{"id":26581,"date":"2018-10-24T08:48:42","date_gmt":"2018-10-24T08:48:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26581"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:52:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:52:09","slug":"mi-marido-me-ignora-10-maneras-de-hacer-que-se-abra-a-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/mi-marido-me-ignora-10-maneras-de-hacer-que-se-abra-a-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"Mi marido me ignora: 10 maneras de hacer que se abra a ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

A nadie le gusta que le ignoren. Si te ignoran, sientes que te est\u00e1n desatendiendo como ser humano, porque todos necesitamos atenci\u00f3n hasta cierto punto.<\/p>\n

When someone you don\u2019t really know ignores you, it\u2019s not such a big deal because you\u2019re not that emotionally attached to that specific person.<\/p>\n

But, if someone in your circle of friends or family ignores you, you start panicking because you don\u2019t know what to do or how to feel about it. It is especially painful if the person who ignores you is your husband.<\/p>\n

MI MARIDO ME IGNORA<\/p>\n

Si te apetece tu marido te ignora<\/a> to the extent that you don\u2019t remember the last time the two of you had a decent conversation, you have a problem. Do you feel humiliated thinking that something\u2019s wrong with you?<\/p>\n

Or you feel like he isn\u2019t paying attention anymore like he used to?<\/p>\n

Lack of communication is a serious issue when it comes to marriage because it is the essence of your bond. If you two cannot communicate properly, you\u2019re subconsciously creating a gap in your marriage.<\/p>\n

La depresi\u00f3n, la humillaci\u00f3n y el enfado son s\u00edntomas de falta de comunicaci\u00f3n. As\u00ed que, si quieres salvar tu matrimonio, encontrar una soluci\u00f3n es de suma importancia.<\/p>\n

10 MANERAS DE HACER QUE SE ABRA A TI<\/p>\n

1. Busca sus intereses para que participe m\u00e1s en una conversaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

 <\/p>\n

\"Mi<\/p>\n

Los hombres son muy duros a la hora de comunicarse. Si quieres que se abra a ti, tienes que encontrar la forma de hacer que participe m\u00e1s en las conversaciones. En primer lugar, piensa en sus intereses y aficiones.<\/p>\n

Are there any specific activities that he enjoys doing in his free time? Does he collect vintage toy cars perhaps or stamps? Does he play the guitar? If yes, ask him about the progress of that certain activity to show him that you\u2019re interested in what is going on in his life.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re not sure how to initiate a conversation on a specific activity, just Google it beforehand. I\u2019m sure he will be more than happy to start talking to you because when we are passionate about something, our brains simply light up at the mention of that specific thing.<\/p>\n

La clave es hacer que el tema le interese. Si lo consigues, la mitad de tu trabajo estar\u00e1 hecho.<\/p>\n

2. Don\u2019t interrupt him while he\u2019s talking<\/h2>\n

\"Mi<\/p>\n

Una vez que consigas que tu hombre hable, no le interrumpas porque podr\u00eda retirarse de nuevo, y todo tu esfuerzo ser\u00eda en vano. Por lo tanto, la mejor opci\u00f3n es dejarle hablar, y s\u00f3lo intervenir si usted siente que \u00e9l est\u00e1 a punto de parar porque los hombres son realmente caso sensible cuando se trata de ser interrumpido.<\/p>\n

Men are really hard to open up, but once they\u2019re engaged in a conversation they enjoy, you will not be able to stop them.<\/p>\n

3. Hacerle re\u00edr<\/h2>\n

\"Mi<\/p>\n

Everyone thinks that only women are those who should be laughing at their partners\u2019 jokes. But, the truth is men like to be treated the same way. Remember the time when you two started dating.<\/p>\n

He probably enjoyed making you laugh all the time because it makes men feel like they\u2019ve accomplished something. They want to feel like that, too.<\/p>\n

Si una mujer hace re\u00edr a un hombre, se ha ganado su coraz\u00f3n al instante. Por muy loco que est\u00e9 y por muy ignorante que sea, no podr\u00e1 evitar re\u00edrse.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t have to be big. Simply make a funny comment about that guy on news or something similar. He will immediately cheer up because laughter is very soothing, and it deletes all the negative emotions he may be going through at the moment.<\/p>\n

4. Sorpr\u00e9ndele.<\/h2>\n

\"Mi<\/p>\n

Even though he\u2019s ignoring you, do not give up on the idea of surprising him. Men like to be surprised just as women do.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if it is something trivial like his favorite bread or something spicier like a new sexy outfit. I know it is hard to even think of sex games when he is ignoring you, but if you don\u2019t try, you can never know solve anything.<\/p>\n

Join him in the shower, and I\u2019m sure that he will not be able to reject you. Revive the old passion, and he will not only talk, he will start eating out of your hands.<\/p>\n

Los hombres son criaturas extra\u00f1as y, en la mayor\u00eda de los casos, la raz\u00f3n principal de su retirada es que perciben la falta de pasi\u00f3n en tu matrimonio. Puedes evitarlo animando vuestra vida sexual de vez en cuando.<\/p>\n

That way he will be unable to ignore you because he knows that he will not get a piece of his favorite cake \u2013 you.<\/p>\n

I know this is a little bit sneaky, but it\u2019s how they function, and we just have to adapt to their shifty nature.<\/p>\n

5. H\u00e1blale cuando menos se lo espere<\/h2>\n

\"Mi<\/p>\n

In order to make him open up to you, you have to talk to your man when he least expects it. For example, he\u2019s washing the car or perhaps the dishes and you subtly ask him random questions like: \u00bfLe ha gustado el juego?<\/em><\/p>\n

You can use this situation to ask him more important questions \u2013 questions concerning why he is ignoring you. If you ask something that he isn\u2019t expecting, he will subconsciously answer you without even realizing it.<\/p>\n

But, don\u2019t create a list of serious questions that you\u2019re about to ask him when he least expect it. Don\u2019t overdo it because he will get scared, and the situation will get even worse.<\/p>\n

If you call your man to talk to him face to face, he will most definitely get scared of you and the possible conversation. Men don\u2019t like direct conversations because they always think you\u2019re going to attack them for something they have done.<\/p>\n

Por ello, tienes que entablar con \u00e9l conversaciones indirectas como las descritas anteriormente. Tienes que atraerle a tu cueva. Ten tacto y ve siempre un paso por delante.<\/p>\n

Lee su mente y conecta los puntos. Piensa como un psic\u00f3logo, y juega sucio si es necesario, si eso va a hacer que se abra a ti.<\/p>\n

6. Tell him how you feel (but don\u2019t attack him)<\/h2>\n

\"Mi<\/p>\n

If everything above fails, don\u2019t hesitate to talk to him directly. Whatever you do, just don\u2019t attack him. Tell him gently your opinions about his behavior, and I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll succeed in making him understand you.<\/p>\n

Here it is important the way you construct your statements. For example, don\u2019t tell him: You\u2019re ignoring me! I don\u2019t know what to do anymore!<\/em><\/p>\n

Even though you\u2019re not attacking him directly, he may feel offended by it because of the statement\u2019s structure. Instead, try with: You\u2019re making me feel ignored. I\u2019m not sure what to do about it.<\/em><\/p>\n

This way you\u2019re not attacking him, but you\u2019re not indifferent either. You\u2019re just telling him how he is making you feel. You\u2019re not telling him what he is doing to you.<\/p>\n

Ten por seguro que empezar\u00e1 a responderte al instante porque se sentir\u00e1 mal y arrepentido de haberte hecho sentir as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

7. Don\u2019t be an open book. Leave some things to the imagination!<\/h2>\n

\"Mi<\/p>\n

Try using the same strategy he is forcing upon you, but you have to be very skillful and careful with how you\u2019re going to do it. Act like you\u2019re occupied all the time and too busy to notice him ignoring you.<\/p>\n

Go out with your favorite people, have a drink or two and don\u2019t answer his calls if he starts wondering where you are. And when you do answer his call, let him know that you\u2019re having a wonderful time (without him), and ask him whether he wants to join you.<\/p>\n

He will immediately abandon his man cave and start giving you attention because he knows that you\u2019re good without him.<\/p>\n

Instead concentrating on himself, he will give you his full attention which you\u2019ve certainly deserved.<\/p>\n

8. Mant\u00e9ngase positivo<\/h2>\n

\"Mi<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s hard to ser positivo<\/a> cuando ocurre algo as\u00ed, pero hazlo lo mejor que puedas e intenta no volverte loca por ello. Si te enfureces con tu hombre, \u00e9l te ignorar\u00e1 a\u00fan m\u00e1s y viceversa.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t worry about a thing because every little thing is going to be alright (as Bob Marley would say). Understand that if you stay positive for a certain period of time, chances are higher that he\u2019s going to open up to you.<\/p>\n

We all know that no one wants to open up to someone who is all negative about the situation. So, positive thoughts are the best weapon one can use against his \u201cenemy\u201d.<\/p>\n

En este caso, tu enemigo es \u00e9l que te ignora, y si sigues siendo persistente en resolver la situaci\u00f3n, el enemigo desaparecer\u00e1 sin m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

9. Pedir ayuda a alguien<\/h2>\n

\"Mi<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve tried everything and he\u2019s still not giving you any clues that he\u2019s about to open up to you, contact your friends to visit you. It is easier to resolve the issue when there\u2019s a third person in the room.<\/p>\n

The third person can have a better insight of the situation, and this will lead to a better understanding. Perhaps an even better solution is to contact his friends, and ask him them to tell you if they\u2019ve noticed something unusual about your husband.<\/p>\n

If they confirm it, try to persuade them to talk to him and tell you later if there\u2019s something you should know about him.<\/p>\n

10. Estar abierto al perd\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"Mi<\/p>\n

If you succeed in making him open up to you, please be open to forgiveness. Whatever the reason be, I\u2019m sure he will be more than happy to try to make it up to you.<\/p>\n

When he tells you that he is sorry, don\u2019t be stubborn and ignore him just to show that you can. Passive aggressive behavior is the worst enemy of marriage. If you want to save your marriage (and I know you do), then you have to learn to be open to forgiveness.<\/p>\n

There will always be someone who sins and the other who has to forgive. Perhaps next time you\u2019ll be the one who will ignore him and after, expect him to forgive you.<\/p>\n

Recuerda que el matrimonio consiste en comprometerse el uno con el otro. Es una construcci\u00f3n compleja que consiste en amor, pecados y perdones.<\/p>\n

\"Mi<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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