{"id":26558,"date":"2020-09-24T06:52:12","date_gmt":"2020-09-24T06:52:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26558"},"modified":"2022-01-19T11:21:57","modified_gmt":"2022-01-19T11:21:57","slug":"ya-no-te-necesita-porque-le-ensenaste-a-estar-sola","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/ya-no-te-necesita-porque-le-ensenaste-a-estar-sola\/","title":{"rendered":"Ya no te necesita porque le ense\u00f1aste a estar sola"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ya no eres su prioridad. Ac\u00e9ptalo. Es tu culpa, de todos modos. <\/b><\/p>\n

You are not the person she can count on when she needs support. You\u2019re not the man she can call in the middle of the night if she can\u2019t sleep or if she\u2019s anxious.<\/p>\n

Que la ignoraras y la pusieras la \u00faltima de la lista te pas\u00f3 factura. Tu comportamiento, tu lado fr\u00edo e indiferente la ahuyentaron.<\/p>\n

Le ense\u00f1aste a no contar nunca contigo. <\/b>You\u2019ve made sure that she will go through every moment in life, whether happy or bad, alone.<\/p>\n

But you weren\u2019t aware that you were doing her a favor. You had no idea that one day, she\u2019ll be so independent that she\u2019ll wonder what the hell she is doing with you.<\/p>\n

Cada fase de su relaci\u00f3n, cada bache lo afrontaba ella sola. Las \u00fanicas personas con las que pod\u00eda hablar eran sus amigos.<\/p>\n

So now, don\u2019t be surprised if her friends mean so much more than you.<\/p>\n

\"fiesta<\/p>\n

You taught her you\u2019ll never be around.<\/b> She wasn\u2019t even bothered by the fact that she couldn\u2019t come to you or count on your help and support.<\/p>\n

It became so mundane. At first, it hurt, but after you pulled the same thing over and over again, she just didn\u2019t care anymore.<\/p>\n

Sab\u00eda que la \u00fanica persona en la que pod\u00eda confiar era ella misma.<\/em><\/p>\n

Le ense\u00f1aste que su voz no tiene sonido,<\/b> como en un mal sue\u00f1o. Gritaba pero no sal\u00eda nada.<\/p>\n

You never heard a thing. You didn\u2019t want to hear a thing. It was so much easier to ignore her and let her deal any way she knows how.<\/p>\n

You taught her you don\u2019t care about her.<\/b> With every reckless move and every indifferent look, you\u2019ve shown her how selfish you are.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s okay to love yourself. But usually, qui\u00e9rete a ti mismo<\/span><\/a> te permite amar a\u00fan m\u00e1s a los dem\u00e1s. Pero no en tu caso. Eras demasiado ego\u00edsta.<\/p>\n

She\u2019ll move on without you. It\u2019s just a matter of time. Le ense\u00f1aste a hacer planes por su cuenta.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Le ense\u00f1aste a mirar al futuro sin ti en \u00e9l. Le ense\u00f1aste a ser independiente, pero no ten\u00edas ni idea de que acabar\u00eda excluy\u00e9ndote de su vida.<\/p>\n

One day, she\u2019ll be sick of you. She won\u2019t think twice about leaving you.<\/p>\n

And you know what\u2019s going to happen? You\u2019ll stay miserable, and she\u2019ll know you miss her, but she won\u2019t give a fuck. T\u00fa se lo ense\u00f1aste.<\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be surprised if she goes no contact with you. Don\u2019t act like you haven\u2019t been ignoring her for as long as you were together.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be surprised if she doesn\u2019t want to have anything to do with you. Le ense\u00f1aste a ser ego\u00edsta y a pensar s\u00f3lo en s\u00ed misma.<\/b> Lo hac\u00edas todos los d\u00edas.<\/p>\n

Siempre era la que manten\u00eda la boca cerrada y hac\u00eda lo que le daba la gana.<\/p>\n

She was always the one who walked around on eggshells just so you didn\u2019t get all worked up. She wanted you to be happy, and you couldn\u2019t care less how she felt.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be surprised if she changes. S\u00f3lo le ense\u00f1aste a cuidar de s\u00ed misma.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

You did that to her day after day. She now knows it\u2019s alright to act like that.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be surprised if she turns to herself and becomes the person she was before she met you. Just a heads <\/em>up\u2014you\u2019re no le va a gustar.<\/em><\/p>\n

She\u2019ll open her eyes and see that you\u2019ve been treating her less than she deserves. She\u2019ll slowly realize that all she\u2019s ever been to you is your plan de respaldo<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n

Slowly, she\u2019ll realize that she is completely invisible in your relationship.<\/p>\n

Prepare to be hurt. Prepare for her to treat you the same as you\u2019ve treated her.<\/p>\n

She\u2019ll look you in the eye, and she won\u2019t feel a thing. You\u2019re going to be a stranger she passes by and not the person she once was in love with.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be surprised when she leaves. Don\u2019t be surprised she doesn\u2019t need you<\/a> porque nunca te esforzaste por mantenerla.<\/p>\n

\"Ya<\/p>\n

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