{"id":26580,"date":"2021-01-02T08:01:45","date_gmt":"2021-01-02T08:01:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26580"},"modified":"2022-02-22T16:25:46","modified_gmt":"2022-02-22T16:25:46","slug":"5-razones-por-las-que-las-mujeres-independientes-atraen-a-hombres-emocionalmente-inaccesibles","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-razones-por-las-que-las-mujeres-independientes-atraen-a-hombres-emocionalmente-inaccesibles\/","title":{"rendered":"5 razones por las que las mujeres independientes atraen a hombres emocionalmente poco disponibles"},"content":{"rendered":"

Siempre es la misma historia. Una mujer hermosa y fuerte se enamora de un hombre que le da todo menos lo m\u00e1s importante: amor.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t need flowers, she doesn\u2019t need fancy things. All she needs is your attention and someone to love her.<\/p>\n

La historia termina en una ruptura inmediata o en el intento de prolongar algo que est\u00e1 condenado al fracaso.<\/p>\n

En cualquier caso, el desenga\u00f1o es definitivo. La mujer acabar\u00e1 llorando y tratando de recomponerse.<\/p>\n

She\u2019ll be angry with herself for falling for the tricks of an hombre emocionalmente no disponible<\/a>.<\/p>\n

To all those who are strong and in a happily ever after relationship, this is just BS. They can\u2019t accept that it\u2019s possible for such a man to choose such a woman.<\/p>\n

Pero la verdad es, hombres emocionalmente inaccesibles<\/a> don\u2019t choose strong women\u2014strong women choose them.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9?<\/strong><\/p>\n

1. Los ven como convenientes<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Cuando eligen hombres emocionalmente inaccesibles, los eligen por una raz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

And that is that as long as they are with them, they can rest assured that these men won\u2019t question their authority.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t do anything to compromise their power. These men don\u2019t have the guts to do it.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t stand up to them and they won\u2019t question their decisions. They will go with the flow every time.<\/p>\n

Although this seems like an upside, it\u2019s not. Over time, although their authority is unquestionable, these women wish for their emotionally unavailable men to change.<\/p>\n

Quieren que muestren m\u00e1s afecto, que demuestren que les importan.<\/p>\n

Esto no suele ocurrir nunca, por lo que siempre se repite la misma historia con dos posibles resultados.<\/p>\n

2. Piensan que estos hombres no son arriesgados<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Significa que est\u00e1n a salvo con ellos. No les har\u00e1n da\u00f1o, son demasiado fuertes para eso.<\/p>\n

But what they don\u2019t see is that love sneaks up on them, blinds them and they end up getting hurt either way.<\/p>\n

Independent women promise themselves they won\u2019t become the girl who is waiting by the phone, waiting for him to call her back.<\/p>\n

They promise themselves they won\u2019t wait around or suffer for anyone.<\/p>\n

So they tend not to get too close to anyone. They\u2019ve all done this in the past and it didn’t end well. It ended with them getting terribly hurt.<\/p>\n

3. Aunque en el fondo quieran seguridad emocional<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Ninguno de ellos lo admite porque parece d\u00e9bil. No hay nada de d\u00e9bil en querer ser amado.<\/p>\n

Pero, por lo general, les hace sentirse vulnerables y, por tanto, expuestos a que les hagan da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

En el fondo, las mujeres fuertes realmente quieren y necesitan compasi\u00f3n y amor incondicional, pero eligen hombres emocionalmente inaccesibles, hombres distantes e incapaces de mostrar lo que sienten porque les parece m\u00e1s seguro.<\/p>\n

It seems like they aren\u2019t getting hurt.<\/p>\n

4. Saben que los hombres emocionalmente no disponibles mantendr\u00e1n las distancias<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Strong women are so good at pretending everything is okay. They will put on their \u2018I don\u2019t give a shit\u2019 face and keep calm when they are on the verge of breaking down.<\/p>\n

Construyen muros emocionales<\/a> a su alrededor para protegerse.<\/p>\n

They treat this man the same way. They always have a serious face on because that way the man won\u2019t get close to her. He will keep his distance.<\/p>\n

Y para mantener viva la relaci\u00f3n, de vez en cuando sonr\u00eden o tienen una cita. S\u00f3lo para mantener la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

5. Los eligen porque es m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Valoran su capacidad para tenerlo todo bajo control. Y si la soledad es el precio a pagar, sellar\u00e1n el trato.<\/p>\n

They choose these men because they know they won\u2019t get emotionally involved and they won\u2019t question their abilities or their authority.<\/p>\n

No hay nada peor para una mujer fuerte que comprometerse, dejar que su pareja vea su lado vulnerable y la toma de decisiones mutuas.<\/p>\n

The only people they trust is themselves. So the ideal choice for a relationship is a man who won\u2019t get involved too much. Because he doesn\u2019t care.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, the heart makes its own decisions and their mind gets overwhelmed with questions like: \u201cWhat if he hurts me?\u201d, \u201cWhat if I let him love me and he doesn\u2019t know how?\u201d, \u201cwhat if he tries to manipulate me?\u201d<\/p>\n

Se cuestionar\u00e1n a s\u00ed mismos, pero al final nunca se rendir\u00e1n. Nunca van a permitir que nadie ponga en peligro su libertad o su independencia.<\/p>\n

Underneath it all, they are so scared to lose what it took them so long to build. That\u2019s why women choose emotionally unavailable men. Because they choose to.<\/p>\n

\"5<\/p>\n

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It\u2019s the same story every time. A beautiful, strong woman falls for a man who gives her everything except the most important thing\u2014love. She doesn\u2019t need flowers, she doesn\u2019t need fancy things. All she needs is your attention and someone to love her. The story ends in either an immediate break-up or the attempt to…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":124228,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26580","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/5-Reasons-Why-Independent-Women-Attract-Emotionally-Unavailable-Men-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26580","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26580"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26580\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/124228"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26580"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26580"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26580"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}