, I have (subconsciously) learned to put up a wall around my heart. A wall that is very hard to get through but once you do, you will see a glimpse of the girl from before all of the pain and suffering. The real me. Once&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":96799,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26553","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/I-Need-You-To-Choose-Me-And-Never-Stop-Fighting-For-Me.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26553","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26553"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26553\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/96799"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26553"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26553"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26553"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}